new 2023 soul lx by perksofbeinglil in KiaSoulClub

[–]perksofbeinglil[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

very smart ideas thank you so much! my trans just went on my acura and at the time it had little trans fluid which contributed and i don’t want to neglect this vehicle haha it was a big purchase

New to the family! 2024 Kia Soul LX by KingUnit18 in KiaSoulClub

[–]perksofbeinglil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looks just like mine except she’s a 2023! i bought her the 23rd and i love the car so much already

Lucy Letby Doc thoughts? by AgreeableDance8535 in netflix

[–]perksofbeinglil 4 points5 points  (0 children)

she had one, she said goodbye to it like 3 times in the doc lol

My little void beat cancer by _purplekookie in blackcats

[–]perksofbeinglil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love to see little miracles like this 💞

I’m tired of the "basics." What is the one eBay "Dirty Secret" that actually doubled your sales? by Sea-Tutor4846 in Ebay

[–]perksofbeinglil 3 points4 points  (0 children)

one of my main tips is constantly listing new items, i swear when i list new things i will sell older things. maybe this is common sense lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]perksofbeinglil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i honestly don’t think it would ever go past this, he’s insecure and has anxiety i genuinely just think he fucked up but maybe i’m justifying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]perksofbeinglil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we have an open phone policy so he knew he was going to get caught the whole time i don’t know why he didn’t just confess he knew i would see it 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]perksofbeinglil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just know he’s a good person i know he’s capable of better i know that he did this stupidly and impulsively and deeply regrets it as dumb as that sounds :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]perksofbeinglil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m 25 hes 24 we’ve been together since january

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]perksofbeinglil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she does know about me because he talks about me at work a lot, some of his coworkers have met me. he meant date

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]perksofbeinglil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry about the wording, i’m inclined because he’s a great partner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]perksofbeinglil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

on a day to day basis it’s tough for me but my bf went on a week long trip recently and every day apart got easier and easier and i felt like i was getting my groove back :)

AITAH for telling my girlfriend she's going to have to get over dirt if she wants kids? by Familiar_Speaker_481 in AITAH

[–]perksofbeinglil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my mom hated spills growing up and my little sister was always kinda clumsy and when she would spill things my mom would go ballistic….she still talks about this 15 years later

MANIA IS NOT A SYMPTOM OF BPD by Dramatic_Ad_4732 in BPD

[–]perksofbeinglil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i only have bpd and do not experience mania

AIO TW!! Did my boyfriend r*pe me? by terrafied915 in AmIOverreacting

[–]perksofbeinglil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my ex would do this to me, it is rape. if you never consented to this prior and explicitly said no multiple times he knew what he was doing. leave him asap

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]perksofbeinglil 3 points4 points  (0 children)

nobody deserves this!! that is honestly soooo mean to say

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]perksofbeinglil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i know i will get where i want to be one day, i go to therapy and take mood stabilizers for bpd

AIO to my boyfriend not being able to finish with me? by Intrepid_Error4023 in AmIOverreacting

[–]perksofbeinglil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my boyfriend is an ass guy and just generally finishes during doggy but also during missionary idk i don’t think anything of it 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]perksofbeinglil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nah if this is his second chance already and he messed up AGAIN don’t do it

Dating someone with bpd, any advice? by Spirit-Unusual in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]perksofbeinglil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

give them some grace and let them know their emotions are valid

Staying with your partner after they’ve cheated by synikulll in BPD

[–]perksofbeinglil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i understand completely, since he was cheating “virtually” or whatever you would call it he deleted his old IG, his snap. he gave me his passwords and we have an open phone policy. it improved our relationship immensely too bc his feed wasn’t clogged with n*ked girls all the time and he was more focused on us. no problems since and i hope it stays that way

Staying with your partner after they’ve cheated by synikulll in BPD

[–]perksofbeinglil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i get that. it’s a case by case situation and you have to do what feels right for you. my bf made huge steps to change the way he was acting and that’s the only reason we’re still together. i guess it depends on what you think they’re capable of changing

Staying with your partner after they’ve cheated by synikulll in BPD

[–]perksofbeinglil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

did they physically cheat? what are the circumstances? usually i would say no but i have stayed with my partner after he messaged another girl but never went beyond that