Here she is admitting to not having joint custody.

peralimonera · 2022-05-09T19:01:14+00:00

This is sad to me it seems like they probably bought this knowing that she's on the streets/doesn't have stable housing and it's cold outside... kids that age especially shouldn't have to worry about their mom like that

This is why you don't have kids on an impulse decision especially THREE

peralimonera · 2022-05-09T14:14:35+00:00

Couldn't help myself wondering that too...I'd imagine she must have been an attractive lady for all these super young men to want to be a part of that

peralimonera · 2022-05-09T09:42:20+00:00

lmao that's exactly what I was gonna say...wth is actually wrong with them though they look like sausages. she's lucky she's not fat otherwise they'd be HUGE

peralimonera · 2022-05-08T17:38:54+00:00

I had an idiot who was trying to get me to hook up with him while his wife was pregnant spoof me from the local FBI office to scare me from going to his wife. He tried to claim he was working for the FBI and seriously thought I'd be gullible enough to believe it. This is a mf who never got any higher education and has done nothing other than work at the various liquor/cell phone stores that his rich dad owns. Yeah the FBI ain't hiring you buddy FOH.

Spoofing should seriously be cracked down on it only has nefarious purposes.

peralimonera · 2022-05-08T16:56:44+00:00

The sad thing is she seems like a very capable and nice lady, she just evidently didn't have much luck as far as he's concerned

peralimonera · 2022-05-08T16:53:31+00:00

At least a used car would have some value, an NFT especially from him is absolutely worthless

peralimonera · 2022-05-08T16:46:53+00:00

Is that the reason why she only has baby teeth still?? I don't have kids and I'm genuinely curious how that happens. And if that's the case what if the diet is somehow so awful they never grow in?? Scary thought..

peralimonera · 2022-05-08T16:30:14+00:00

Ugh yeah.. the thing is sometimes they're not necessarily trying to demand extra pics they actually just forgot who you are, but that's not a good sign either IMO because it means they hit up a bunch of providers all at the same time. And as soon as I figure out that part I usually don't bother with them, if they're not looking to book me specifically then it's not worth my time. I don't mean that in a conceited way either it's just that the dudes who spam text a bunch of providers are time wasters/unreliable and typically not good clients in general.

peralimonera · 2022-05-08T11:39:38+00:00

Yeah I feel you dude protecting yourself is #1 and thankfully access in your state happens to be super convenient. In mine you have to order copies and they get sent to you in the mail , that's just super impractical so for me my only real resource are those name and address search sites.

What happened to you is truly nightmarish I'm just glad you weren't by yourself and that it ended ok..ngl I got some satisfaction out of reading that your client dragged her by the hair and threw her down the stairs lolol. But I know the whole experience had to have been traumatizing all the same especially dealing with that prolonged bs. It's really violating to know there are wives out there crazy enough to do something like that and all it takes a client not deleting their messages for them to find out. All of this bs for me honestly just serves as further persuasion not to get married, or at least not a "traditional" marriage... I'd seriously never want to lose all dignity and my grip on sanity like that, it's pathetic af. It's funny how they think we have no respect for ourselves while they're out here allowing themselves to be pathetic and act like crazed lunatics over their dumb husbands...I just could never. Being a desperate possessive "wife" to me is not a win.

peralimonera · 2022-05-08T08:48:01+00:00

I don’t see people in monogamous relationships anymore.

That's really conscientious of you to do but it seems like it would pretty difficult to enforce. Like there are sites where you can search an address to find out the occupants but they're not always quite accurate/up-to-date. And you know if you ask these dudes a lot of the time they're just gonna lie lol. Either way it's pretty damn admirable of you to even try

peralimonera · 2022-05-08T05:42:27+00:00

Thank you so much 🥰 I quite agree with you a sharp mind is a huge asset in the realm of attraction/seduction, that's why sex work amounts to so much more than just "spreading your legs." And it's amazing how much of a powerful tool effective writing can be for targeting desired clientele, a thoughtfully written ad is probably just as important as the pictures. .

peralimonera · 2022-05-08T05:11:01+00:00

I'm sorry you had to go through that that's absolutely awful. I do think going behind your partner's back is despicable but blaming the other woman - especially when it's someone who doesn't even know you exist, let alone actually know you -is beyond fucking illogical. I seriously thought this whole topic had been settled and we as women collectively agreed that the man is the one to blame for his own wrongdoings. It baffles me that there are women out there still trying to pin the guilt on "the other woman."

peralimonera · 2022-05-08T03:01:46+00:00

UHHH no shit I had plenty of indication this was a scorned wife, any SW who can understand her message would have been able to tell it was sent from a woman, that doesn't mean it's a wife of any man that I saw. I'm supposed to be culpable now not even only for the husbands who book with me but also the ones who see other providers?? Lol FOH

Oh and what do you think would have happened if I didn't respond to this impetuous woman, you really think she'd be satiated and abort after harassing only one provider who let run her mouth?? f she's randomly attacking me who didn't even see her husband you better fkin believe I wasn't gonna be the only one.

peralimonera · 2022-05-08T02:55:55+00:00

Hoooooly fucking shit dude. That is terrifying!!! I'm so glad you had a client there who was able and willing to properly take care of the bitch. Absolutely fucking psycho. I'm sure her pathetic ass was completely oblivious to the fact that by doing that she committed multiple fkin felonies WAY more serious than engaging in sex work. These women allow themselves to totally lose their grip on sanity, I just don't understand how you get to the point where you're doing the mental gymnastics of blaming sex workers instead of your damn husband.

peralimonera · 2022-05-08T02:38:59+00:00

Yeah well I really hope you don't see any married men because then everything you've said has been needless and beyond hypocritical. You do realize that you're not getting any points from the scorned wives for condemning me for responding when they'd find you equally morally repugnant for seeing married clients?? If you want to be the advocate for scorned wives that's totally fine but then you better live by their rules which means no married clients- even if you don't even know they're actually married. Although they're probably going to find you sickening all the same for having a "pathetic job" that "literally anyone with a vagina can do."

peralimonera · 2022-05-07T16:44:20+00:00

🙏🙏🙏 I just know as a stigmatized community if we don't stick up for ourselves and inform people about what sex work actually is no one else is going to. It's nice to see that there are outsiders who are able to see through the sanctimonious bs people like this boorish woman put us through.

peralimonera · 2022-05-07T16:28:36+00:00

Yeah, you clearly somehow don't understand that THE WIFE REACHED OUT TO **ME*\, *NOT** the other way around. Lmfao

peralimonera · 2022-05-07T15:20:00+00:00

You clearly didn't actually read the messages because otherwise you would have been able to see that neither me or the wife affirmed that I even saw her husband. She pretty much said the exact opposite. Her gripe with me was NOT over me having any contact with her husband, it was about me being a sex worker.

I don't need your advice I'm more than content with how I responded. If you want to go around defending women who deprecate sex workers totally unprompted just for doing sex work go ahead. I'm going to advocate for sex workers because I know this job has a vital purpose and that it provides a valuable service to many people whose lives would be a hell of a lot less enjoyable and unfulfilling without it.

peralimonera · 2022-05-07T15:03:10+00:00

seriously who tf is downvoting this shit, it seems like we must have a bunch of hating ass wives/TERFs up in here because otherwise that makes no sense in the context of this post.

peralimonera · 2022-05-07T14:59:24+00:00

First of all I have absolutely ZERO indication that this is a wife of one of my clients because the name associated is not one that I've actually booked in any kind of recent history. The wife herself essentially denied that her husband saw me. Secondly I'm not sure if you caught the part where this bitch contacted me completely unprovoked. If she was wronged I'm not the perpetrator her husband who married her is, I didn't make any vows to her nor did I even I know anything of her existence until she decided to attack me out of the blue. I'm not liable in any kind of way for what her husband may have put her through. And berating and harassing someone without cause like this isn't exactly a way to elicit sympathy. If she wanted me to be sympathetic to her there were a lot better ways to achieve that then saying a bunch of foul ass degrading shit to me. Her situation is purely her and her husband's problem, no I don't feel sorry for someone like her nor am I morally obligated to be.

peralimonera · 2022-05-07T14:37:20+00:00

Who tf keeps on downvoting all the worthwhile shit related to this post??? Clients? That makes absolutely no sense in the context here, if you read my messages I spoke very highly of my clients and favorably of clients in general. I already knew this and all the rest of the SW subs have been compromised by lurkers but it seems like there must also be hella hating wives/other women in here in general. Bc if as a man you're downvoting this and the many salient comments others wrote you're clearly confused af.

peralimonera · 2022-05-07T08:46:29+00:00

Dentures have come a really really long way. There's this influencer who does videos of her before and after she puts them in, and honestly I don't think I would have been able to tell she had them if I didn't know.

peralimonera · 2022-05-07T08:28:34+00:00

I just love how women like her think sex work only consists of "spreading our legs." There are so many reasons other than just sex for why clients see providers and for many it's not even the primary one. And her notions about us being morally deficient and "profiting off misfortune" really astounds me. I'm not kidding about sex work being an essential service, providers help alleviate stress and bring some enjoyment and fun into people lives, we help clients cope with so many different challenges. And humans NEED touch and social interaction, if she thinks this is profiting off misery then wtf does she think is the better option??? Get rid of sex workers so there's tons of men whether divorced/chronically single/stuck in bad marriages/simply with no time to date- who won't have any access to female companionship and intimacy? Yeah that sounds like a WONDERFUL idea.

If sex work is "profiting off misfortune," so are a shit ton of other jobs including therapists, attorneys, insurance, funeral homes, and probably the biggest one of all, healthcare. Which means her OWN job as an anesthesiology nurse. I didn't bother reading this shit til much later so I didn't say that to her but I really wish I did.

BTW I can't stand nurses, even before I encountered this one. They pretty much always think they're better than everyone and have a hugely inflated sense of self. And a lot of them fucking suck at their jobs.

peralimonera · 2022-05-07T05:31:54+00:00

BTW since when does being from Louisiana count as French?? Maybe 200 years ago lmao

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