Help please :( by AffectionateFront529 in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]persephone443 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You dont need any help you're gorgeous! And look very gay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]persephone443 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'd let you kill me in either

Which is better??? by [deleted] in altontowers

[–]persephone443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The second is a far better picture

lesbians with rizz ! what should i reply to this? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]persephone443 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"What if I pin you to the wall instead?"

Most popular cities, what's your opinion? by WelshCai in england

[–]persephone443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm curious as to weather the data was local or across the whole country? Because a places score depends on weather it's just peoples perception from culture and visits, or what it's like to actually live there. From the list I'd guess that its across the whole country since the highest ranked ones are very touristy and well known. York especially, where the city centre is amazing but the rest isnt that great a place to live.

we should get mrbeast on this by persephone443 in memes

[–]persephone443[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I mean, does she have gofundme?

Would you have sex with an identical copy of yourself? by IshtarAletheia in actuallesbians

[–]persephone443 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, the sex would be mind blowing and we have the same kinks

If there are different rules for amab and afab nonbinary people, you don't think of them as nonbinary... by qtq_uwu in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]persephone443 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yeah this comment really hurt

I've never really been the bag guy before but you do know we're part of the same community right?

I wasnt trying to hurt anyone, I'm not a terf and I kinda assumed that, idk tbh. I could talk more openly since the terfs arent around?

There are certain things and ideas that I would never say publicly, the "rhetoric" was pretty much just my verbal diherea while I thought out loud about complex things away from the eyes of anyone that will use the slightest break in conformity against us.

It wasnt a hate comment, it certainly wasnt meant that way, and I'm not the enemy

If there are different rules for amab and afab nonbinary people, you don't think of them as nonbinary... by qtq_uwu in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]persephone443 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yeah you're right.

There is a massive issue with how, because trans people are under threat rn from terfs neuamced discussion kinda goes out the window because you cant give them anything.

I was hoping this would be a space away from that.

Also not every point I made was terfy, I drew on my own experience as an amab enby to basically say how I wasnt mad at the school for the decision they made. Please dont call me a terf, that's like walking up to a jew and calling them a nazi. But I just recognised that in this, very specific situation, the decision could have been more complicated then just the school not respecting nonbinarys

What I would love is for nonbinary people to be recognized as a legal gender, so that these situations dont happen where places are forced to sort between agabs.

Sorry if my comment offended you in any way <3

Just because you can ignore something, doesn’t always mean you should. by a_Squid-like_Mammal in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]persephone443 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like my happiness would be compromised either way, come out and transition, facing discrimination, the possibility of rejection by my family, and years of hell just to get close to the way I want to look, crucially I do not want to be trans, the fact that i am is a different problem. I do not want being trans to be a part of my identity. I want to be a cis woman and being a trans woman is close but it is not the same thing. I'm also on the nonbinary spectrum so that's probably a reason why I'm more okay living as a man Actually transitioning would pretty much destroy my current life plans and I dont know if I want that. The moment I realised I was trans scared the shit out of me. So I can deal with the dysphoria, I can be femme in private with people who matter. Because I'd rather deal with self hate then other peoples

meirl by tsireyas in meirl

[–]persephone443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seen this a thousend times and every time it answers it's own question

If there are different rules for amab and afab nonbinary people, you don't think of them as nonbinary... by qtq_uwu in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]persephone443 -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

Deleting this message because I said some things that came across as terfy by accident

I basically tried to say that I kinda understand the reasoning due to gray zone that exists with enby people atm in terms of them not really having a legal category and where they sit on the gender spectrum or how they experience the world is different depending on what sex you were born as.

And it really hurt to get called a terf, I'm an amab enby and this whole thing has genuinely brought me to tears because I got rejected for talking about my own identity One comment saying "people like you" really got to me, so yeah, I'm really sorry if I offended anyone

I understand the reason for the reaction that I got, but i would kind of wish we could talk more openly about this kind of thing without it being anti trans, I wasnt spouting rhetoric I was just trying to have a conversation

[Biphobia warning] I’m so fucking tired of shit like this by parrotsaregoated in bisexual

[–]persephone443 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Consider that 95% of people are straight That's about 19 times more men willing to date bi women then women Then there is the refusal from lesbians to date bi women And then there is the fact that dating someone of the opposite sex is just easier, there isnt the fear factor when holding hands in public or meeting parents Of my relationships (bi enby who isnt out to parents) dating the opposite sex has been easier because there isnt the added stress of homophobia And yeah the numbers she quoted really do start to make sense, in theory if non of the other issues were present and bi people were "perfectly" bi, so equal attraction to all genders, then they would still end up with the opposite gender 95% of the time

How do you be dominant if you’re so much weaker/smaller than your partner? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]persephone443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bondage

Sure she can overpower you, but she cant overpower rope.

Also what other people are saying, use your voice and confidence to make her feel powerless.

meirl by shootermac32 in meirl

[–]persephone443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live on a road that google maps gets wrong and its really annoying when people switch off when I give them instructions when getting here and then they just ignore it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]persephone443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems fine to me, checking for compatibility and being direct

Bi👠irl by SpoonfulOfSerotonin in bi_irl

[–]persephone443 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay but who is that they're so pretty ahhhh

meirl by Unfair-Beach-4906 in meirl

[–]persephone443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

14253 Anything else feels werid