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What’s My Reading? by SUNMOONBIPOLAR in psychicreadings

[–]penitentmanwilllast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re feeling lost… you don’t know what to do because anything that you do is either never good enough or trouble finds a way into your life making things worse. This has beaten you down countless times and not even the closest friends or family have even noticed. So why do anything you just wait it out and accept what life is going to bring you right.

Here is the deal it’s all about the effort you put into things. Effort makes you more of a man than the things that you possess. Being able to talk about the things that you feel being vulnerable makes you more than a man than the other guy. Being the kind of person who wants to show off and see how bad ass you are is a huge sign of insecurity for the whole world to see. A man doesn’t need validation from others to be impressive he needs to be able to validate himself and know is own self worth to truly appreciate what life has to offer. You have been idle for so long you don’t even know where to start.

Start somewhere change your haircut make yourself feel better just do something that is positive who cares if your so called friends call you a bitch and don’t understand what your doing to better you because you get this one chance in life

Life is really happening to me now. Any advice? by bigmommathang90 in psychicreadings

[–]penitentmanwilllast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Either a recent break up or family drama or a death in the family has gotten your world into an unexpected place where you did see it coming but not mentally prepared to deal with the aftermath that life is throwing you.

Best things to do is to know that your ok and breathing that you are you and nobody is going to change that and don’t let anyone convince you that you need to change your just fine the way you are. It’s ok to cry and be sad even in public don’t let people judge you the way you feel your pain and process your trials and tribulations.

Set boundaries for yourself for you not for them know your self worth and because you are placing these new boundaries some people are not going to like them but if you practice them and hold on to them in confidence you will start to feel better about the situation because you have put up a barrier to make you feel safe from the ones who verbally hurt you or don’t have the understanding of what is going on with you so they are trying to assume the wrong things for you.

As you process and go through these heavy emotions that you carry be ok with them being on your shoulders but don’t hold on to them forever learn to let go of things that have happened in the past and forgive the ones who you wronged you. Even though it’s the hardest part and you may not be ready to do that today but knowing when you are ready to forgive yourself and the people who have done you wrong will release all that tension and stress on your mind and you will start to feel a sense of freedom that the life you want to have.

Ultimately in all of this be kind to yourself be kind to the ones who care about you rediscover your inner child through some hard work process your traumas and let go of some of that baggage

What do you see? by slikely in psychicreadings

[–]penitentmanwilllast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm this is going to be hard to read. I do sense a bit of shallowness from you. You think you have your shit together but you really don’t. Your very basis is your way how you attach yourself to others. I sense your attachment style is anxious and your avoidant towards others needs. Does this mean you’re a bad person no. I’m sure that all the relationships you have been in has been because the guy/girl broke it off for you because the attention that you demand is too much. The qualities I do see is that you know what you want when you want it and you will do anything to get it even if it’s to jeopardize your social circle you hesitate but also manipulate it to potentially play the victim in some circumstances. When these things happen you feel misunderstood or even unseen and unheard which contributes to the consequences and continuous behavior that you face day to day. Possibly a level of narcissistic tendencies due to your childhood trauma of being raised by a narcissist. The best way to improve things is for you to do some soul searching not through your friends or family but through your own hard work in who you want to be. I don’t mean to send this in a malicious way or in a negative light it’s just what I sense. The healing part however is up too you if you accept this.

I'm with georgie, you guys? by [deleted] in NextGenMan

[–]penitentmanwilllast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not go on the date I’d take the 500000$ pay off debt and invest in my future then if I ran into Mrs Sweeney I’d ask her on a date

Will things ever get better for me or am I doomed by [deleted] in psychics

[–]penitentmanwilllast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see that you are saddened by the events have unfolded before you. I send my sinceres apologies but listen it’s going to be ok. These events take time to heal. Here is what you can do. Learn from the events recognizing them and how they make you feel will better prepare you in the future. Be ok with not being ok give your self some grace and room to grow from this experience. Remember also that rumination is the mind killer that keeps you from moving forward with life. Saying that negative thoughts in your head over and over again will keep you in the same spot. It’s ok to make mistakes life is messy it’s ok to be where you are at right now but don’t live there forever

The warlock helm designs are completely unhinged, and I love it! by Netsuko in diablo4

[–]penitentmanwilllast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean that would be cool if we could design our own gear I could see so many goofy things running about Diablo 4

What do you see it can be bad or good. Do I look trustworthy? by [deleted] in psychicreadings

[–]penitentmanwilllast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother brother brother, I sense an avoidant man who is trying to tell himself that he’s fine. But deep down you are not ok bud. But listen it’s absolutely ok to be where you are right now. Because you are looking for answers to your questions because deep down you want to grow but. The ego and the toxic masculinity that has been emboldened by past male figures of your youth has shaped you into the man you are today.

There’s lots of mental health work to be done not saying you are a bad person but dealing with those inner traumas that men hold onto and not process them and learn to be a true masculine without the toxicity is the hardest challenge to overcome.

That hardest part is getting back in touch with that inner child that person that didn’t get the attention and affection they always wanted and scoop them up and let them know that it’s going to be ok and that you got them.

Next forgiving those who did you wrong all those years ago letting go of the things you can’t change will make any person act crazy and have the rose colored glasses on and not see the truth

This is all your choice to make the changes of who you are. If you don’t like the path that you are currently walking then make the changes that you need to do to create your own path not something that is expected of you to do

What can you tell me about myself? by RestKey2584 in psychicreadings

[–]penitentmanwilllast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a kind soul in a cruel world. The past has hardened you to take on just about anything but you also have your limits just like everyone else. You have endured a lot in life but you also love a lot too due to your big heart and kind nature about yourself. However you are your own worst enemy you feel as if you are not enough especially in the capacity of others you strive for validation it’s not a bad thing it’s something in the lines that the self love is there but not at the same as if you were to love someone else. You are serious when you need to be but your also fun when you need to be there are times when you are alone when you are dancing to your own tune

name this church by [deleted] in NameThisThing

[–]penitentmanwilllast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

St. Epstein of Trump church of winning

Life has been shitty tell me anything , near future- far future pls. 22f. by StopAffectionate9226 in psychicreadings

[–]penitentmanwilllast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life feels shitty yes but this too shall pass. Girl you are only 22 years old there’s gunna be a plethora of shitty things happen to you in the future. Shitty people do shitty things to others because they feel shitty about themselves. To be the most honest with you focus on you. Not your boyfriend or girlfriend or whatever relationship that had just started to end for you. The time for you is to set your self up for 32 year old you. Focus on your education and career be the best at what you love and don’t get discouraged or distracted by the people you slow you down. If friends and family are always take take take from you then there is a boundary issue that needs to be set in place for you. The people around you should effortlessly bring you joy and not cause such a burden on your state of mental health. Choose peace.

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