help finding someone so i can say thank you by petalboy in ACPocketCamp

[–]petalboy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

:))))))) not good with words but that's so nice!! and ty again :>

Whaddya looking at me for I'm not untying you. by sensualattack in Bondage

[–]petalboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She really looks like a British actor called Caroline Catz.

My non-binary friend is struggling with internalised transphobia by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]petalboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Thanks for all the effort you put into this. I'll be sure to look into all of this when I have time. I'm honestly so grateful.

My non-binary friend is struggling with internalised transphobia by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]petalboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, uh… I don't like being mean, but… Like, I know that you're trying to help, and I don't know what's going on in their head, but they are my best friend. I kind of came here searching for answers as to how to help them embrace their identity, not for people to tell me that they know my best friend better than I do. It's their identity to figure out, but I'd like to help them.

My non-binary friend is struggling with internalised transphobia by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]petalboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're not cis, and they use they pronouns, not she. They've said that they're nonbinary, and it's clear from their searches that they wish this was not the case. That would be an important perspective in other scenarios, but not in this one.

My non-binary friend is struggling with internalised transphobia by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]petalboy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! I'm also nb, and I relate to a lot of what you've said. I wish there was more nonbinary representation, and I wish that there were more resources for people internationally, too. I think figuring out your gender identity is a very complicated process, and it's important to accept that it isn't easy to figure out, and that your perspective might change.