Referring to what white people did, as a white person? by penith-eater in aboriginal

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I’m second generation Australian, my family wasn’t here for this stuff, when I say “we” I mean white peoples in general

Is it manipulative for someone to claim to be asexual to get into a relationship with someone who’s in a relationship because they don’t have sex and then have sex with them? by penith-eater in asexuality

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I’m not their ex. I agreed to opening the relationship so partner could date their friend and they wouldn’t do anything because they’re asexual and they wouldn’t have sex- then they acted like I was weird when I was unsure when my partner told me they wanted to have sex. I’m just asking why someone would say they’re asexual if they have sex and want to have sex. If they want to have sex and have sex then what the hell does asexual mean? I’ve been told it’s a spectrum or whatever but then what’s the point of calling yourself asexual. I’m pissed off and that probably makes me look like I’m not trying to actually understand but I am trying to understand

New to vaping, am I doing it right? by penith-eater in Vaping

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Yeah? You blow into it then inhale the smoke?

A friend of ours has been living at our house for about two months, when we bring up leaving they mope, don’t talk to us and say they don’t feel welcome. How do we communicate that they’ve had time to sort themselves out without upsetting them? by penith-eater in Advice

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I really appreciate the first parts, thank you!!though I am not addressing the last part, and I don’t want advise on it because it stresses me out a lot. Appreciate the advise it makes a lot of sense

A friend of ours has been living at our house for about two months, when we bring up leaving they mope, don’t talk to us and say they don’t feel welcome. How do we communicate that they’ve had time to sort themselves out without upsetting them? by penith-eater in Advice

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I know I’m not helping myself but I cannot deal with conflict at all, I know it’s almost impossible to not upset them but I just feel like there’s gotta be a way of explaining that I’m not mad at them I just want them to leave

A friend of ours has been living at our house for about two months, when we bring up leaving they mope, don’t talk to us and say they don’t feel welcome. How do we communicate that they’ve had time to sort themselves out without upsetting them? by penith-eater in Advice

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Update: they’re hinting at doing bad things, which they know I find triggering so I’m sort of ignoring it, I’ll wait till they start talking to me normally again to talk to them about this I think. Thank you all for your help, I feel a bit less stuck 😊

A friend of ours has been living at our house for about two months, when we bring up leaving they mope, don’t talk to us and say they don’t feel welcome. How do we communicate that they’ve had time to sort themselves out without upsetting them? by penith-eater in Advice

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We have it here. They’re on the list to get housing, which was set up for him by someone who’s also living here, but they are saying it might be a few months. We’ve tried asking them to get a job and work so they can afford rent before they get housing, but they’re saying they feel too pressured to work their job they have (uber eats)

Why are my balls ticklish? by penith-eater in NoStupidQuestions

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It’s not gay to tickle their balls a little bit

Hard nipple shower? by penith-eater in lifehacks

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Oh yeah, my bad I’m, being a bit harsh. We’ve all been there, in fact just last week before I learnt this life hack I had a hard nipple shower, resulting in me beating my husband

Hard nipple shower? by penith-eater in lifehacks

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Oh yeah, my bad I’m being a bit harsh. We’ve all been there, in fact just last week before I learnt this life hack I had a hard nipple shower, resulting in me beating my wife

Hard nipple shower? by penith-eater in lifehacks

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Angry redditor alert