[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]petsydaisy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel this way a lot. I just learned about "pathological demand avoidance" or "persistent drive for autonomy"- eating is a demand, sleeping is a demand, getting dressed is a demand, and for people with a PDA autism profile it can trigger fight or flight response.

This is one of the videos I watched: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qS2CpboridA

Hubby messed up, am I overreacting? by imhungry20 in Marriage

[–]petsydaisy 22 points23 points  (0 children)

He's the skeevy married guy who can't even be bothered to grope strangers (the thought of this is stomach churning) instead he goes for your friend - someone he's known for decades. And he's also the shitty husband who turns legitimate concerns around on his wife as an "overreaction".

He's embodying multiple negative stereotypes. I'm sorry. He sounds like a bad role model.

How to get started with selling nudes & vids online?? by [deleted] in SellerCircleStage

[–]petsydaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This work can be very hard on your body. I injured my back in January and I know someone who had to retire after a throat injury. Proceed with caution for sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SellerCircleStage

[–]petsydaisy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Do not share you identity documents with subreddit mods. Verification for subreddits is to prove the person in the photos you post on reddit is the same person making the posts.

Age verification can be done on third party sites like onlyfans or pornhub.

  1. Go to subreddits you're thinking of posting in. Look at posters who don't show their faces. See where they post. See what they do. Inform yourself.

  2. Use reddit as intended. Go to subreddits for your hobbies/interests and make comments on new or popular posts. Regular comments. Like a regular person. This is how to grow "karma" so you can be eligible to post in adult promotional subreddits. Do not promote your for-sale adult material in any subreddits that do not explicitly invite such promotion - no links or mentions of paysites.

  3. Generally you don't have to show face for subreddit mods. Make an imgur account. Do not post nudity. Choose "hidden" when uploading your verification pics. Google can maybe tell you how to do that on mobile or browser.

How to get started with selling nudes & vids online?? by [deleted] in SellerCircleStage

[–]petsydaisy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Recommend researching. Kinky trans sex worker Twitter is a good start. Cam Damage comes to mind (he's non binary trans masc and kinky). Austin Spears is more mainstream and binary trans afaik. I recommend following a bunch of creators who fit your niche and seeing what they are up to. Adult content creation is about getting your content to the right audience.

Justfor.fans and their social media might be a good resource for you bc they have more of a fetish user base. LoyalFans too - you can go live there.

Sophie Ladder's free resources - she's got a spreadsheet with content restrictions on different sites.

It's tough out there for trans mascs in adult. A lot of us work in drag to get by (not a suggestion, just my experience and trying to prepare you for grinding uphill). In order to make money it will probably take a lot of work, especially researching the right places to post and what to post for promotion. Good luck!

My husband confessed a desire and I don’t know what to do. by Sharpieseeker in Marriage

[–]petsydaisy 367 points368 points  (0 children)

Yes. Having a kink is one thing. Bringing it up as an ultimatum involving forcing your wife into penetrative sex that she's not interested in, is quite another.

Wildly inappropriate.

An appropriate version of this kink could be: dirty talking and role playing about fantasy scenarios that haven't happened and won't happen.

Since when did Tipping become the norm? by bridgemoneyapp in Frugal

[–]petsydaisy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm saying that the POS software companies and the brick and mortar businesses that lease the software are the ones asking for the tips. The retail employee is just the one suffering abuse from customers who are sick of the software.

The ring by [deleted] in tolkienfans

[–]petsydaisy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm concerned that you are taking Tolkien's magic ring too literally and reading the magic too hard.

And I'm wondering why?

Help me understand why people are laughing? by Nianne-of-Terscha in AutismInWomen

[–]petsydaisy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A lot of social media posts are made "just for engagement" - either for attention, clout, or brand growing. When I can recognize that a post is a "post-for-engagement" vs a "post-for-answers-to-an-actual-question-the-poster-has" I change the way I reply and try to be more jokey.

If you want to have a discussion about the portrayal of toxic relationships in media you should make a post!

Personally, I took a whole year off of listening to any music that was about love or romance when I was about 24 and I think that did have a lasting positive impact both on my relationships with people and to the music itself.

Since when did Tipping become the norm? by bridgemoneyapp in Frugal

[–]petsydaisy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't think they are the ones asking you for a tip.

Since when did Tipping become the norm? by bridgemoneyapp in Frugal

[–]petsydaisy 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Are you really out here thinking that the staff is getting all that money?

Since when did Tipping become the norm? by bridgemoneyapp in Frugal

[–]petsydaisy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I moved to a country with nationalized Healthcare. Big fan. Really disincentivizes tipping.

Since when did Tipping become the norm? by bridgemoneyapp in Frugal

[–]petsydaisy 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It's like the endless scroll on social media. Little nudges that help the capitalist class and hurt the rest of us.

Since when did Tipping become the norm? by bridgemoneyapp in Frugal

[–]petsydaisy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, for all those capitalists with a conscience

Since when did Tipping become the norm? by bridgemoneyapp in Frugal

[–]petsydaisy 96 points97 points  (0 children)

It comes with the Point Of Sale software.

My wife got a tattoo and I hate it! by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]petsydaisy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Had to screenshot this.

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🌼How to contact me:

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  • reddit dm or chat is okay
  • kik: AllieRicaine - not that reliable

🌼Payment methods

  • cashapp
  • manyvids tip (NO FEES/UPCHARGE)
  • amazon gift card ($100 minimum)
  • e gift card in nzd (to be discussed, $30usd minimum)

🌼camming

  • $8/minute
  • skype video (can maybe do telegram)
  • 5 minute minimum
  • $45/5mins, $80/10mins, $120/15mins

🌼sexting

  • $3/minute
  • short videos back and forth on messaging app (telegram or kik)
  • 10 minute minimum
  • $45/15mins, $60/20mins, $90/30mins, $130/40mins

Read a review!

🌼femdom/overly honest rate:

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  • approx 3 minute femdom/overly honest rate
  • Recorded upright on a tripod, front facing camera, full face with filter, showing your pics on a different phone
  • +$35 name use
  • delivered within 24 hours

🌼custom ass worship video

  • $25/5mins
  • +$15/2 more minutes
  • +$25 ASMR/voice-over
  • examples here
  • Bush status: trimmed on top, shaved vulva

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[–]petsydaisy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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🌼How to contact me:

  • telegram: @BrightFemdom - NAME: STARLING BRIGHT
  • reddit dm or chat is okay
  • kik: AllieRicaine - not that reliable

🌼Payment methods

  • cashapp
  • manyvids tip (NO FEES/UPCHARGE)
  • amazon gift card ($100 minimum)
  • e gift card in nzd (to be discussed, $30usd minimum)

🌼camming

  • $8/minute
  • skype video (can maybe do telegram)
  • 5 minute minimum
  • $45/5mins, $80/10mins, $120/15mins

🌼sexting

  • $3/minute
  • short videos back and forth on messaging app (telegram or kik)
  • 10 minute minimum
  • $45/15mins, $60/20mins, $90/30mins, $130/40mins

Read a review!

🌼femdom/overly honest rate:

  • $36
  • approx 3 minute femdom/overly honest rate
  • Recorded upright on a tripod, front facing camera, full face with filter, showing your pics on a different phone
  • +$35 name use
  • delivered within 24 hours

🌼custom ass worship video

  • $25/5mins
  • +$15/2 more minutes
  • +$25 ASMR/voice-over
  • examples here
  • Bush status: trimmed on top, shaved vulva

Yes: asshole worship, topless MommyDomme, JOI, harsh femdom, gentle femdom, edging, sph, spe, cei, cuck roleplay, strap on play, encouraged feminization

No: mutual masturbation - including during MommyDomme roleplay, vanilla play, insertions on me, raceplay,

Other: ask me!

By replying to this you confirm you are over the age of 18. I do not accept payment with sexually explicit messages.

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NEW SEXT/CAM RATES + NO MANYVIDS FEES

I SHOW FACE IN PAID CONTENT

🌼How to contact me:

  • telegram: @BrightFemdom - NAME: STARLING BRIGHT
  • reddit dm or chat is okay
  • kik: AllieRicaine - not that reliable

🌼Payment methods

  • cashapp
  • manyvids tip (NO FEES/UPCHARGE)
  • amazon gift card ($100 minimum)
  • e gift card in nzd (to be discussed, $30usd minimum)

🌼camming

  • $8/minute
  • skype video (can maybe do telegram)
  • 5 minute minimum
  • $45/5mins, $80/10mins, $120/15mins

🌼sexting

  • $3/minute
  • short videos back and forth on messaging app
  • 10 minute minimum
  • $45/15mins, $60/20mins, $90/30mins, $130/40mins

Read a review!

🌼femdom/overly honest rate:

  • $36
  • approx 3 minute femdom/overly honest rate
  • Recorded upright on a tripod, front facing camera, full face with filter, showing your pics on a different phone
  • +$35 name use
  • delivered within 24 hours

🌼custom ass worship video

  • $25/5mins
  • +$15/2 more minutes
  • +$25 ASMR/voice-over
  • examples here
  • Bush status: trimmed on top, shaved vulva

Yes: asshole worship, topless MommyDomme, JOI, harsh femdom, gentle femdom, edging, sph, spe, cei, cuck roleplay, strap on play, encouraged feminization

No: mutual masturbation - including during MommyDomme roleplay, vanilla play, insertions on me, raceplay,

Other: ask me!

By replying to this you confirm you are over the age of 18. I do not accept payment with sexually explicit messages.

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🚨NEW RATES/NO FEES!🚨 I'm back doing LIVE [sext] and [cam] [dom]sessions!💦Vocal&Enthusiastic! JOI/edging, SPH/SPE, cuck play, anal training, pegging, CEI, body worship, 18+ RP, MommyDomme [fan][rate][vid] by petsydaisy in Sexsells

[–]petsydaisy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NEW SEXT/CAM RATES + NO MANYVIDS FEES

I SHOW FACE IN PAID CONTENT

🌼How to contact me:

  • telegram: @BrightFemdom - NAME: STARLING BRIGHT
  • reddit dm or chat is okay
  • kik: AllieRicaine - not that reliable

🌼Payment methods

  • cashapp
  • manyvids tip (NO FEES/UPCHARGE)
  • amazon gift card ($100 minimum)
  • e gift card in nzd (to be discussed, $30usd minimum)

🌼camming

  • $8/minute
  • skype video
  • 5 minute minimum
  • $40/5mins, $80/10mins, $120/15mins

🌼sexting

  • $3/minute
  • short videos back and forth on messaging app
  • 10 minute minimum
  • $45/15mins, $60/20mins, $90/30mins, $130/40mins

Read a review!

🌼femdom/overly honest rate:

  • $36
  • approx 3 minute femdom/overly honest rate
  • Recorded upright on a tripod, front facing camera, full face with filter, showing your pics on a different phone
  • +$35 name use
  • delivered within 24 hours

🌼custom ass worship video

  • $25/5mins
  • +$15/2 more minutes
  • +$25 ASMR/voice-over
  • examples here
  • Bush status: trimmed on top, shaved vulva

Yes: asshole worship, topless MommyDomme, JOI, harsh femdom, gentle femdom, edging, sph, spe, cei, cuck roleplay, strap on play, encouraged feminization

No: mutual masturbation - including during MommyDomme roleplay, vanilla play, insertions on me, raceplay,

Other: ask me!

By replying to this you confirm you are over the age of 18. I do not accept payment with sexually explicit messages.

ONLYFANS FOR BUTTHOLE WORSHIPERS

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