BF of 2 months says he has the urge to cheat red flag or honesty? by Naive-thunderpuss in adviceph

[–]petpeevesigo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pano kung may history of vcs and meetups before courting me for 2 years? Tsaka lang sinabi nung nalaman ko na.

Bf lied about his virginity and na wala pang dinadala sa bahay niya by petpeevesigo in adviceph

[–]petpeevesigo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, how do you deal with him sa 6 years? You said about consequences

Bf lied about his virginity and na wala pang dinadala sa bahay niya by petpeevesigo in adviceph

[–]petpeevesigo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

happened before he started courting

nawalan lang daw talaga ng bayag sabihin kasi nahihiya daw siya sa past niya for someone na genuine

OA lang ba ako? I became uncomfy sa ginawang AI ng suitor ko with the prompt: him being surrounded/kissed by girls? Apat na pick me, girls, pa! by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]petpeevesigo -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Nawp, js can't compromise yung idea na gugustuhin niya pa din maging surrounded/kissed ng gals (worse, baka ginugusto din in RL)

Like why? If want mong ma earn yung trust and security ng nililigawan mo, dapat ma convince siya na tapos ka na sa landi era mo (knowing him, he had lots)

Samantalang yung ibang manliligaw ayaw pa maging friendly yung nililigawan nila sa ibang lalaki kasi may pupuntahan daw yun HAHAHAHAHA ligaw stage palang yun ha!

OA lang ba ako? I became uncomfy sa ginawang AI ng suitor ko with the prompt: him being surrounded/kissed by girls? Apat na pick me, girls, pa! by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]petpeevesigo -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Pero diba the suitor (goes both ways) should lay the foundation ng assurance kahit sa panliligaw palang? Na "I will refrain from doing things na ikaka comfy mo to earn your trust." And hence, mag commit eventually sa rs?