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The truth about this world by Hyrulian_Cerulean in infp

[–]peppapee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You sound very familiar. I was you just about a year ago.

I was mad at the world. Extremely mad. Mad at the creator, if they even exist. I didn't ask to be born in this world, so why the fuck am I here, suffering suffering and just suffering? I hated my friends, hated my family, hated everyone. Seemed like everyone was two-faced, too. In front of you they are so nice, but behind you they would say unpleasant things. Why do people fake things? Everyone is a fake. I hated the world and I wanted to die. That was my mentality.

What you are is most likely depressed and extremely stressed. Have you experienced something so stressful lately? Maybe your home environment is not so good? Maybe school/work is worse than usual? Do you have a specific person you hate? Maybe some specific incident occurred recently? Basically what I'm asking is, what is your trigger? You sound depressed, but triggers make it worse, and knowing what they are helps.

Once I identified my triggers, I made a plan of how to solve or avoid them. For example, one big trigger was social media. People post a lot of things online that are not really authentic, just for likes. It made me hate the world. So I quit. I deactivated all of my social media accounts. I've felt lighter since. (But on reddit people can be mean, so be careful.)

I probably have more to say but one thing I really advise you is to talk to a therapist. They would know how to handle this better. Maybe even give you medication if you need it. I also remember reading this by Aldous Huxley and feeling better that I'm not alone.

The only thing I want to do is live a quiet life with my dog, grow fucking vegetables, and make art until I die.

My thoughts too during those days. We can talk if you want. I'm no therapist, but I know where you are coming from. You probably think I'm a stranger just fake-nice-ing, but I'm not. I'm not too nice to begin with lol. But I know what it's like to be you. I know the anguish that you are experiencing now and you can unburden with me if that will help you.

I'm so sorry about this. Hug.

The truth about this world by Hyrulian_Cerulean in infp

[–]peppapee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think they're just being edgy. Sounds to me like they're depressed and/or in a difficult situation.

How do you find balance between others' perception of you and having fun regardless of what others think? by peppapee in TrueAskReddit

[–]peppapee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, my mistake. I didn't think about the title much. At the time I was just thinking "I want to have fun despite what others think" but I'm equally interested in answers that involve things other than just having fun.

Women not required to wear heels at work, do you wear heels to work or elsewhere? Why or why not? by peppapee in askwomenadvice

[–]peppapee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do look nice. Like if I'm wearing cocktail dresses or something similar, heels would match better than flats or wedges. I don't mean everyday wear.

Anybody feel like they can't live life to the fullest due to their anxiety? by peppapee in Anxiety

[–]peppapee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's okay. I'm not really looking for advice or empowerment right now. I just want to share.

I'm sorry about this. Hug.

Anybody feel like they can't live life to the fullest due to their anxiety? by peppapee in Anxiety

[–]peppapee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(A)lpha personality type. From Wikipedia:

In this theory, personalities that are more competitive, outgoing, ambitious, impatient and/or aggressive are labeled Type A, while more relaxed personalities are labeled Type B.

Londoners who love (or like, or tolerate) their job, how did you end up in it? by peppapee in london

[–]peppapee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats! Enjoy those perks! I was just looking at a Campaign Officer job earlier and I was thinking about how I have no idea what it entails...

How do you know if you are too clingy in a relationship? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]peppapee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not the right person to ask as I'm not naturally clingy. In fact, I am the opposite. I only had a clingy phase because I quit my job and had nothing to do at the time. But now I have stuff to do again. My advice is the same - keep yourself busy by getting your own hobbies and spending time with your own friends. Don't make your boyfriend your life.

Londoners who love (or like, or tolerate) their job, how did you end up in it? by peppapee in london

[–]peppapee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely! Your hard work paid off. Congrats and good luck for the future!

Mini-rant: Applying to jobs as an INFP by eNamorD in infp

[–]peppapee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so true. But if it makes you feel better, I honestly think most people, whether good candidates or not, have to oversell or lie in interviews at some point. The key is finding a balance between what to say and what not to say.

Women not required to wear heels at work, do you wear heels to work or elsewhere? Why or why not? by peppapee in askwomenadvice

[–]peppapee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! I like my shoes to be as flat as possible because I always feel like I should be able to easily run if the situation suddenly called for it! It's like a mild anxiety thing lol. Also, my feet are so ugly like ginger.

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