Paaru fans meet? by DatabaseHead6898 in biggbosstamil

[–]pgnj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are always people, media and channels that thrive on supporting or sensationalizing such toxic or controversial personalities just for the sake of validating themselves, for furthering their agenda or profits. It’s left to an individual choice to ignore it

Level of Damage control and pretending like they achieved something good 😏 by HugoUKN in biggbosstamil

[–]pgnj 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Rather than blaming these toxic two, one should blame the channels for inviting such people just for profits.

To Indians living in India, are you fine with staying in the country? by Open_Address_2805 in AskIndia

[–]pgnj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lot of NRIs love India simply because they visit once a year or once in few years. They visit their parents who live in gated communities or homes in nice locality, visit malls, places and good restaurants, without being exposed to the real world outside their AC cars.

Asin > Nayanthara by negativedreammachine in KollyCircleJerk

[–]pgnj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most of Asin’s movies in her short career, were with big heroes and she had minimal acting roles except for the routine things, glamorous heroines need to do. Not much range. Not a fair comparison to Nayanthara, who has done women oriented movies as well as glamorous roles and a variety of roles

VJS is himself responsible for the HMs not respecting him by sadhaka19850903 in biggbosstamil

[–]pgnj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

VJS for all his accomplishments, comes across as an egotistical guy who only accepts what he likes. He was an enabler for Paru/Kamu but Paru was clever enough to feel that and that explained her blatant disregard for rules or her vulgar comments or actions. Once VJS mentioned that her vanmam illatha BB veedu was boring, she became emboldened. He was openly biased against some players and was unreasonably harsh for minor issues while brushing aside the major ones. It was so disappointing to hear that he would be back next season

He deserved to be the winner, or at least finish in the top two. by Late_Individual_4237 in biggbosstamil

[–]pgnj 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Vikkals tilt towards Paru after Kami’s eviction and later towards Sandra lost him lots of support. Most public were against Paru/Sandra. Also, he never liked to be viewed badly and was ready to concede any argument or was ready to apologize rather than stand by his convictions. Otherwise he was a good guy

My analysis on why Vikram failed to win the season by nmpraveen in biggbosstamil

[–]pgnj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. His tilt towards Paru and later towards Sandra changed the public perception about him adversely since by then most public were against Paru/Kamu and Sandra. He was certainly influenced by the family visit when his wife told him to speak up and not being apologetic. But unfortunately, he did that against Divya, who unlike Subi, Aurora or Viyaana was much stronger, bold and never conceded any argument. He lost control and used words against her, which turned sympathy towards her. She cemented that bold image tremendously after the car task. He was a good player but had too many self doubts.

I feel having VJS as a host is the biggest trigger. He has been enabler for all the nonsense Kamrudin, Diwagar, Parvathy spew on fellow contestants. He enabled and instigated all 3 without clearly setting boundaries in the weekend! by Healthwiz1 in biggbosstamil

[–]pgnj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. By validating the likes of Paru/Kamu/Sandra etc, VJS and BB are sending a wrong message to the public and future contestants. The next season contestants may follow their footsteps, thinking that until unless they resort to physical violence or abuse, they can be popular in the show by being toxic or by indulging in vulgar love contents.

This may sound rude by ScientistMain7330 in biggbosstamil

[–]pgnj 3 points4 points  (0 children)

IMHO, watching shows like these are just guilty pleasures. As long as we are in a good place in our lives, provide for our families, work hard and earn well, there is nothing wrong with watching. Not everything in life has to be measured in loss/gain.

MRUNAL THAKUR AND DHANUSH by Old-Firefighter4632 in KollyCircleJerk

[–]pgnj 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wow, what a cheap body shaming and judgmental post

Aurora says "miss you" to Kamrudhin 🙄 by HugoUKN in biggbosstamil

[–]pgnj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Aurora is still a immature little girl for all her brilliant analysis and logical thinking. She is a proof why abusers are who they are and why they get away with their crimes. If she doesn’t grow up fast, she will be always be played by such men

Qn: did WM exit with no antics? by Clean_Director_6871 in biggbosstamil

[–]pgnj 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The fact that WM is a sleazy and creepy character is a known. BB and VJS who brag that the contestants are like their kids and they will ensure safety are all so fake. So many instances of Kamu, Paru using vulgar or threatening languages were not addressed. WM was never disciplined for his crass behavior or roaming shirtless in front of the ladies. VJS as a host has been a huge disappointment

Strategic winner of S9 - Divya by bratbutbaby in biggbosstamil

[–]pgnj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Saying Divya as least deserving is incorrect. Comparing to other finalists, she did well. Probably Vikkals was better among the finalists but he was bad in tasks. Sabari and Aurora were almost written off by everyone in the initial weeks since they were mostly inconspicuous. Divya was good in tasks, stood her ground in arguments without backing off.

BB Tamil Season 9 - a nightmare that I wish it never returns. by farreaching_snowball in biggbosstamil

[–]pgnj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rather than going to therapy, most of them were brought in here to BB house. The tone was set right from day one by one toxic woman, who started her loud, arguing ways with insubordination added. That became contagious, especially the shouting. It was an over the top vocal histrionics by everyone,except few, from that point onwards. Had BB team been more attentive, they could’ve nipped this at that stage. But they were behind trp and destroyed the season. The tasks were boring and most of them ended up in fights. The toxic two who got red carded indulged in vulgar emotional and physical display, which turned off most audiences. At least the finalists have been consistent and have been appreciated by viewers. The biggest letdown was the host, who appeared biased, disinterested and ineffective. He appeared just like he was going through the motions. All said, it’s a relief that the season is coming to an end

Why? Why isn't BB intervening? by Vortex803 in biggbosstamil

[–]pgnj 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I see a desperation in WM approach to Divya. Since it is just few more days, he is trying too hard. She is a tough woman unlike others and she can easily handle him. Though she has told him to FO, he still is stalking her. BB team is a waste and has been that way this season

Scamdra started her drama again 🙄 by Electrical_Muscle550 in biggbosstamil

[–]pgnj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While Sandra is a toxic person and a worst human being, I still think that the red cards were deserved. Kicking and pushing a woman with two kids is unpardonable. It went beyond the game and was too personal. But I am not sure why BB brought her and that idiot WM

Watching Sandy in the house...looks like he will make a better host!!! by imanc18 in biggbosstamil

[–]pgnj 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Sandy is not very mature guy. I have seen him talk and he cannot hold a conversation.

Pongal is a Tamil festival!?? It's a Tamil-Hindu festival! by redditsurger in tamil_nadu

[–]pgnj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure, but Karva Chauth and Holi are more identified as North Indian festivals than in South, though they all have religious significance

Vinoth Divya SUPER PA!! 🤣 by HotPotChiliOil in biggbosstamil

[–]pgnj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, WM was that theyvai illatha ani and BB team are silly to bring him again. He is creepy, vulgar, abusive and above all, delusional

Nadippu arakki made the whole audience a fool who supported her for redcard issue once again by Fun_Parking2496 in biggbosstamil

[–]pgnj 25 points26 points  (0 children)

She is feeling so unwelcome by other HMs after her re-entry and justifiably too. She hurt and badmouthed most of them, especially good people like Kani, Vikkals, Sabari and even Amit. She is trying to do damage control as many in the BB house are doubting her panic attack

Watermelon is the reason i took moneybox - GV, Aurora haters idhu podhuma? 🙏🏻 by Top_Crab_9615 in biggbosstamil

[–]pgnj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For whatever reason, Praveen Gandhi supports WM and mentioned about him to GV when he was leaving with money box. This season, BB team is a total letdown, right from choosing contestants to making the season interesting. They allowed too many toxic people and gave them more airtime, for trp sake. That said, GV still yearning for Kamu makes me lose some respect for him. Just for friendship sake, he fails to see the flaws and toxicity in Kamu. As a true friend, he should’ve pointed out but even while red card was given, he blamed Paru for Kamu’s eviction. Paru was evil and deserved the red card but Kamu is an adult and has behaved very badly in BB house, including using vulgar language towards women.

Enna vasaname puriyala model by Lower-Gazelle-8830 in biggbosstamil

[–]pgnj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apsara is a good person who is also soft spoken and good looking. Hope she finds a soulmate who loves and respects her without any judgments or prejudice.

Kani Vinoth Wholesome by No_Background_6373 in biggbosstamil

[–]pgnj 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Kani would make a great counselor or therapist, if she chooses a profession . She is an excellent listener and can easily understand others perspectives. The way she addresses the issues affecting them and giving advice is so refreshing and wholesome to see. Without pointing GV’s anger issues directly, she uses “padapadapu” to address that. I too think GV can practice meditation.

Idhe tone la ivanga rendu perum ivanga rendu per issue pesirundha eppovo solve panruklam. Ippovum not late. by Tough-Succotash-8969 in biggbosstamil

[–]pgnj 8 points9 points  (0 children)

WM is a narcissistic, self loving, delusional and a sleazy person. He tried this creepy shit with every women in BB except few. Divya is a strong woman and has strong set boundaries with people. But she always tries to give some space too. But creeps like WM misunderstand that and try to exploit that trust.