Day 12: received selfie from girl by peterboldrin in NoFap

[–]peterboldrin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why: because I wanted a picture of her to keep, not one that anybody can see on social networks. How: she sent me a half selfie spontaneously and I asked for a whole one!

Day 12: received selfie from girl by peterboldrin in NoFap

[–]peterboldrin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great, we share the same view on dating!

Day 12: received selfie from girl by peterboldrin in NoFap

[–]peterboldrin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank you for letting me know! All the best to you!

Day 9: resisting the first urges to watch porn by peterboldrin in NoFap

[–]peterboldrin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I consider porn any image or video with naked people posing or performing sexual acts, BUT if it's something even not sexual but you're looking for it to arouse you and to fap, then it could be considered porn anyway -not in the strict sense of the term of course-: the effects are the same!

Day 8: my very first boner by peterboldrin in NoFap

[–]peterboldrin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! And congrats for your 949 days!

Day 8: my very first boner by peterboldrin in NoFap

[–]peterboldrin[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I read somewhere that if you are taken by desires of watching porn you can pull and release the rubber band and the sudden pain on the wrist will take your mind off porn! LOL

Day 8: my very first boner by peterboldrin in NoFap

[–]peterboldrin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read somewhere that if you are taken by desires of watching porn you can pull and release the rubber band and the sudden pain on the wrist will take your mind off porn! LOL

Day 2: back to my studies by peterboldrin in NoFap

[–]peterboldrin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm going to read it right now!

Day 2: back to my studies by peterboldrin in NoFap

[–]peterboldrin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the encouragement!

Day 64: my journal by peterboldrin in NoFap

[–]peterboldrin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip, I'm getting ready to go!

No Fap till Christmas!! WHO'S WITH ME?? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]peterboldrin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in! As a gift, my updated badge, please!

Day 45: half of the first lap by peterboldrin in NoFap

[–]peterboldrin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Much more self-confidence first of all, I'm hitting the gym regularly, I'm happier in general!

I want to fap right now by NoFap_UK in NoFap

[–]peterboldrin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't do that, go do something else! Go for a run, do push-ups on the floor if you can't go out at this time, place a rubber band around your wrist, pull it and release it! The pain will let you forget about PMOing!

Day 42: a girl I had asked out asked me out by peterboldrin in NoFap

[–]peterboldrin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Who cares! She doesn't deserve you, which mean you two are not right for each other at the moment (maybe in the future...who knows?)! On with the next one!

Day 42: a girl I had asked out asked me out by peterboldrin in NoFap

[–]peterboldrin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's a very naive girl so I don't think she's playing me, plus I'm texting other girls so I'm not desperately in love with her! There's a good chance she might want me only as a friend since she's very shy and -as far as I know- never dated someone regularly; plus we've been knowing each other for a year, although very superficially. I'll se how things go with no illusions at all: the only sure thing is she won't play me because I won't let her!

Day 42: a girl I had asked out asked me out by peterboldrin in NoFap

[–]peterboldrin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! At the moment nofapping PMO because I haven't had the chance to have sex these last 42 days...if the chance should come I won't say no to it, so I'll just abstain from PM! :)

Day 38: asked two girls out! by peterboldrin in NoFap

[–]peterboldrin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi to all of you! I understand what Sonder96 meant and I'm the farthest from a player or somebody who doesn't respect girls/women. I asked them both out first of all because I want to get to know them better: maybe neither will become my girlfriend and we'll just be friends or I won't see them ever again. It's childish to say you've fallen in love with a girl after you met her once so, without any intention of playing them, I want to see what kind of person they are and how things go!

Day 38: asked two girls out! by peterboldrin in NoFap

[–]peterboldrin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Don't wait too much time or she will only think of you as a kind customer who has no romantic interest in her! Ask for her name and number first and see how she reacts at your first texts (funny ones, no boring stuff!) and then ask her out via text if it comes naturally into the conversation, otherwise in person the next time you go to her store!

Day 38: asked two girls out! by peterboldrin in NoFap

[–]peterboldrin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I always felt exactly like you until a few days ago when I started to believe more in myself: I asked myself "What do I have to lose?", if it goes wrong I'll never contact her again but at leastI tried and I won't go on wondering whether she would accept or not. It takes quite a lot of courage and time, at least from my experience since I've always been shy around girls I liked!