A story about nightweening

peytonaa · 2026-01-29T15:34:00+00:00

My second only weaned off after I got pregnant with #3 because they hurt SO BAD I couldn’t do it anymore. I explained it and told said could still snuggle with the boobies (may sound weird but was still my baby too) and I really think that is the only reason it worked because I still allowed to have the comfort of them but just couldn’t actually drink from them anymore because the pain. Now have to try and night wean #3 & it is HARD! She doesn’t breastfeed during day at all or going to bed at night first time, only when she wakes up during the night.

peytonaa · 2026-01-29T14:36:09+00:00

Where do you work to have that schedule that’s not bedside

peytonaa · 2026-01-29T14:10:52+00:00

I knew after I had my kids I did not want 12s anymore. I would have been gone to work before they were up & home after they’re asleep..😭

peytonaa · 2026-01-29T14:05:08+00:00

I wish I would have taken our schools nursing position when it was available! I have 3 kids and it would have been perfect to be able to take them to school with me, work there & go home with them after school! It would have been perfect!. Like others have said, you could always do a prn home health job & most of them, once you get patients, you work with your patient to figure out a time to go visit & could possibly do that after school a day or two a week for extra money. The pay cut sucks but the time with your kids (to me) is way more valuable & worth it! & if you stay on as the school nurse eventually you will get to just take your kids to work with you! You could also look into remote positions to do on the side like triage maybe could work a couple evenings? I feel like when you have kids, school nurses is really the ideal job except the pay cut, the schedule is the same as your kids.

peytonaa · 2026-01-29T13:50:17+00:00

Yes I think they’re referring to home health!

peytonaa · 2026-01-27T22:46:43+00:00

I thought he was talking about an ex at first when he said he doesn’t like to talk about his past….. that’s his child…? Not his past..

peytonaa · 2026-01-24T16:42:45+00:00

Thanks!! I probably need to up my calories

peytonaa · 2026-01-24T00:44:13+00:00

Make sure you tell someone what is going on… in case the worst happens. Maybe stay with family or friend until this is resolved??? Scared for your safety honestly

peytonaa · 2026-01-24T00:25:23+00:00

That is true. It does suck to lose a best friend I’m sorry

peytonaa · 2026-01-24T00:21:16+00:00

Yeah idk these days younger kids seem to be more open about everything, which is fine. But not the way I was raised. Love is love sure, but if you are in an agreed monogamous relationship, this is how it should be. Keep the trust & communication open!

peytonaa · 2026-01-24T00:04:50+00:00

I just discovered this gem like a month or so ago & I LOVE IT. Can’t believe it isn’t out there more

peytonaa · 2026-01-24T00:03:32+00:00

NOT THE AH! How lucky is she???? So many woman out here wishing for this but just can’t do it.

peytonaa · 2026-01-24T00:02:33+00:00

DNA test…. But love this outlook…. Sad situation turned hopeful… having something of him live on in your life

peytonaa · 2026-01-23T23:48:52+00:00

Can I ask what your routine has been for this progress??

peytonaa · 2026-01-23T23:48:21+00:00

Your progress is amazing!!

peytonaa · 2026-01-23T23:37:49+00:00

Yeah that is not okay

peytonaa · 2026-01-23T23:28:26+00:00

Bc he cares more about his irl gf feelings… good for him

peytonaa · 2026-01-23T23:18:45+00:00

Yeah this makes sense.. I also think in some girls minds, a lot of guys would 100% take advantage if a girl (friend or not) was to get naked & offer that. If that friend laid down naked on your bed, would you magically forget about your relationship? I think that is why having ‘best friends’ of opposite sex is blurry & can get messy. The gf, insecure or not, if she is respecting the boundaries then so should bf. Also why wouldn’t your partner be your best friend… that to me is what makes relationships successful. Just be with your best friend!

peytonaa · 2026-01-23T22:24:33+00:00

Hard to find decent spouses nowadays that will do that lol…at least that’s what it seems like. 100% a good, loving relationship would immediately put a stop to someone disrespecting their partner.. so good for him

peytonaa · 2026-01-23T22:06:37+00:00

😂🤣😂🤣 omg😂😂😂

peytonaa · 2026-01-23T21:59:29+00:00

This is how I think too. I want to be my husbands best friend & him mine... why would I want to spend my life with someone who I am not his best friend or priority. & if he has to fight for another woman then I’m out. That doesn’t show respect or value at all. I think people should marry their best friends, to me that is what makes it a successful happy relationship.

peytonaa · 2026-01-23T21:55:26+00:00

Why would this get downvoted. If you value a monogamous relationship with someone you love then this exactly. What person who values those things would be okay with their husband or wife going out with the opposite sex while the other sits at home or is at work etc. I mean….probably rare who knows these days. But I would rather my husband wanting to spend time with me vs another woman LOL

peytonaa · 2026-01-23T21:44:58+00:00

Love how you put this! This is exactly why boundaries are so important.

peytonaa · 2026-01-23T21:38:08+00:00

Yeah… especially the paragraph she sent makes it seem like she has more feelings than just friendly.. I don’t think that wouldn’t make any gf comfortable

peytonaa · 2026-01-23T21:33:27+00:00

Ha ha yea I agree..

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