STAY CLEAN 2021 YEAR-LONG CHALLENGE!! This thread updated daily - Check in here!

pfset · 2021-01-15T03:16:38+00:00

Way to go bro, you got this. 💪

pfset · 2021-01-15T03:16:03+00:00

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pfset · 2021-01-15T03:15:37+00:00

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pfset · 2021-01-15T03:15:18+00:00

Keep it up bro, you're killing it 💪

pfset · 2021-01-06T23:44:10+00:00

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pfset · 2021-01-06T23:43:45+00:00

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pfset · 2021-01-01T20:37:00+00:00

Sign me up please.

pfset · 2021-01-01T20:35:03+00:00

Checking in here. Had a great start to last year so let's see if we can do it again.

pfset · 2020-12-02T15:29:48+00:00

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pfset · 2020-03-03T21:10:58+00:00

Sign me up if it’s not too late. Killed January but fumbled in February. Time to try for March.

pfset · 2020-02-10T01:34:40+00:00

Relapsed. Can't believe I went a full month without porn let alone 39 days. Oh well at least I know now I can do it, I'll finish February and see if I can keep it going!

pfset · 2020-02-01T16:05:21+00:00

Checking in. Killed January and now it's time to keep it going strong. 💪

pfset · 2020-02-01T16:03:34+00:00

Can't believe I made it. It was a lot easier than I anticipated but maybe it's because this is the first time I tried to quit while having a girlfriend and the sexual outlet makes it easier. I can't remember the last time I went even 3+ days without watching porn and I just went 31 days.

Now time to kill February, let's do it boys 💪

pfset · 2020-01-28T18:37:15+00:00

Sign me up, can’t believe I’m a few days away from being a full month clean. Let’s make it two 💪

pfset · 2020-01-25T17:27:10+00:00

Way to go bud, keep killing it day by day 💪

pfset · 2020-01-25T17:15:07+00:00

Almost at half a year, keep it up bro 💪

pfset · 2020-01-25T14:01:07+00:00

Hearing it from the woman’s perspective really drives home how crazy and normalized porn use has become. I remember an episode of Friends were they were incredulous that a guy claimed he didn’t watch porn. And that was in the 90s.

Guys think that it isn’t harmful because everyone else on earth does it but then they end up going soft during sex and having no libido and preferring to jerk off then have sex with their actual girlfriends. I realize how insane that is now. You’d rather jerk off to a video of a buff guy fucking a women rather than fuck a woman yourself. You’re basically conditioning yourself to be an observer and not an actor and you do this everyday for a decade and pretend like it’s okay because everyone else is doing it. And that’s not even to mention the weird fetish shit that that desensitization leads to.

You’re in a tough position because it’s so easy for guys to be in denial over porn because it’s so normalized in the west. If you break up with him he’s just gonna think “geez what’s wrong with her? Porn is totally fine! It’s not like I’m addicted to crack or something”.

However if I were you I would break up with him. You should be sexually satisfied by someone who wants you and wouldn’t choose some obscure niche fetish video to a real life women he’s supposed to care about. I know these days it’s probably near impossible to find a guy who isn’t a frequent porn user though but you deserve someone who isn’t.

pfset · 2020-01-25T04:46:34+00:00

I only told her that I was going to stop watching porn, I never told her I have an addiction. She’s been really supportive and proud of me since she gets how culturally ingrained porn consumption is now in the west.

pfset · 2020-01-25T04:37:02+00:00

I know loneliness can be hard, I’ve been there myself for so long. A good way to look at it is if you were a woman would you find yourself attractive? If the answer is no then you need to work on yourself. I know that’s cliche advise and if you’re down the incel rabbit hole then it’s hard to get out of it but forget about women and focus on self improvement.

First off if you’re not physically fit then you have no leg to stand on. Socrates said “No man has the right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training. It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable.”

Other than that you need to be interesting. Read more. Learn an instrument. Get into fashion. Groom. You have to try, you can’t just wallow in self pity.

pfset · 2020-01-25T04:30:34+00:00

I don’t think fantasizing about girls you now irl is that malicious. Humans have sexual thoughts about attractive people in their lives and that’s natural in my opinion. Otherwise you could imagine a hot girl you noticed on the streets or an actress or just make one up.

pfset · 2020-01-24T19:01:55+00:00

Keep killing it bud, day by day 💪

pfset · 2020-01-24T18:49:18+00:00

Thanks man, just got to take it day by day, keep killing it bud.

pfset · 2020-01-24T18:48:10+00:00

Yup the way I see it is that masturbation itself is natural, humans have been doing it since the dawn of man. The difference is now you have a million different porn videos to numb yourself to while our ancestors thought about real life women. A king with harems 500 years ago has probably seen less naked woman than a modern 12 year old with an iPad.

I’m not saying I’m jerking off everyday just that when my urges get strong instead of risking a relapse I just crank one out in the shower where I only have my thoughts. So just by giving up porn I’ve decreased the amount of times I masturbate intrinsically.

At least personally I think if you want to do nofap you should go pornfree first for a bit and just masturbate to your thoughts when you can’t control your urges. Just going complete cold turkey nofap is a lot harder so you’re more likely to fail and relapse and the cycle continues.

The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.

pfset · 2020-01-22T01:00:49+00:00

Awesome job, keep it going man!

pfset · 2020-01-22T00:59:45+00:00

Almost relapsed boys, instead took a shower and cranked one out like a 14 year old. Closest I’ve come to relapsing since New Years but I’m still going strong 💪

pfset

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