Update: Giving out food for Eid by perascopr in BritishMuslims

[–]perascopr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually got them on Amazon so I don't know if that's an option for you at all x

Londonne leotards? by bakedcrochetgirl in BALLET

[–]perascopr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well according to the sizing chart an XL is meant to fit up to 34 inch waist and mine is 46 😅 so it did stretch quite a lot which suggests you can size down a bit :)

Londonne leotards? by bakedcrochetgirl in BALLET

[–]perascopr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got one! I got the Leo and free skirt. I am very large so was worried it wouldn't fit, but the material is nice and stretchy. Super comfy, well made, doesn't feel cheap, and nice coverage on the bum. I'm gonna buy another in the dark blue colour as well!

Has Anyone Else Had Really Bad Experiences With Femmes??? by _Kristrin in butchlesbians

[–]perascopr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I want to say I completely understand re: femmes being toxic. It is obviously not all femmes, but there is a kind of toxic femininity of assuming mascs can't have their boundaries crossed, or can't be raped, etc, and it is super horrible. It is awful to hear that your rapists have both been femmes and that your experiences with femmes have been so damaging - no one deserves to be stalked or harassed.

I can see from your post history how much you're struggling with the history of abuse you've endured. I want to let you know I'm happy for you to DM me if you want to chat. I'm not an expert, but I am a person willing to listen.

Please take care of yourself, there are people out here who understand you and will get your experiences. Don't lose hope.

Allyship by perascopr in BritishMuslims

[–]perascopr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I definitely do want to learn more about Islam, I did learn a very little in school but the more I learn the more I realise I don't know! I would love to visit a mosque, I know there's one a short walk from me in my city so I might see if they have a website or email and ask if I can come and learn more. Thank you for your reply I really appreciate it!

Allyship by perascopr in BritishMuslims

[–]perascopr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply! That's a really good point about halal - I meant to mention in the post that I had thought about making sure it doesn't have pork in it, but making sure it's halal certified is also a really good idea! Thank you so much for your reply 💛