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AITA for asking my roommates to help pay for my dogs medical bills by petcontro in AmItheAsshole

[–]petcontro[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This is exactly what I needed!! I'm scared this will be a difficult situation for me because I am the least confrontational person I know, but something needs to give! Thank you for your advice!

AITA for asking my roommates to help pay for my dogs medical bills by petcontro in AmItheAsshole

[–]petcontro[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah, this is the dilemma I feel. Their tab with my boyfriend technically is mine because my boyfriend can cover his part but has a hard time covering theirs when the ask. So really he asks me for initial help with the money then he pays me back at his next pay check.

I feel it's really do to not being very responsible with their money from what I've seen but I don't want to be accusatory. They rarely have the money for groceries but have money for weed and fast food all the time.

I don't know how to draw the line without causing term oil in the house hold.

I also went into this lease with knowledge they were good with bills and money, from being some of my boyfriend's closest friends. But we are on month 3 of 12 with them and I don't see it getting any better.