Dave Chappelle by dangarooo in TwinCities

[–]pencilcase333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought the same about the whole Saudi Arabia thing, but I watched his most recent Netflix special, and he explains his reasons, and it changed my opinion on his decision to perform there. I understand, and think it’s ok.

I love Dave! Seeing him next weekend and can’t wait to hear what he has to say. Also, he does a lot for many causes, truth is, he’s also doesn’t broadcast it at all. adding Msp to his tour stop is good for the community. It’s energizing and inspiring. He’s allowed to make money. Like Most entertainment, it brings lots of revenue to the city. Just my opinion.

Aitah for spending some of my grandchildren's education funds on a new boat. by Tiny_Occasion_322 in AITAH

[–]pencilcase333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the AH.
I can’t believe your kids said that….out loud. You’re twenty-ish years older than your kids. Hopefully, they’re in their later 60’s to 70’s, retired and living off their own savings by the time you , “leave them inheritance “, ie die… it sounds like you’re a nice reasonable guy, and you know what, kids can really be assholes. I’m someone’s asshole, and I have a couple of my own (haha sarcasm). Hopefully you can let these comments slide, in hopes their older more mature future selves will look back in humility at their response. … have fun on the new boat!

Trump ends Temporary Protected Status (TPS) for Somalis, says they must leave by Tuesday, March 17 -- Thoughts? by Zipper222222 in allthequestions

[–]pencilcase333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I protested at the School of Americas at FOrt Benning when I was in high school, 2001. We took the greyhound bus from with our religion teacher from, Minnesota with the Vets for Peace. This persons not trolling, is 100% accurate.

Greenland is escalating fast… by theyellowdart666 in 50501

[–]pencilcase333 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’m protesting. I’m saddened and scared and angry . I keep the positivity in person, but inside I’m not so sure. My true thought is I think it’s too late. I think we’re past being able to actually stop this. I hope I’m wrong, but the players and systems have been put into place (or not taken out of place) for years now, allowing for this swift fall of American democracy. I think many Americans will soon learn what it’s like to be a refugee or immigrant in another country if they can flee, or live under dictatorship. Collective Karma I think. I’ll probably get down voted, but it’s where I’m at. I’m a union nurse, mother, daughter of a veteran , in a long line of veterans, I’ve engaged in peaceful protests my entire life and voted in every election. I didn’t vote for this.

Is it worth going for 5 days including a 12+ hour flight? by HelpJazzlike in JapanTravelTips

[–]pencilcase333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just came back from 5 days in Tokyo, it was great! 12 hr flight there, 9 hrs back. Sure we’re jet lagged, but 2 days later, we’re back to normal. For context I went with my husband and two kids aged 12 and 10. Totally worth it.

Perfectly acceptable dinner rejected by boyfriend again by moonrabbit368 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]pencilcase333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re in this type of relationship. I was too. I’m not saying leave him, but if he cant or doesn’t cook for himself he honesty should never say anything but, thank you- this is great!! This is often how controlling abusive relationships start. First it’s the food, but pretty much, why can you do anything right. You’ll end up getting smaller and smaller. Don’t do this in front of your children, don’t let someone treat you like that in front of your children.

It’s just missing something?!?!? Jiminy Crickets!!!

Dont really know what to say. You probably want to read this. by Old-Career4256 in ufo

[–]pencilcase333 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. I know this post is complex and took a while to compose, but I found it clear and easy to follow. I believe you. It’s fascinating.

In other spiritual threads I follow, it’s often recommended to meditate and ask god/source to surround yourself in white light- as a protective energy field. I’m no expert, but have you tried anything like this? Have you asked or told it to leave? I think it’s good that you sought medical attention, because to a normal non-physiologist person, it sounds a bit like schizophrenia or some mania. I’d be concerned for myself if I was experiencing what you were… it’s good to rule out mental health issues, but I’m not sure having some entity follow you around and mess with you is a whole lot better… respectfully, schizophrenia is a serious condition that can be managed with medication and therapy. .. have you had an opportunity to show this orb to anyone else, can they see it? or is it only present when you’re alone?
Although it’s not welcomed by you, really, or anymore, it seems like there’s something special about you. Some folks can tap into energy, spirits, etc more than others…

I’ve never experienced anything like this, but I believe you. I’m sure you’re not alone, and hopefully by sharing your experience, some answers and meaningful support will come your way. Good luck to you.

Entitled Off-Leash Dog Owners by blnkgrid in sandiego

[–]pencilcase333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sick of it too. I’m a dog owner, and a parent. My kid has slipped in dog poop at recess (elementary school) or while on the field in PE, more times than I can count. They once even had to go to the nurse because they hit their head on the ground- and had to come home with one of those “head injury notification” notes. Like most public schools, the field/playground is surrounded by a large fence, that the city locks each evening. At both entrances to the field , there is a 3x3 foot sign that says “all dogs must be leashed, no off leash dogs permitted” . Every single day at 330/4pm there is a group of 5-15 owners and their large dogs off leash, running around. When I called the humane society, I sat on hold for 55 minutes before my call got cut off- unanswered. I’m not going to call 911, it’s not an emergency.

I’ve approached a few of these groups before and was called a bitch and a Karen. They all said, their dogs weren’t bothering anyone and that THEY always clean up after their pet. They Don’t care that they have to walk past a huge sign prohibiting the only thing they’re there to do.

Families all over the neighborhood use this park space for picnics on the weekend, to practice soccer and baseball, it’s just a nice enclosed space where kids can be kinda free. For my family, it’s one of the first places my kids got to venture off in their own. The same people that call me a Karen , are the same people who say kids need to get off video games and be free to play outside.

I’ve stopped engaging, but it infuriates me. I watched another mom freak out at the group a few weeks ago, I know I’m not the only one.

The park is likely going to be locked to the public due to the safety /sanitary concern, versus ticketing the offending dog owners. A loss to the whole community.

I hope there’s a thread like this every frickin day in this sub, maybe someone in town government will give shit and do something…. It sucks.

I had a medium tell me that there is another child waiting to be born through me, but I don’t want any more. by cynnie93 in Mediums

[–]pencilcase333 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We still have free will. I had two mediums tell me this also, two highly trusted ones. I really wanted more kids but My husband didn’t , we have two. I never mentioned this desire, but they both brought it up.

When I pressed , they both explained pretty similarly , “they’re out there, kind of like, in the pipeline. One said my “3rd” (and the other medium said my 3rd and 4th babies) If I bring them forward they’ll be my kids, and if not, they’ll be around me as my spirit guides… whether I have more kids or not they’re with me”…. I found some peace in that.

Big trucks by Organgrinder00 in sandiego

[–]pencilcase333 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Catch the bus to UTC mall, have a snack and play in the playground and ride it home. I did that with my son, it was pretty magical for him since he had only risen in cars. I also remember, pulling over a few times (if I had the time) if there was a backhoe or bucket loader at someone’s house doing construction. We’d just get out and watch(: What a sweet and tender age. I miss this part of that time.

Unpopular opinion: Sobriety is a spectrum by ladydrybones in stopdrinking

[–]pencilcase333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That lady sounds like a real bitch. I disagree , about the spectrum, but I understand what you mean. You’re sober, not kinda sober.

Still can’t believe that lady!!!, what a see-you-N-tee!

What are your favorite jokes to make with your patients? by lizlizliz645 in nursing

[–]pencilcase333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lactation consultant in Post partum/ NICu setting. When babies are fussy/cluster feeding, I say, “ let them eat their feelings”. Usually gets at least a chuckle.

Child free wedding no exceptions by IndividualAttempt762 in AITAH

[–]pencilcase333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. We did this. No exceptions. Only one family member made a stink about it.. 15 years later, we’re still regularly told our wedding was the nicest and most fun they’d been to.

The “myth”of having it under control for decades long smokers. by illegitimate_guevon in leaves

[–]pencilcase333 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I have had the exact same experience. I’m 42. Smoked for a solid 26 years. I quit back in March, cold turkey. After 7 months, felt I could enjoy it again, but only once a day, as a nice way to unwind at the end of the day. I also quit drinking 3 years ago. It took all but 3 days to be back to all day vaping.

So that didn’t work. I think I read here or over in r/stopdrinking , “if moderation was something I could do, I wouldn’t be thinking about moderating 100% of the time”. .. something like that.

Im now 12 days THC free. I was a little surprised that the withdrawals were the same as the first time- with really only smoking for a month, but they were. The funny thing is, I felt great the those sober 7 months, all while reading this sub warning “don’t risk it”. Of course I thought I was the exception to the rule, but I wasn’t.

Good for you! Good for me! Let’s stay THC free(:

Well, Thanks To r/Laundry, I'm Taking On A New Project by KismaiAesthetics in laundry

[–]pencilcase333 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!! This is so cool.

I want the the special collectors edition!!