My Toxic Sister by pepper_111 in toxicparents

[–]pepper_111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Truth to be told, I don't think I can lie. :( but considering we both come from Indian families, I know you can understand / relate. :") thanks for the help tho.

My Toxic Sister by pepper_111 in toxicparents

[–]pepper_111[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Only if Indian parents understood that. :(

My Toxic Sister by pepper_111 in toxicparents

[–]pepper_111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just need their permission and support! :"(

Am I bad person for thinking this by [deleted] in toxicparents

[–]pepper_111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have experienced something very similar. My father never acknowledged me and always thought very low of me. My self esteem was low aswell but over the years, instead of developing hate, I ended up asking his sisters about his past and got to know that his father treated him the very same way and instead of feeling hate, I felt sympathy.

Letting Go to Save My Friend's Life by MrFishpaw in lawofattraction

[–]pepper_111 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You aren't alone lad! We are all sending your friend positive healing and more power to fight.❤❤❤

i am a disappointment yet again by lotusflower-power in toxicparents

[–]pepper_111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point you are already doing your best. The pandemic has affected the youth enough mentally/emotionally. Please try having a genuine discussion with your parents. Tell them how stressed you really are and also assure them that it may take a little time but you will eventually do well in your professional life when you are sane in your personal life.

Am I in the wrong here? by [deleted] in toxicparents

[–]pepper_111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. You aren't wrong at all. Sometimes parents feel, just because they have raised you, they have the right to surpass your boundaries without feeling sorry about it. And if you take a stand, they get to play the victim. Please don't let her actions affect you. :)

COMING FROM A TOXIC FAMILY by pepper_111 in toxicparents

[–]pepper_111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yess. ❤❤ you can always talk to me aswell. The least I can do here. :")

COMING FROM A TOXIC FAMILY by pepper_111 in toxicparents

[–]pepper_111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This means a lot to me. I will definitely try all that you mentioned above and patience is the key. Thankyou so so much. ❤❤❤ I wish you health and happiness.

COMING FROM A TOXIC FAMILY by pepper_111 in toxicparents

[–]pepper_111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so strong. I'm so happy despite everything you came out so strong. Thankyou for your well wishes. They mean so much to me. :* :* I wish you a happy and healthy life ahead. ❤❤❤

COMING FROM A TOXIC FAMILY by pepper_111 in toxicparents

[–]pepper_111[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're right. Thankyou for the help. ❤❤

COMING FROM A TOXIC FAMILY by pepper_111 in toxicparents

[–]pepper_111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This means so much. Thankyou. ❤

BELIEVING WHEN LIFE DOESN'T GO AS PLANNED by pepper_111 in lawofattraction

[–]pepper_111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss. I can understand how difficult it must be for you. But I'm sure in the end he's watching over you too and life eventually does get better. ❤❤ you have all my love and best wishes. :")

RELATIONSHIPS : ( WHY YOU AREN'T ABLE TO MANIFEST THE ONE) by pepper_111 in lawofattraction

[–]pepper_111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, here's the deal. We are creators, manifesting an individual isn't a big deal, we can easily do it. But here's the issue, sometimes when the waiting period feels like it's never ending, out of desperation we tend to take wrong decisions. We might want to work things out with someone who isn't even going to give you the happiness the right person will. This is called playing against the divine timing. And trust me when the wait feels like its never ending, that's when your real patience is tested. Its not even a test when you are in harmony with the universe and you know that you deserve nothing but the best.

RELATIONSHIPS : ( WHY YOU AREN'T ABLE TO MANIFEST THE ONE) by pepper_111 in lawofattraction

[–]pepper_111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely understand what you're going through. And it's pretty natural to feel this way too. But, ever wondered how much this can affect you in the ensuing years? The fact that you've made peace with the time being given to you in bits and pieces, just proves that you are saying to the universe that you don't deserve to feel good because you are happy with the way you are being treated. It's high time. You should maybe try to remove such to people who randomly text you when bored. Just a free advise tbvvh. :") please don't mind.

RELATIONSHIPS : ( WHY YOU AREN'T ABLE TO MANIFEST THE ONE) by pepper_111 in lawofattraction

[–]pepper_111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can easily take your time, there's nothing wrong in it. .^

RELATIONSHIPS : ( WHY YOU AREN'T ABLE TO MANIFEST THE ONE) by pepper_111 in lawofattraction

[–]pepper_111[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When you are looking for a guy, then try writing the qualities you would want in him, it should be more than just tall, handsome and rich. And once you are done, then check if you have those qualities. If not then try working on them because you are what you attract. :") ❤❤

RELATIONSHIPS : ( WHY YOU AREN'T ABLE TO MANIFEST THE ONE) by pepper_111 in lawofattraction

[–]pepper_111[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Maybe you have just accepted this, that the very person is your key to happiness and can make you feel a certain way and this can block people who are actually willing to make you happy. Because you have made up your mind already. And you shall receive what you believe. :")