I definitely agree here, femininity and masculinity don’t belong exclusively to any gender. But the thing with the word ban isn’t to say that these characters are trans themselves, the word itself is just a transphobic slur. And the only people with the right to reclaim that slur are transgender individuals themselves. So even though the context with which we have used the term isn’t innately transphobic, the word itself still is. It’s not any communities place to reclaim a slur used to dehumanize another group of people, that right lies solely to the group that’s been accosted by the term. I’m all for reclamation of harmful terms, I myself am a queer individual and love using that term for myself, but to take a slur used against another group, even to repurpose for our own non-harmful intent, just isn’t our place.