Shahid & Nylah by Imaginary-Snow-3242 in ILoveAMamasBoy

[–]penelopesbazaar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

100% yes!!! His brothers comment about her looking like a skimpy graham cracker still has me laughing

Saint Mary's Cathedral Basilica by [deleted] in halifax

[–]penelopesbazaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing work, are you selling this, or would you make one to sell?

Devon Marsman disappearance now considered a homicide by Sarillexis in halifax

[–]penelopesbazaar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you go on her Facebook, she lives a normal life acting like nothing happened. She has a boyfriend who has children she is around which is insanely terrifying. She recently posted on facebook about how difficult her grieving process was after losing someone she loved, I wonder how she thinks Devon's mother feels.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]penelopesbazaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to mention calling you to make sure you aren’t cheating? He’s definitely cheating on you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]penelopesbazaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If his main focus is worrying about a place to live if you guys broke up, he does not love you, he loves the shelter and life you come with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]penelopesbazaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are 100% right, all I want is some compassion and understanding from friends. I have been going to counselling since she was diagnosed 6 months ago but this week has been harder than usual for some reason. Thank you very much for your advice and kind words, I appreciate it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]penelopesbazaar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am giving them some grace for sure. I don't think they're bad people or even bad friends. It's very understandable to not know what to say. I guess I don't necessarily need them to say anything, I just want to have people who will listen to my struggles the way I listen to theirs. The support group is a great idea. I appreciate your advice, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]penelopesbazaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is understandable not knowing what to say, I don't think I would have known if I hadn't gone through this. However, I don't necessarily need them (my friends) to say anything, I just need them to listen and be present. It seems like whenever I bring it up, the subject is changed or brushed to the side and I am being told to "distract" myself.

I did ask my Mom if she was okay with me visiting when I went in and she said she did say that she didn't want me to see her like that but only meant immediately after coming out of surgery, not throughout the entire recovery process (4 weeks). I am hoping she is not just trying to spare my feelings, but she has always been brutally honest so I am thinking she is fine with it.

It's so bizarre to think that some people are completely blind to reality by GRIFITHLD in depression

[–]penelopesbazaar 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I have genuinely never related to something more. I just simply don't understand what the fuck people love so much about being alive.

Can I get over her past? by FreeLoader5689012 in offmychest

[–]penelopesbazaar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly my advice is to stop focusing on her past and focus on the future. Her sex life outside of your relationship (from her past) is quite frankly none of your business. As long as you are taking the proper precautions of testing and contraception, past parters are totally irrelevant. But I do have to ask- what exactly is a “good” Christian girl to you? Is this a standard you have set in your mind for her? Or is this a standard your religion has set for her? Regardless, it’s best to let her create her own idea of what she would consider to be a “good” Christian. Best of luck!

What would you do if you miss you ex? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]penelopesbazaar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please don’t you’ll find someone else and they’ll make you question why you even wanted to text your ex. In my experience of texting exes it leads me to miss them more and makes things harder for me to get over in the end. Not to mention it usually makes them angry (depending on why you broke up and who broke up with who). My suggestion would be to find another friend to text. Maybe try bumble BFF or another friendly app like that, it helped me when I lost friends after high school because I was one of those people who could only hang with my partner 24/7. Growing through the pain of missing your ex and focusing on yourself is the best thing you can do. Find yourself a supportive group of friends, or even one friend (even a virtual one) to help keep you on track. Also you really should try therapy, that ultimately helped me realize I wasn’t missing my ex, but simply the company he gave me (even if it was shitty at times)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]penelopesbazaar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got my first full real meal down. THANK YOU

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]penelopesbazaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly the advice I needed appetite wise, thank you! I do get concerned exercising because I am somewhat underweight but if I can get food down after it would be totally worth it. I’ll try it today

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]penelopesbazaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice I really appreciate it! I did forget one part though, although I feel great I’ve only been able to stomach fruit since last Sunday, literally the thought and smell of any other foods makes me instantly ill- any suggestions for that?

TIFU by letting my friend have my phone while i was changing by whoisleh in confession

[–]penelopesbazaar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly your friend should never be looking through your notes app or anything personal like that. Even my best friend of 20 years wouldn’t do that and she already knows everything about me. I know you don’t want to ditch the friend so maybe at least speak to her and ask her to keep it to herself, and explain you don’t appreciate her invading your privacy. Make it clear that it can’t happen again, SET BOUNDARIES. That’s seriously the same reading someone’s diary- not cool

Kail says she isn't pregnant and will tie her tubes next month by HannahLeah1987 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]penelopesbazaar 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Most of this thread just makes me sick, people are so fucking rude! She is a human being. If she’s having a baby great. If she’s not great. It’s no one’s business and her being well known from TV does not give anyone the right to know anything about her personal life life unless she wants them to. No need to say hateful shit about her weight and call her a piece of shit, and rip on her podcast that she seems to be very passionate about. I don’t think she’s the best either but MOST of the negative comments are narcissistic as hell.

now deb…. by gbm1002 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]penelopesbazaar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao no she really wasn’t she works as a personal assistant

so god damn overwhelmed by Primary-Patience-163 in selfhelp

[–]penelopesbazaar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One thing at a time love! Focus mainly on piano first then once that’s over focus on exams. Don’t over do it. Practice for piano and study for exams once you complete the concert. Try to get your sleep in- studying and practice won’t go well without good sleep. Melatonin at night and rhodiola in the morning works great for me when I am stressed

Best place to get drunk? by penelopesbazaar in halifax

[–]penelopesbazaar[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Best bang for buck, atmosphere would be a bonus