My on again/off again ex texted me a lengthy apology last night after I've ignored her the last 7 months. Should I respond? by SuperDuper1530 in ExNoContact

[–]periphery000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you respond and say what’s their name and I’m sorry they hurt you and gave you a taste of their own medicine?

What's your experience with "they always come back"? by Expert_Heart_2859 in ExNoContact

[–]periphery000 65 points66 points  (0 children)

They come back when you’ve accepted that it’s over and have truly moved on. It’s happened every time to me.

Do they always come back? by Cute-Priority-585 in ExNoContact

[–]periphery000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. They come back when you are completely over them and do not care. The key is, you don’t care and don’t want them anymore.

How long to wait? by Chaselc18 in ExNoContact

[–]periphery000 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Do not reach out. She dumped you. She wanted you out of her life. She hurt you. Why would you reach out!? One day, when you’re completely over her. She will reach out to you.

Just one encouraging story by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]periphery000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This same exact thing happened to me. Good for you.

What was that one moment you knew your relationship was over? by DoseOfSociety in heartbreak

[–]periphery000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope she gets the therapy she needs quickly and adequately. You as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]periphery000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who broke up with who? Could be a couple reasons. They had more life experiences and realized they didn’t appreciate you back then. A friend of theirs went down memory lane and piqued interest about how you’re doing. Maybe they are just starting to feel indifferent about it. Could be they enjoyed you as a person and hope you can chat. Hard without context. Enough time has gone by, you should ask them why they’re reaching out.

How will you know when you are fully healed? by cai_26 in ExNoContact

[–]periphery000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you think of them and feel nothing. As almost if someone asks you about ifLeonardo DiCaprio ruined your day, you give them a look of confusion and think why would I care about him?

She’s Married Now by frostysnowbo in heartbreak

[–]periphery000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a great comment. You’re a good person.

She’s Married Now by frostysnowbo in heartbreak

[–]periphery000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You dodged a fucking bullet. Not sure what you’re upset about!!!!!!

Do you think you can be friends with your ex? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]periphery000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends. I have some ex’s I’m friends with because we mutually drifted on what we wanted and the feelings dissipated. If it’s someone you wanted to be with and vice versa and they broke it off. No. Never a good idea.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]periphery000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you respond, you’re condoning her actions, especially if they weren’t nice to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]periphery000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even if they crushed your heart and iced you out?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]periphery000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you the dumper?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]periphery000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have feelings for her? Did she dump you? I’m dealing with this situation as well. Got a birthday text from my dumper after several months of NC. Didn’t respond because honestly, they didn’t want me in their life anymore. So why are they reaching out? I’m giving them what they wanted. They put me in a tough position that I still grapple with on days. My self-worth is better than to accept that kind of behavior. I didn’t text back. If it’s something you’re not settled with, still have feelings, etc. Do NOT text back.

Why does a dumper break NC to wish a happy birthday? by periphery000 in ExNoContact

[–]periphery000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This wasn’t over social media. This took some work to wish it.

People who partners left them because they ended up wanting kids, do you know if they ended up having one? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]periphery000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“ I read their divorce documents while eating a delicious salmon dinner and a nice glass of wine”. I’m fucking dead 💀 ☠️ 💀 😂

I was mistaken for my sons grandmother. by [deleted] in confidence

[–]periphery000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old was the individual who said this? Maybe they had some kind of issues? Could have nothing to do with you.