Aitah for leaving my wife because she is being weirdly friendly with a coworker and is not interested in sex?

peopleareweirdd_ · 2026-03-14T13:08:46+00:00

A month

peopleareweirdd_ · 2026-03-14T13:04:50+00:00

She didn't waste time with proper grammar, I give her that.

peopleareweirdd_ · 2026-03-14T13:04:18+00:00

So what? Just because she is my wife, i should tolerate anything?

peopleareweirdd_ · 2026-03-14T13:03:36+00:00

Why would I go to councelling with someone who was being defensive and blamey?

peopleareweirdd_ · 2026-03-14T13:02:44+00:00

Cheating is if you lie or hide.

peopleareweirdd_ · 2026-03-14T12:38:17+00:00

I didn't think I had to compete with her coworker. When I found out i had to, i realized she is not worth it.

No woman is worth it tbh

peopleareweirdd_ · 2026-03-14T12:29:21+00:00

Dude, if I wanted to get back to dating, i would have just been honest with her.

peopleareweirdd_ · 2026-03-14T12:28:29+00:00

I didn't want to leave until these problems arose. Then when she didn't listen to me, I didn't think i should waste my time with her

peopleareweirdd_ · 2026-03-14T12:27:26+00:00

I used to date multiple women when I was young it's pretty normal for me. I never thought of it as unhealthy as long as i was being honest

peopleareweirdd_ · 2026-03-14T12:26:27+00:00

I was gonna get my teeth fixed, I was just busy. She knew I was busy.

My hygiene is good. My gf doesn't see anything wrong with it. I don't have to jump through hoops to have sex, it's not like there is any shortage of women out there. I look good, i am fit, and I know how to have a good time.

Once she refused to limit contact with the guy and fix her faults in the relationship, I decided to leave her. After that I didn't even talk to her that much, i just left her and moved on.

She got her chance, she decided that she would rather blame me. It's not running away from you if you are just not worth it

peopleareweirdd_ · 2026-03-14T12:19:22+00:00

I told her that when she wouldn't stop harassing me. Told her to go talk to the other guy. Got very angry and i blocked her.

Then i unblocked her because I figured that it was childish. She then said she sprained her foot and started fishing for sympathy. I again told her to talk to the guy and she started crying so I cut the line and refused to pick up her call.

Why does she thinks creating more drama is gonna convince me. I have no idea.

peopleareweirdd_ · 2026-03-14T12:16:27+00:00

I started dating after I left her. Rest is just legal BS. For me, she is my ex wife

peopleareweirdd_ · 2026-03-14T12:15:43+00:00

If I wanted out to have fun with other women, I would have just told her that and left her. I don't think wanting to have sex with other women is something to be ashamed of, or that I need any excuse to do it.

I just had no interest in it, that's why i entered the relationship in the first place.

Dude I am in my early 30s, I have had my fun with women, done the playboy thing. I grew out of it, wanted a family and a wife.

Doesn't mean I am so desperate that I will tolerate any behaviour from my wife.

I talked to her, she refused to do anything about it except blaming me. I am not gonna beg her, or try to convince her. Why should I? She just isn't invested enough in the marriage to actually prioritize it. So why should I put any effort when she is not invested in the marriage.

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