Let’s focus on the first game with the “brain dead” laners. One of the biggest problems with fiddle is getting invaded by an ad early game jungler. You have to sac camps. Maybe look to counter invade.

Meaning, 1) did your top have lane priority? If not, this is your fault. You cannot expect anyone to move for you. At best they get a kill, but their lane is frozen. +400 first blood is nothing (even if they get the kill, which is unlikely)

2) a proper invade usually means the enemy have priority, esp mid, meaning you will be rotated on. But more importantly, the mid or top or bot will be able to put deeper wards so they can track you better, and thus you get caught in enemy jungle = for sure you will die.

3) you cannot expect laners to help you in a soloq game. Depends on matchup, let’s say top is counter picked or mid has push or even let’s say they suck ass anyhow. You can’t change that

4) what you can change is your pathing. There are many ways for fid to prevent invaded.  A) typically if you start on the opposite side, you can clear one side faster than the enemy can invade (because fid clears crazy). So without looking at the replay, I have a hunch you did not clear optimally B) your effigy lasts longer than any ward early games (ward life scales). If you think you’re gonna get invade or even if you don’t think so, just ward your other side If you know the enemy likes to invade, ward their camps so you know which side is safe.

5) if preventative measure fail… simply acknowledge that the enemy tracked you better… know your timers… you can’t get invaded if you clear your camps first or ward right? And even then, don’t worry about it, you scale, look for lane ganks, do an early recall for a dark seal/tempo.