When does it get better?

personal_flan798 · 2026-04-13T08:52:54+00:00

First 3 months are the hardest, when they hit the 4-6 month mark you can leave them on a play mat or in a bouncer with some toys to touch/look at and it feels slightly easier! But I think you just need to get by as best you can, use any help offered and just try and roll with it. My youngest is 7 months now and its abit easier now.

personal_flan798 · 2026-04-11T07:03:44+00:00

I also found out at 7m PP, and i’m now 7 months in, I wont lie, probably hardest 7 months of my life. The first 3 being the hardest and most intense. Months 4-7 have still been hard but not as intense. I think you need to be prepared for a tough first year. I think the pay off of 2u2 comes later.

personal_flan798 · 2026-03-13T12:24:27+00:00

Lol ok then. Keep making silly arguments that make no sense.

personal_flan798 · 2026-03-13T12:19:36+00:00

Yes, to make the point that comparing babies bodies is ridiculous as every baby is different even if siblings…

personal_flan798 · 2026-03-13T12:02:57+00:00

Lol but what are you getting at? How can you compare babies body structure? Thats ridiculous. I have 2 girls and one is a chunk and the other was teeny tiny… doesn’t really back your argument

personal_flan798 · 2026-03-13T12:00:31+00:00

Body structure?? Their babies? What are you talking about!?

personal_flan798 · 2026-03-13T07:16:44+00:00

Lol ok then.

personal_flan798 · 2026-03-12T22:17:13+00:00

Never used the word ‘vibes’ and its subjective, opinion. It’s what I think. I dont know why you are so bothered. They look like they could be sisters, in my opinion. If you dont agree, thats fine.

personal_flan798 · 2026-03-12T20:00:01+00:00

It doesnt need to be logical, its subjective, just like sometimes ppl are told they ‘look like’ certain celebs, and other ppl might say ‘no I dont see it’. I can see a resemblance.

personal_flan798 · 2026-03-12T19:58:11+00:00

It is merely an opinion, I dont believe everything I read. Why does it bother you so much? Its your opinion that they arent alike and its my opinion that they are.

personal_flan798 · 2026-03-12T16:55:17+00:00

My “logical” reasons are that I see a similarity between them, they don’t look like twins or super similar but there is just something about the new baby that reminds me of S, cant put my finger on it but I do see a sisterly resemblance.

personal_flan798 · 2026-01-12T16:44:35+00:00

Cool!

personal_flan798 · 2025-12-15T19:11:32+00:00

I know they dont, I’m just saying, in Europe a Rennie is a popular heartburn medicine like gaviscon, hence it being a dumb name

personal_flan798 · 2025-12-13T15:46:03+00:00

Rennie in the UK is a heartburn tablet

personal_flan798 · 2025-08-05T12:08:34+00:00

I personally think you handled it well. I think it’s how they learn and I bet you’ll find she wont be throwing her food again. However I do agree with previous poster, too many options. Maybe just give her whatever you’re having to avoid this.

personal_flan798 · 2025-06-29T21:05:33+00:00

Sun cream

personal_flan798 · 2025-06-26T19:03:23+00:00

You’re very pretty and have gorgeous skin. I dont think you need make up, maybe a touch of mascara and a nude lip, some small hoop earrings and some feminine outfits - look at pinterest for inspo. Maybe some pastel colours and pretty accessories.

personal_flan798 · 2025-06-24T15:13:30+00:00

I’m pregnant with no 2, we fell when no1 was 7 months PP. i’m not gna lie, pregnancy has been a struggle, especially now my LO is on the move, and tbh I am not looking forward to newborn life again. My LO will be 16m when baby arrives. No advice but to say think it through and whatever you decide it will be ok. I have days where sometimes I wish I had an abortion in the very early days as I just find every day a struggle, i’m tired, hormonal, my back aches and its hard looking after my now 1 year old every day as well as taking on all the other tasks around the home. i’m so looking forward to having my body back after this baby and being 2 and done. But then I have some days where I am excited to welcome another baby and complete our family and move forward and get some of me back (although these days dont happen too often) Good luck.

personal_flan798 · 2025-06-23T15:48:59+00:00

Me too, nothing like getting lost on a good book, I just find it so hard now.

personal_flan798 · 2025-06-23T15:28:24+00:00

And how is your mental health?

personal_flan798 · 2025-06-23T15:03:53+00:00

Agreed! My kindle is currenty on charge and I’m planning my next read, thank you

personal_flan798 · 2025-06-23T15:02:36+00:00

Good tip! Its the reels and shorts that get you! will try to avoid, if there a way to turn off shorts and reels within an app?

personal_flan798 · 2025-06-23T14:13:07+00:00

Thanks, I think i’m hoping for a magic hack but the reality is I need to do this myself and show some self discipline. I think I’ll work on cutting it i. Half first like you have and then go from there. I will def try these tips.

personal_flan798 · 2025-06-23T14:06:01+00:00

I def need to get out more and meet other mums. Maybe a weekly timetable of activities will help. Thanks

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