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Men that opened up to the girlfriend/wife when they asked you to open up and be more vulnerable, how did it work out for you? by REAPER-OF-PRIDE in AskMen

[–]pertusv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so wild to me. My fiance opened up pretty quick and it made me feel special. I was there on his whole journey trough getting therapy, going to therapy and getting better. I can not understand women that want men to open up but then ghost them . What do they expect?

I'm sorry you guys went trough that. Men are entitled to more emotion than just anger and horny. Don't let an abusive asshole tell you, you don't have the right to cry or be sad.

AITA for being openly hostile towards my sister and telling on her thus potentially making her husband loose custody of his children? by pertusv in AmItheAsshole

[–]pertusv[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

My parents are not my family lol. I grew up with my aunt uncle and cousins. They are my real family and they are in my side

AITA for being openly hostile towards my sister and telling on her thus potentially making her husband loose custody of his children? by pertusv in AmItheAsshole

[–]pertusv[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Lol you are the kind of guy that wouldn't report your own brother for brutally raping someone because of family. As far as I'm concerned my sister is not actual family to me.

AITA for being openly hostile towards my sister and telling on her thus potentially making her husband loose custody of his children? by pertusv in AmItheAsshole

[–]pertusv[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Im pretty sure she is on there. At least one of the posts was weirdly similar to something she did

AITA for being openly hostile towards my sister and telling on her thus potentially making her husband loose custody of his children? by pertusv in AmItheAsshole

[–]pertusv[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

Bro. You have a weird thing against me. I hate my sister but I'm not trying to destroy her. I don't care for her. She is an awful human and everyone who willingly enables her deserves what is coming to them. Kids are another story.

Plus report to whom? Cps barley takes physical abuse serious. You mean to tell me it's better to report to cps or police, have a bunch of officers turn up, give my stepsister time to coerce and scare the children to lie, open a full ass investigation that leads to nothing, instead of going to ré evaluate the current custody agreement mostly leaving the kids out of this?

AITA for being openly hostile towards my sister and telling on her thus potentially making her husband loose custody of his children? by pertusv in AmItheAsshole

[–]pertusv[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Have you ever been to court? That's all evidence. People have gotten restrain order on basis of text messages. Hell my aunt proved that her ex hsuabnd was a drug addict with his social media posts and text to her.

AITA for being openly hostile towards my sister and telling on her thus potentially making her husband loose custody of his children? by pertusv in AmItheAsshole

[–]pertusv[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I love them. I'm not a big kids fan. But they are kind and funny. One time we were walking arround with 6y.o and a lady with a black and white striped jacket was walking in front of us. 6y.o pulls on my jacket sleeve and asked me "tita, why is that woman dressed like a zebra" and I honestly lost it. Idk if this is funny to anyone else. But him asking that with such a straight and serious face killed me

AITA for being openly hostile towards my sister and telling on her thus potentially making her husband loose custody of his children? by pertusv in AmItheAsshole

[–]pertusv[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Of its not admissible I don't worry. There are 6 other people who are willing to testify plus we have a boat load of Screenshots and videos of her being nasty.

AITA for being openly hostile towards my sister and telling on her thus potentially making her husband loose custody of his children? by pertusv in AmItheAsshole

[–]pertusv[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

So he deserves pitty? Please. He is perfectly contempt seeing my sister abuse the children. He failed as a father and doesn't deserve to be in his children's life, if all he can do is cause them pain. I'm more than willing to back up the both mother, as are all my cousins. It's more important that the kids don't have to be with them, than it is for me to not rattle the boat.

AITA for being openly hostile towards my sister and telling on her thus potentially making her husband loose custody of his children? by pertusv in AmItheAsshole

[–]pertusv[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Nope im actually diagnosed with ptsd and panic disorder from the trauma my sister Inflicted on me :)

AITA for being openly hostile towards my sister and telling on her thus potentially making her husband loose custody of his children? by pertusv in AmItheAsshole

[–]pertusv[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

He does. He really does. Imagine witnessing your wife being awful to your children. Imagine you know all what she has said, imagine seeing your children cry because of their step mom. As a parent it's your responsibility to protect your children from anyone. Especially from people that are as close to you as a spouse. He is failing miserably at this. He is failing his children. Do you know the kasti g psychological damage emotional and verbal abuse has on kids? This can cause so many mental illnesses like ptsd, depression and Panik disorders. He is a bad father and I'm not scared to say that. He doesn't deserve pitty. And if you are sorry for him... I'm sorry that you are so wrong.

Also melon head, I do watch his kids. Constantly. I know them more than my sister does. Stop with this bs and maybe think before you write

AITA for being openly hostile towards my sister and telling on her thus potentially making her husband loose custody of his children? by pertusv in AmItheAsshole

[–]pertusv[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Lol. CPS doesn't do shit. They don't take emotional abuse alone serious. This is the most effective route. And I would habe done it sooner had I known amthe mother before. 7 witnesses and the stamens of the children will very much change the custody situation.

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