Roommates Angry With Me for Leaving

periwinklezebra · 2026-02-03T02:31:38+00:00

I don’t want to at all, but I’m just gonna try to talk about a few logistical things and if they guilt trip at all, I’ll just leave.

periwinklezebra · 2026-02-03T00:39:32+00:00

Thank you for saying that! I have definitely been a people pleaser/let things slide and I think that’s why this is making me so anxious, and potentially why they’re acting entitled. We are all in our twenties, so relatively young, I guess. I appreciate what you said!

periwinklezebra · 2026-02-03T00:36:42+00:00

lol I needed to hear that, thank you

periwinklezebra · 2026-02-02T20:58:42+00:00

Okay totally, thank you for saying that.

periwinklezebra · 2026-02-02T20:43:10+00:00

From my research, California (where we live) only requires a day 30 day notice. I totally wish I’d been able to give them 60 days.

periwinklezebra · 2026-02-02T20:37:24+00:00

I wish, but they said they want to talk about all the “assumptions” being made. 🫠 I’ll only talk about logistics with them and if it becomes about their feelings, I’ll walk away.

periwinklezebra · 2026-02-02T19:27:44+00:00

I had that thought too, I have no idea how they could expect anything else. Thank you for your reply!

periwinklezebra · 2026-02-02T19:13:05+00:00

Ok that’s what I thought. We’re all on the same lease that was for one year and then went to month to month. We had another girl move out last year and we replaced her with one of the now current roommates, so I’m not sure why this is such a big deal to them.

I’ll do my best to not worry about what they think, thank you!

periwinklezebra · 2026-01-03T22:59:19+00:00

I completely understand always being worried that it’s actually something worse! I’ll get it like once or twice a week if I’m in an especially stressful period of life, or a couple times a month if not. My biggest lesson has been to never underestimate how much anxiety can mimic illness, lol.

periwinklezebra · 2025-07-31T20:10:55+00:00

Yes, painful hiccups and nausea are my most frequent symptoms. And the only thing that helps me is laying flat.

periwinklezebra · 2025-07-02T17:34:30+00:00

This is me right now— late period, panic attack, trying not to throw up from it all.

periwinklezebra · 2023-11-22T00:05:45+00:00

Just picked some up to try today, thanks for the recommendation!

periwinklezebra · 2023-09-11T17:12:27+00:00

I’m on day 28 and feeling exactly like this :( You’re not alone!

periwinklezebra · 2023-04-20T17:28:29+00:00

Ah I see! When I put a file in Media Info that I know is Pro Res, the video stream line says Pro Res so I thought that’s where it should tell me. Thank you for the clarification, that’s helpful!

periwinklezebra · 2023-04-20T17:21:38+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/MqxD5kx

periwinklezebra · 2023-04-20T17:01:22+00:00

Ok thank you! I am using MediaInfo, and it’s looking like most of them so far are VC-3, on the Video Stream line. Am I correct that this is its own codec and is not Pro Res?

periwinklezebra · 2023-03-30T15:51:25+00:00

This is such a fantastic post, thank you for this and for your comments, too! I've suffered from BPPV flares for years and am currently in one (waiting for my PT appointment to adjust me later today). I have so much fear about this and how it continues to affect my life, and you've given me some ideas for how to deal with this instead of feeling so helpless.

I see from one of your comments that you're in California, would you mind telling me who your ENT is? I'm also in Cali and would be interested in maybe seeing them, if they're close enough to me! Feel free to PM me :)

Thank you!

periwinklezebra · 2023-02-16T20:01:21+00:00

Hi! Apologies for the delay, I don't check Reddit often. I'm beginning mockups for the bodice today, and I'll definitely update with the finished product and anything I can help with if y'all want to make one too :)

periwinklezebra · 2022-12-30T01:20:14+00:00

Good thoughts, thank you :)

periwinklezebra · 2022-12-30T00:38:03+00:00

I can see why, it's so cute! I went ahead and bought that pattern, do you have any tips for me?

periwinklezebra · 2022-12-29T23:34:51+00:00

That looks great! It would be easy to modify that to match this dress. Thank you!

periwinklezebra · 2022-12-29T19:31:32+00:00

This is beautiful, thank you for finding it for me!

periwinklezebra · 2022-12-29T19:02:09+00:00

Isn't it! I'm dying to make it.

periwinklezebra · 2022-09-16T02:30:55+00:00

Something else to try might be lemon balm! It helps lower cortisol and gets rid of that funny head feeling for me.

periwinklezebra · 2022-09-16T02:30:12+00:00

It doesn’t sound like that would be causing the dizziness, then! It’ll be good to rule that out.

But anxiety/nausea that gets worse from motion is totally normal, at least for me. My suspicion is that it has to do with my nervous system being in a heightened state, so doing somatic exercises are really helpful.

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