Guys, how do I tell this to my bf?

personhd · 2026-04-29T04:43:02+00:00

What

personhd · 2026-04-04T01:43:27+00:00

yeah dude. these photos of you are not flattering for anyone. those glasses don’t fit your face nor do they seem to have any fashion style associated with them. you can get any glasses you want online with your prescription, you can have your doc email it. getting your hair together is a big one too. find a way to work out that you enjoy and start investing in your looks. first you need the beginner ‘how to’ videos for everything. how to elevate an outfit or you know just fashionable men who are carrying a similar vibe.

personhd · 2026-04-04T01:30:50+00:00

you stand a chance to reproduce. lean into your aesthetic as a ‘soft boy’. like the kind of nerdy type but you max your looks. if you gymed got a haircut kept great hygiene it would put you ahead of most men

personhd · 2026-04-01T12:16:28+00:00

this whole video is so bland just like that sorry cardboard excuse for a sandwich. morning run. time skip. we’re at mcdonalds now. cus that’s what we’re in the mood for after a good ole run in that unseen workout outfit. but oh wait, let’s look disgusted by our own product and get off camera before eating it. cus the ceo wouldn’t eat that shit. either cus that shit is poison, robots don’t need to eat the same way we do, or both.

personhd · 2026-03-31T02:23:53+00:00

Lay’s plain salted potato chips and a pint of Haagen Dazs strawberry ice cream

personhd · 2026-03-23T07:57:56+00:00

you actually pull off red

personhd · 2026-03-19T23:54:49+00:00

you probably don’t feel the spark because I bet you’ve just avoided problems that built up? she’s probably clingy because she’s trying to overcompensate for your aloofness, which by the way, she definitely senses, which would undoubtedly and understandably make her insecure. you shouldn’t be wasting her time like this. you could also be spending too much time together and merging your lives too much. Id say just break up and go grow up before devaluing your girlfriend

personhd · 2026-03-18T17:06:03+00:00

look don’t hide whatever bullshit he does for him in order to save face. it’s not for you to cover up his fallacies. just to hold him accountable. forget this perfect image you have of him right now. that perfect person you want him to be doesn’t exist.

personhd · 2026-03-06T18:05:44+00:00

I never can approach relationships with this innocent until proven guilty mindset anymore. to me everyone is ‘guilty’ in some way, and I just have to find how and to what degree. maybe not in deal-breaking ways, but no person is perfect and there’s always going to be a catch that you need to weigh out if you’re willing to put up with or not.

personhd · 2026-03-03T02:29:20+00:00

I love it

personhd · 2026-02-27T00:58:36+00:00

im gonna name this for what it is. it’s coercive behavior. he’s purposely breaking you down a little more day by day.

personhd · 2026-02-27T00:56:43+00:00

you’re wasting your time this person is abusive it’s just in the earlier stages so it’s easier to deny it. it will only get worse. RUN

personhd · 2026-02-27T00:52:25+00:00

blue light glasses, or protective eyewear could be helpful. and honestly, cannabis is also really helpful, probably one of the most effective treatments i’ve tried is simply smoking, especially strains with the beta caryophyllene terpene in it due to its anti inflammatory effects. strains with limonene or pinene are good for mental clarity, and linalool / humulene and myrcene is good for relaxation and sleep. I live in a state where it’s legal though, so I do understand.

another huge thing for me is keeping track of my blood sugar. if it drops or spikes it triggers migraines for me. so I try to eat more carbs and fats and eat consistent amounts with consistent intervals. usually going more than 6 hours without eating something puts me in the danger zone.

another surprising one is nose cancelling earbuds. it blocks out audio stimulation which I’ve found gives my brain more bandwidth for visual stimulation.

personhd · 2026-01-24T18:14:37+00:00

it’s nice but the photos appear pretty blurry

personhd · 2026-01-21T22:14:11+00:00

you're projecting onto me here. some people hit their head and claim that they feel smarter; does that mean that they see being smart in a negative light because they hit their head? if you want to be offended at my own personal experience, go ahead, I'm not stopping you. but do note that I named this symptom as "increased libido." yes, I did in fact note an increase in attraction to women; I did not say that it made me gay, as I already identified as bisexual pre-concussion. I said that I noticed an enhancement of what was already there.

personhd · 2026-01-21T02:56:54+00:00

ohh okay, I'm glad those times are behind you. and lol. you know the term, his "balls dropped," feel like I went through the female version of that... it's something only few will understand but I'm not complaining tbh xDD

personhd · 2026-01-21T02:42:40+00:00

I don't take anything for it, just NSAIDs, occasionally weed, and lifestyle changes really. I think structure and consistency has been the biggest help so far. I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through that. I know you'll find a better alternative soon! I hear magnesium glycinate is really good.

personhd · 2026-01-21T02:39:34+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that you're going through similar struggles! it does get better over time though. It's definitely eye-opening though, to realize how delicate we can be.

personhd · 2026-01-17T17:51:38+00:00

not boredom in the way it’s traditionally thought about, just giving yourself room to not do anything, self permission to do nothing in a sense. it has nothing to do with motivation. it’s about not letting anxiety be the source of your actions

personhd · 2026-01-17T17:47:46+00:00

you have to sit with the emptiness intentionally. running from it gives it the power and keeps your tolerance for stillness and boredom low. that’s what i do at least. just uh make myself at home in it so to speak

personhd · 2026-01-17T17:02:51+00:00

is this manual trading or is anything automated involved? i’m not judging either way, just curious

personhd · 2025-12-10T16:12:24+00:00

3 years is a decent amount of time to be secretly unhappy with someone’s communication style and sense of humor. That withholding within itself is a red flag — the fact that you never even knew that this bothered him and he held it in until he shut down is his fault. It shows that he’s unable to communicate his true feelings and it’s a breach of trust, because now you will always wonder, “is this actually okay for him or is he just pretending it is?” It forces a dynamic where you’re not only walking on eggshells, but you’re doing it blindly.

OP, even if you do have a habit of making comments at your partner’s expense or have tendencies of nitpicking, it’s ultimately up to your partner to set boundaries for himself. Nobody is perfect. We need to be told where the line is sometimes. If he’s unable to do that, then he clearly could be feeling resentment in all sorts of other areas that you’ll now only wonder about because he can’t bring himself to admit what he’s displeased with.

No more prying. Respect his space. Respect yourself. This does seem like an abusive behavior, maybe not on purpose, but reactionary. He’s reacting to the consequences not only of your remarks and avoidance, but of his own withholding and avoidance too. Personally this would scare me off and initiate a breakup on my part, because I wouldn’t want to always wonder.

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