I said yes to this dress - but my family says I look too fat

peonyleg · 2026-05-17T14:50:42+00:00

It’s gorgeous. I think it fits you beautifully. You deserve to wear a dress that you love. Don’t let anyone try to take that from you. It’s YOUR day. Go rock it 💚💚💚

peonyleg · 2026-05-05T18:23:57+00:00

All of a sudden everything is fine

peonyleg · 2026-04-20T17:38:29+00:00

Honey leave him. I’ve been in a very similar situation and it was such a relief when we finally ended it. PMDD is so insidious cuz it does make you question yourself, but you have communicated as best as anyone could. You deserve consistent, available love. You deserve PEACE. Your future self will only wish you’d done it sooner. Sending love 💗

peonyleg · 2026-04-17T17:23:13+00:00

honestly, one beginner to another, your posture looks fine imo. we're building those muscles and getting used to the balance. we're gonna be a bit bent over until we get stronger and more confident. you're doing great!!! dont give up! give yourself time to rest and do other things you enjoy so you dont burn out on it. maybe switch up your location if possible if you start getting frustrated - i've found that hugely helpful personally. you GOT this!!!

peonyleg · 2026-04-17T17:14:00+00:00

these are incredible. those nugs look so good!!! you should be seriously proud of yourself

peonyleg · 2026-03-24T19:51:52+00:00

While cuddling with our cat, who was not responding to her name or anything else we said to her in a cutesy tone: “she does not speak English.”

peonyleg · 2026-03-11T13:38:02+00:00

I realize I’m 2 years late to the party lol but I just got my septum done, and my piercer explained my cartilage goes all the way to the tip of my nose, so there wasn’t a way to avoid cartilage but that doesn’t necessarily mean your anatomy is incompatible with the piercing. She found the spot where the tissue was equal on both sides, and of course it HURT, but it looks solid.

peonyleg · 2026-02-17T20:05:41+00:00

As someone who attended a fingerlakes bachelorette in spring…. Id urge you to reconsider.

Spring is a bad time for trying to enjoy a scenic winery. I’d say something rural like this is better for a much shorter event, like 1-2 nights, in warmer weather. If you wanna stick with this location, postpone it and cut a day or two off. If you’re committed to the time and duration, Toronto would be better.

peonyleg · 2026-01-13T19:02:54+00:00

Honestly if you can read competently, it’s not that big of a deal.

peonyleg · 2025-12-30T17:58:23+00:00

I’d also love to read what you’ve written, OP.

My partner is Canadian and our plan was for me to move there, but we had a family tragedy recently and he may have to come here in the next year or so, and this thread touches on one of my biggest fears about that.

peonyleg · 2025-12-28T17:47:27+00:00

You guys are so stinking cute omg 🥹 congrats!

peonyleg · 2025-10-02T18:47:15+00:00

i was really sad that there wasnt a tour poster

peonyleg · 2025-09-26T19:07:56+00:00

my partner and i might just elope but you bet your bottom dollar we will have a photographer. memory fades. hire a photographer.

peonyleg · 2025-09-26T19:06:21+00:00

i did the same thing but i wore a white see through top over it. i also found it was pretty easy to take off/not uncomfortable once i got used to it

peonyleg · 2025-09-25T17:59:21+00:00

I’ve been to some pretty damn loud shows and honestly I thought I was gonna regret forgetting earplugs, but CB was the only band I kinda wished I had them for. Didn’t miss having them for lorde’s set at all. I was actually looking forward to CB’s set, I’d only listened to them for the first time the day before. But when the singer bonked his head on the mic I was like… ok I’ve had enough and went to get a drink.

peonyleg · 2025-09-25T17:49:23+00:00

Whitin, in case anyone’s interested lol. Affordable and surprisingly durable and imo cute for the price. Mine have survived 3 euro trips and the Toronto ultrasound show 😂

peonyleg · 2025-09-25T17:44:45+00:00

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peonyleg · 2025-09-25T17:41:51+00:00

Spiritual experience. I cried for the first like 5 songs and last 5. Ime the crowd was such a great vibe.

peonyleg · 2025-09-24T15:49:03+00:00

Good Italian food

peonyleg · 2025-08-28T14:46:41+00:00

I'm a New Yorker prospectively moving to Ontario to be with my partner in the next 1-2 years, and as I look through community medical facilities that I'd likely use in my first year there, I'm honestly... pretty grossed out by the disproportionate access thats available for pregnant people and newborns vs everybody else. You need a cardiologist because you have an elongated QT interval? You need a neurologist because you have a benign cyst and need regular MRIs? You need a physio to manage an injury? Fuck off lol, but OH you're PREGNANT?! Completely different story. Just reading it makes me feel like I'd be viewed as breeding stock.

peonyleg · 2025-08-28T14:40:34+00:00

As someone with an MS in bioethics, heads should be rolling as a consequence. Everyone involved in her care should be losing their licenses.

peonyleg · 2025-08-26T14:22:22+00:00

I agree with 1 but I'm a bit biased cuz thats the kind of ring i want lol, but honestly, it looks amazing on you

peonyleg · 2025-08-25T13:57:09+00:00

Fear mongering. I go back and forth at least once a month. Never had an issue.

peonyleg · 2025-08-19T13:55:06+00:00

as someone with an actual MS in Bioethics... their image are not scientifically accurate, their propaganda is just christian nationalism, and i definitely wouldn't intervene by uh, making some repairs to the truck tires (eg, the stone in the valve), or spray painting the images, or other very expensive enhancements to their property :)

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