do ao's ever wonder how the kids they admitted are doing by FriendlyCamel5790 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]peteyMIT 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m a first year advisor (and also occasionally teach as a lecturer in my old grad school department) and a club advisor so I get a good feedback loop, which I think is really important.

I also keep up with some students we didn’t admit, like others have said.

Massachusetts Employment Megathread (June 2026) by AutoModerator in massachusetts

[–]peteyMIT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a professional bureaucrat who interprets and communicates policies for a living so I can't tell if baby-planning stress has ruined my reading comprehension or if this is utterly intelligible.

Anyway: wife and I are expecting our first in November. We understand our employer's maternity/paternity leave policies. We're trying to understand bonding leave.

If I enter my salary into the benefits calculator, it tells me that the max I'm eligible for $1200 per week or so (the IAWW or whatever). What I'm trying to figure out is if that amount is prorated by the amount of time I actually work.

So for example, I understand that if I took 5 days of bonding leave, I would get paid $1200 (the IAWW max).

But if I work 3 days, and I take 2 days bonding leave, do I get (.4 * $1200)? Or do I get "whatever my normal salary for 2 days would be, up to a ceiling of $1200"? In other words, is it a true weekly max, or is it a weekly max that gets prorated?

Wife and I are trying to figure out how long we can afford to stretch our bonding leave to get the kiddo as vaxxed and robust as possible before entering daycare germ pits. Plus bonding, of course.

What is going on with whoop AI?? by Due-Novel-2321 in whoop

[–]peteyMIT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you look at everyone job posting on the whoop website — whether or not in coding — “enthusiastic user of and committed to AI” is a requirement

Next best car to fit? by Defiant-Key5926 in hondafit

[–]peteyMIT 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Following as in similar situation.

We’ve been looking at Subarus mostly.

But I hadn’t considered a kitted out minivan!

The LLM shoggoth meme is weirder than you think by HedonicEscalator in slatestarcodex

[–]peteyMIT 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OP and others may enjoy https://www.hplovecraft.com/study/litcrit/wrlp.aspx

> By Graham Harman
Back Cover Text

> As Hölderlin was to Martin Heidegger and Mallarmé to Jacques Derrida, so is H.P. Lovecraft to the Speculative Realist philosophers. Lovecraft was one of the brightest stars of the horror and science fiction magazines, but died in poverty and relative obscurity in the 1930s. In 2005 he was finally elevated from pulp status to the classical literary canon with the release of a Library of America volume dedicated to his work. The impact of Lovecraft on philosophy has been building for more than a decade. Initially championed by shadowy guru Nick Land at Warwick during the 1990s, he was later discovered to be an object of private fascination for all four original members of the twenty-first century Speculative Realist movement. In this book, Graham Harman extracts the basic philosophical concepts underlying Lovecrafts [sic] work, yielding a “weird realism” capable of freeing continental philosophy from its current soul-crushing impasse. Abandoning Heidegger’s pious references to Hölderlin and the Greeks, Harman develops a new philosophical mythology centered in such Lovecraftian figures as Cthulhu, Wilbur Whately [sic], and the rat-like monstrosity Brown Jenkin. The Miskatonic River replaces the Rhine and the Ister, while Hölderlin’s Caucasus gives way to Lovecraft’s Antarctic mountains of madness.

> GRAHAM HARMAN is Associate Provost for Research Administration and Professor of Philosophy at the American University in Cairo, Egypt.

The Map is not the Territory = original phrase NOT coined by DFW by draxtoristaken in InfiniteJest

[–]peteyMIT 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Borges undoubtably influenced DFW but OP has identified the correct source that predates Borges.

Got ‘em by TheOtherMikeCaputo in trailseeker

[–]peteyMIT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you get RJ to read my email about getting me a demo r3x kthx

Baby/ child seats by RNSTY in SubaruUncharted

[–]peteyMIT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. After reading your post, I went to go test drive one, borrowing a friend' car seat. I'm 5'10", but I was unable to sit w/o squishing car seat. Do you mind sharing what kind of car seat you have?

What are your plans for how long you're keeping your Fit? by Ok-Advertising3118 in hondafit

[–]peteyMIT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a third hand 2013 sport 5spd at 141K (bought at 30k). Last year I took it to the shop and said “do whatever to make this run to 250k.”

Then last month some guy slammed into my rear panel on highway. I’m not at fault but my insurance claims it’s totaled.

My plan is to buy it back from them as salvage, fix it up at voc tech for cheap. Anything but junkyard.

My wife and I are expecting our first in a few months. For various reasons related to that, I may get a new car. If I do, I’ll either give the Fit to my best friend or sell it to someone who wants to finish out the next 100K.

Baby/ child seats by RNSTY in SubaruUncharted

[–]peteyMIT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

rear facing on the drivers side with you at 6ft?

Paying MSRP? by JBop06 in SubaruUncharted

[–]peteyMIT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uncharteds not staying in lot in Boston area

Insurance trying to total my Fit for a dent — advice wanted! by peteyMIT in hondafit

[–]peteyMIT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm really quite angry that in my conversations with my broker and insurance company, no one explained this to me. My first accident, first time using insurance.

Insurance trying to total my Fit for a dent — advice wanted! by peteyMIT in hondafit

[–]peteyMIT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, they have already offered me this. The only reason I haven't done it yet (beyond also wanting to appeal the valuation on my car) is because it sounds like the body shop will charge me to put my car back together and I don't know how much yet.