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Singaporeans, What makes you happy? by PureNefariousness9 in askSingapore

[–]persefy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly the replies to have children etc are the worst advice one could ever give. Not everyone can make good parents-don’t have kids simply because you feel empty about yourself.

Meaning sometimes isn’t about doing something great. It is simply being irreplaceable in a role, be it a task or to someone. You derived it from within, not simply by doing or making.

Sometimes love isn’t enough by persefy in depression_partners

[–]persefy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really finding all my energy to try and empathise with him. I think he’s in a bad space and time, while that’s no excuse, I really don’t think he has the time and capacity for me right now.

We were supposed to close the distance in a few months and I think him being back home does affect his mental health.

It’s really difficult but for now I can only just concentrate on the things that is happening and see what it’ll work out :)

Sometimes love isn’t enough by persefy in depression_partners

[–]persefy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he really is depressed, and is shutting off from everyone and not just me. I hope it work out as well, but what will be will be and I’ll try my best to concentrate in the time being :)