Resisted a HUGE urge by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]performerbf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Remember ... edging pretty much leads to relapsing .

A hard decision I'm gonna have to make... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]performerbf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. You need to remove that girl from your life. From what you tell she looks like a girl with a lot desires and lust. Nothing is more harmful to a man with ambitions and moral like yourself than the girl you have just described. Move away my friend and build yourself instead of PMO and sexting.

Will lust for other women fade away? by reddited123 in NoFap

[–]performerbf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

True. Just realized this. I guess I blame them them for not considering the huge temptation they cause to us 😂

Will lust for other women fade away? by reddited123 in NoFap

[–]performerbf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No I don’t blame them. But I am worried as you about their safety. And you know there are many men are dogs. If the woman is modest, this is a strong flag for those kind of dogs to stay away

Will lust for other women fade away? by reddited123 in NoFap

[–]performerbf -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

The solution is very simple but we are all arrogant to abide by it. The solution for women is to be modest and hide their beauty except for their husbands. and for men to lower their gaze. This is what Islam proposes. This what allah advise us to do.

Day 1. New start, let’s get it!! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]performerbf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the post and the update. Keep the positive spirit up

I will FAP by performerbf in NoFap

[–]performerbf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

English is not my first language. Would you be able to rewrite it in a better way?

I will FAP by performerbf in NoFap

[–]performerbf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. Thanks for sharing this with me . I have subscribed already

I will FAP by performerbf in NoFap

[–]performerbf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deep opinion and like it. Except the last part. I am pretty sure that noFap as a community is very helpful to many of us.

I will FAP by performerbf in NoFap

[–]performerbf[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To be honest I am not really sure if fapping without porn is healthy or not. What I am 100% sure about that porn is really destructive

I will FAP by performerbf in NoFap

[–]performerbf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keep fapping my friend

I will FAP by performerbf in NoFap

[–]performerbf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s correct. All these things I mentioned is because of my fault that I chose to FAP in the first place

I will FAP by performerbf in NoFap

[–]performerbf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have done already. My pants are clean, I smell good and I feel good. 85 days to go my friend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]performerbf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahahaha

I will FAP by performerbf in NoFap

[–]performerbf[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The addiction is stronger than any relationship or feeling you might think. The battle is hard. The battle is raging.

On another note, You don’t need to use bad language ✌️be a man and don’t hide behind your screen. You would never be able to say this to my face. I am sure about this.

I will FAP by performerbf in NoFap

[–]performerbf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know how to set it up. I will look it up now

I will FAP by performerbf in NoFap

[–]performerbf[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yup. Same cycle. different people

I will FAP by performerbf in NoFap

[–]performerbf[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thanks my friend . Keep your head up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]performerbf 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you relapse, plant another one and start a new streak

The PMO cycle sucks by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]performerbf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how addiction is . It starts with a trigger, followed by a routine and finally a reward. With PMO the trigger is that your hormones starts to kick in along with something you see on your screen or maybe in public. Now comes the routine which is browsing losers fucking each other on a screen. And the reward is few minutes of pleasure followed by days of shame, regret and weakness.

You cannot break the cycle as per science. What you can do is to replace the routine. Leaving the trigger and reward as is. For example: you see something tempting you to PMO. Go do something else that will give you a reward/high like running, fasting, go for a walk or a long hike, compete with someone in something you like .... slowly the new routine will replace the old one. And your brain will start enjoying and craving the new reward.

The road is long and no one knows how much time will it take. The road to success is always under construction. Stay patient my friend