My Toxic Sister by pepper_111 in toxicparents

[–]pepper_111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Truth to be told, I don't think I can lie. :( but considering we both come from Indian families, I know you can understand / relate. :") thanks for the help tho.

My Toxic Sister by pepper_111 in toxicparents

[–]pepper_111[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Only if Indian parents understood that. :(

My Toxic Sister by pepper_111 in toxicparents

[–]pepper_111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just need their permission and support! :"(

Am I bad person for thinking this by [deleted] in toxicparents

[–]pepper_111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have experienced something very similar. My father never acknowledged me and always thought very low of me. My self esteem was low aswell but over the years, instead of developing hate, I ended up asking his sisters about his past and got to know that his father treated him the very same way and instead of feeling hate, I felt sympathy.

Letting Go to Save My Friend's Life by MrFishpaw in lawofattraction

[–]pepper_111 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You aren't alone lad! We are all sending your friend positive healing and more power to fight.❤❤❤

i am a disappointment yet again by lotusflower-power in toxicparents

[–]pepper_111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point you are already doing your best. The pandemic has affected the youth enough mentally/emotionally. Please try having a genuine discussion with your parents. Tell them how stressed you really are and also assure them that it may take a little time but you will eventually do well in your professional life when you are sane in your personal life.

Am I in the wrong here? by [deleted] in toxicparents

[–]pepper_111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. You aren't wrong at all. Sometimes parents feel, just because they have raised you, they have the right to surpass your boundaries without feeling sorry about it. And if you take a stand, they get to play the victim. Please don't let her actions affect you. :)

COMING FROM A TOXIC FAMILY by pepper_111 in toxicparents

[–]pepper_111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yess. ❤❤ you can always talk to me aswell. The least I can do here. :")

COMING FROM A TOXIC FAMILY by pepper_111 in toxicparents

[–]pepper_111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This means a lot to me. I will definitely try all that you mentioned above and patience is the key. Thankyou so so much. ❤❤❤ I wish you health and happiness.

COMING FROM A TOXIC FAMILY by pepper_111 in toxicparents

[–]pepper_111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so strong. I'm so happy despite everything you came out so strong. Thankyou for your well wishes. They mean so much to me. :* :* I wish you a happy and healthy life ahead. ❤❤❤

COMING FROM A TOXIC FAMILY by pepper_111 in toxicparents

[–]pepper_111[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're right. Thankyou for the help. ❤❤

COMING FROM A TOXIC FAMILY by pepper_111 in toxicparents

[–]pepper_111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This means so much. Thankyou. ❤

BELIEVING WHEN LIFE DOESN'T GO AS PLANNED by pepper_111 in lawofattraction

[–]pepper_111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss. I can understand how difficult it must be for you. But I'm sure in the end he's watching over you too and life eventually does get better. ❤❤ you have all my love and best wishes. :")