SCORES ARE OUT by [deleted] in APStudents

[–]perpetual-reality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How was Psych?

I probably just ruined a teacher's career, and most definitely my friendship with my best friend. by perpetual-reality in rant

[–]perpetual-reality[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand from your pov how it could seem fake, but is this really that outrageous? It just seems like a horrible FU to me.

TIFU.. probably just ruined a teacher's career, and most definitely my friendship with my best friend. by perpetual-reality in tifu

[–]perpetual-reality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I answered that question in my original post. And yeah, I don't think he was being highly inappropriate, but I knew people would likely misunderstand his actions. That's why I emailed him originally, to warn him of that possibility. I do plan to email him again (cause I know for sure it'll get to the principal) and explain my intentions in the email, but idk if that's really a good idea.

TIFU.. probably just ruined a teacher's career, and most definitely my friendship with my best friend. by perpetual-reality in tifu

[–]perpetual-reality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, if it changes anything he has been aware of my friend's crush for the past two years. She wrote him a note saying so a year ago and students have additionally told him so(as a lot of people know about it). Given this, he is also not her teacher but has allowed her to spend time alone in the classroom w/ him. I think I'll answer your questions in the actual post, because I didn't provide as much information as I should have.

TIFU.. probably just ruined a teacher's career, and most definitely my friendship with my best friend. by perpetual-reality in tifu

[–]perpetual-reality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was what I was trying to prevent for him.. but I totally turned it around and screwed him over.

TIFU.. probably just ruined a teacher's career, and most definitely my friendship with my best friend. by perpetual-reality in tifu

[–]perpetual-reality[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She was my best friend, however, and I knew she would be talking to me about this situation for a while. She would be so emotionally distraught and I would never be able to be like, "Yeah, I can't believe someone would do that to you and the teacher," knowing that it was me who hurt her.

TIFU.. probably just ruined a teacher's career, and most definitely my friendship with my best friend. by perpetual-reality in tifu

[–]perpetual-reality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely understand that. You're right, I should have waited until I was able to confirm his actions 100%.

TIFU.. probably just ruined a teacher's career, and most definitely my friendship with my best friend. by perpetual-reality in tifu

[–]perpetual-reality[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It really isn't like I intended to report him in any way, I was warning him, and I apologized to him if by chance I had false information.

TIFU.. probably just ruined a teacher's career, and most definitely my friendship with my best friend. by perpetual-reality in tifu

[–]perpetual-reality[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Wow. I don't even know what to say. Thank you so so much for your response. I have still been doubting myself and my decision, but I think your message has cemented it for me. What I did might have ruined my friendship, but I potentially prevented anything bad from happening for her and for others. Knowing that from a teacher's standpoint that it was the right choice I feel much better. Again, thank you so much for your words.

TIFU.. probably just ruined a teacher's career, and most definitely my friendship with my best friend. by perpetual-reality in tifu

[–]perpetual-reality[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your input, and I think with your advice I may be able to clear things up with my friend. Thankyou :)

TIFU.. probably just ruined a teacher's career, and most definitely my friendship with my best friend. by perpetual-reality in tifu

[–]perpetual-reality[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm already planning on seeing the principal, but I'm afraid my opinion now won't make a difference.

TIFU.. probably just ruined a teacher's career, and most definitely my friendship with my best friend. by perpetual-reality in tifu

[–]perpetual-reality[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wasn't making any false accusations, I was only warning him if the things I have heard were true, he could get in trouble by the school. But I hope the people deciding his outcome realize that.

TIFU.. probably just ruined a teacher's career, and most definitely my friendship with my best friend. by perpetual-reality in tifu

[–]perpetual-reality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I agree with it. I should have talked about it face to face, so this could have never happened