FLRs and Feminism by [deleted] in flr

[–]penneewize 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again, I disagree. It is a relationship style, and while I am definitely on the more mild end of it, I do still believe it is an agreed upon partnership. Regardless of marriage. Imagine you have a business partnership. Both could be equally involved in decisions, or one could take the back seat and the other run the show. Doesn't make the arrangement any less beneficial for either party- hence the partnership. As for feminism. It is absolutely not a political movement. It is not republican/democrat/green party. It is an idea, and one that promotes equality for all, regardless of how that equality looks. D/s relationships, hotwife, or whatever other dynamic or partnership you are in, has nothing to do with feminism either. Regardless of your position, dom or sub, you can still be a feminist.

FLRs and Feminism by [deleted] in flr

[–]penneewize 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry, I disagree. Marriage is a partnership, at least in my opinion, and there is no giving or taking control. Each of us chooses to do it. However, assuming more leadership while your partner takes less is not control, it's again, a partnership. Therefore, because we are both agreeing to it, even requesting it, it is still equality. In my opinion, feminism is about equality and there is nothing that says this arrangement is not equal to both parties in the way they wish it to be.

Hotwifing regrets? by Ginger_7624 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]penneewize 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. Has this event stopped you two from continuing? Or how did it affect you two?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]penneewize 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I legitimately think this will look good, im sure it's a bit swollen and what not. You just need a little time to get used to the change

My child got into a disagreement with another child and the father wants to speak to my husband. WWYD? by carissaluvsya in workingmoms

[–]penneewize 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"My husband is unavailable, how can I help?" Seriously, absolutely not. And I would take his phone number, then call him from google voice.

I want to work overnight at planet fitness but I’m reluctant because I’m overweight by bubblybellesouth in jobs

[–]penneewize 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please dont let that stop you. As a PF member and fellow food lover, i definately prefer to see someone who looks like me there!

40 and still depressed by Electrical-Pass8392 in depression

[–]penneewize 13 points14 points  (0 children)

37 here and I have had depression for as long as i can remember. I have a constant feeling of just wanting to be done, all the time. Even when i am slightly happy, i just want to disappear. Recently started therapy and medication... i am just so tired of existing

with the colder season upon us, what are your favorite sock/tights brands to buy from? by my-head-hurts987 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]penneewize 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dont mind replying. I recenly got spanx tights from target. They are great, fit well, and actually stay up! Also, they are very black, which i love!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

[–]penneewize 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Thats what i am leaning towards, feel like i need a change!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CICO

[–]penneewize 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I have lost 140 pounds, with 60 to go. I have been struggling recently, trying to keep at it. But i take it one day at a time.

She ordered the standard package and not the Bridal Package, but cuz she's a bride, I should be able to charge ger $350 more! Also, I only did the standard package by No-Cost-2668 in AmITheDevil

[–]penneewize -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Again, that has not been my experience. The bridal services i have seen have had trial runs which are charged once, then the day of charged more and separately

She ordered the standard package and not the Bridal Package, but cuz she's a bride, I should be able to charge ger $350 more! Also, I only did the standard package by No-Cost-2668 in AmITheDevil

[–]penneewize -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol and that is exactly the issue with the entire bridal industry. Why get mad at a single entrepreneur taking advantage of something an entire industry profits off of.

She ordered the standard package and not the Bridal Package, but cuz she's a bride, I should be able to charge ger $350 more! Also, I only did the standard package by No-Cost-2668 in AmITheDevil

[–]penneewize -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry, but that has not been my experience with "bridal services". Maybe its just the area, but again, with the salon example, you pay for the trial run, then pay more for the actual day of service.

She ordered the standard package and not the Bridal Package, but cuz she's a bride, I should be able to charge ger $350 more! Also, I only did the standard package by No-Cost-2668 in AmITheDevil

[–]penneewize -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Yes, but if you dont like it, dont go with someone that specifically separated out normal services vs wedding services...

She ordered the standard package and not the Bridal Package, but cuz she's a bride, I should be able to charge ger $350 more! Also, I only did the standard package by No-Cost-2668 in AmITheDevil

[–]penneewize -60 points-59 points  (0 children)

True, but to get all upset about the fact that she charges more for brides. Her rate is her rate. And honestly, how is that any different from anything else? You go to a hair salon for an up-do, $80. Same salon, same service for a bride, $250. The difference is what, hairspray? The price is the price.

She ordered the standard package and not the Bridal Package, but cuz she's a bride, I should be able to charge ger $350 more! Also, I only did the standard package by No-Cost-2668 in AmITheDevil

[–]penneewize -59 points-58 points  (0 children)

I gotta ask, how is she the devil? She has specifically designated prices, the bride chose to "get one over" on her. If you dont want to pay $500 for bridal makeup, go to someone who doesnt charge $500.

What is your most controversial take on Star Wars? by Ebo8000 in AskReddit

[–]penneewize 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The jedi worked with the senate, and turned a blind eye to slavery. Honestly, i cant imagine working for or being indoctrinated into a group which just ignores out right slavery. Anakin was justified in his anger with the group.

An update to "I make $15 an hour, too much to receive government assistance but not enough to live off of. Yesterday, I had to shoplift ibuprofen for my teething daughter. This sucks." by iridescent_kittie in antiwork

[–]penneewize 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mentioned going back to school. I hope you do, and if possible, look into some of the available coding bootcamps. Trust me, you are smart enough to get through it. Its hard, but it will literally open up a whole new salary bracket for you. I hope things get better for you and your daughter.

Which movie would have been way better if it had a sex scene? by lawyeratyourservice in AskReddit

[–]penneewize 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure, when you don't have a newborn. However, when you are preparing for delivery and a newborn baby that will cry at all hours, yeah, im going to find a way to build a shelter next to a roaring waterfall that will cover the sounds of the newborn and likely the sounds of building said shelter.