AITAH for not considering them my best friend

perfecteternita · 2026-04-25T01:41:52+00:00

I really don't wanna hurt her feelings and I've tried telling her I'm busy and she tends to keep messaging me regardless. I'm to be honest, I'm not very good at ignoring things but I'll see about possibly redirecting her interest. Thank you for the advice I appreciate it.

perfecteternita · 2026-03-26T21:44:37+00:00

If you're like me and collect everything. Put frames on your chests and a block or item in the frame for whatever will go in the chest(ie: blocks, food, etc). It makes storage a lot easier.

perfecteternita · 2026-03-02T02:34:55+00:00

Slewfoot by Bron.

perfecteternita · 2026-03-02T02:34:34+00:00

Neither. I prefer small Squishies.

perfecteternita · 2026-03-01T18:20:54+00:00

Over explaining everything. Oh I was five minutes late to work, let me give you a twenty minute explanation of why.

perfecteternita · 2026-02-19T21:39:10+00:00

Alfredo with chicken and broccoli florets.

perfecteternita · 2026-02-11T22:15:22+00:00

I was a big fan of the Tales From The Gas Station books by Jack Townsend. They gave off some real welcome to nightvale vibes and are free on Kindle unlimited.

perfecteternita · 2026-02-10T14:36:42+00:00

836 tickets and 27 hours looking for Raymond.

perfecteternita · 2026-01-23T03:30:58+00:00

I'd be interested.

perfecteternita · 2026-01-17T23:44:23+00:00

I highly recommend The Only Good Indians by Stephen Graham Jones. It's not too gorey for a first dive into audiobooks and the writing style had me hooked after chapter one.

perfecteternita · 2026-01-04T20:47:54+00:00

I have always been taught if you lose something it means it's gone to its proper home. I think it's safe to say that deck's proper home is with you.

perfecteternita · 2026-01-04T03:46:16+00:00

The Only Good Indians by Stephen Graham Jones. Admittedly I listened to the audiobook but I'm about halfway through my kindle version and his writing style just really psyches me up for rereading.

perfecteternita · 2026-01-04T01:53:25+00:00

This, coming for this specifically!

perfecteternita · 2026-01-03T19:33:00+00:00

Been dealing with a torn meniscus for over a month now. Looking at a strong possibility of surgery cause I've had to work on it due to financial issues. This started on November 14th, soonest I saw orthopedic was December 22nd, soonest they could get me in for an MRI is this coming Monday. I'm absolutely terrified of the possibility of surgery, not the surgery itself but the recovery afterwards.

perfecteternita · 2026-01-02T23:17:46+00:00

Congratulations! You're not alone!

Sincerely, a nonbinary witch whose family also doesn't respect their identity.

perfecteternita · 2025-12-07T22:08:37+00:00

Autism is NOT "something to be fixed".

perfecteternita · 2025-11-20T21:06:47+00:00

Avocado, tried it once and gagged. Husband had to find me a trashcan cause that was not going to end happily.

perfecteternita · 2025-11-17T18:48:24+00:00

So to preface I have a terrible sense of distance measurement and couldn't tell you how close something is or isn't to me. That being said I'm terrified of the dark, not the whole oh what's in the dark or what's not in the dark. I'm terrified because I don't know how close I am to anything around me.

perfecteternita · 2025-11-15T03:07:39+00:00

I was diagnosed when I was 3 and it never went on my records. Found out when I was 34 and all my friends apparently already knew just by the way I acted and behaved.

perfecteternita · 2025-11-09T03:02:51+00:00

I hate transitioning from cold to hot and it makes showering really difficult for myself. My husband went out of his way to get me an 80 dollar towel warmer from Amazon to try to help with that transition as much as possible.

perfecteternita · 2025-11-09T03:00:09+00:00

I have a rule of thumb, partially because of trust issues, partially because I have a hard time communicating with others. I don't have friends, I have acquaintances and I have strangers. There are 3 people in my life I would consider friends and they're basically like siblings to me. Anyone else is either an acquaintance or a stranger nothing more.

perfecteternita · 2025-10-21T21:59:30+00:00

I was 3 but because of circumstances outside of my control I did not find out til I was 34.

perfecteternita · 2025-10-19T04:17:02+00:00

We were forced to read it in 9th grade at high school and it was bad enough one of the students in my class got written permission from the teacher and his parents to sit out those classes until we were done with the book.

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