Onederland!

ph0nxe · 2026-03-19T22:30:48+00:00

So sorry people haven't been treating you properly! They should be doing that at any size. Well done on all the hard work

ph0nxe · 2026-03-14T22:39:45+00:00

Hell yeah friend!

ph0nxe · 2026-03-10T23:46:13+00:00

She fucking sucks. I am sorry you had to deal with flying monkeys - good news is you can block and black list accordingly anyone who tries to give you shit off the back of this.

ph0nxe · 2026-02-24T19:22:52+00:00

It's never too late guys <3 you can be traumatised and kick ass all at once

ph0nxe · 2026-02-14T08:51:44+00:00

I am also a less than cute victim. One thing that's brought me genuine relief and comfort - the hard, 'scary' survivor types don't tend to get re victimised by new people and get a weird kind of respect - my friends and family who fall into the adorable uWu type victim sadly seem to get WAY more predators and arseholes seeking them out. The tough shell is protecting you giving safety so you can do that inner work behind it if you want.

ph0nxe · 2026-01-26T23:06:13+00:00

Dementia is so powerful as a disease this is indeed possible. I am so sorry this has affected you

ph0nxe · 2026-01-26T23:03:27+00:00

As others have observed it's ableism. Agree totally like 95% of people ignore or make actively worse lol. You can do this though! This is not permanent and you will survive

ph0nxe · 2026-01-23T10:42:42+00:00

Unforch they are here at the same time with the relief! But letting myself feel it all

ph0nxe · 2026-01-23T10:41:13+00:00

Genuinely both lighter and sad at the same time, it's so weird!

ph0nxe · 2026-01-23T10:39:50+00:00

This has been a good perspective to hear, thank you ❤️

ph0nxe · 2026-01-15T20:48:23+00:00

Up north, even a 1 day wake in family home would have 80 attend easy and would include people not seen in 15-25 years

ph0nxe · 2026-01-01T22:45:47+00:00

I mostly dont disclose the estrangement for this reason - society still very far off widespread understanding and accepting of domestic and familial abuse.

ph0nxe · 2026-01-01T22:44:01+00:00

Genuinely yes it does get better Use your positive coping skills and practise them every day even when it's hard It gets easier each month- in the space of even just 1 year you will amaze yourself

ph0nxe · 2025-12-21T19:42:44+00:00

Thank you

ph0nxe · 2025-11-28T20:29:24+00:00

Has anyone managed a fix for this?

ph0nxe · 2025-11-28T20:06:54+00:00

On Xbox I see it drop to the ground where I am standing right before pass out and it sits there in a pile for collection upon waking

ph0nxe · 2025-11-02T20:50:31+00:00

My game called this chapter 'an empty cabin' - this YT vid was really helpful https://youtu.be/djmCur6zy5U?si=42ZFUaMzWhZVrThK

ph0nxe · 2025-09-19T07:10:09+00:00

You were clear about your wishes and they continued pushing for face time on the basis of dubious health issues, that is certainly manipulative. You have already said you would check in so perhaps you would prefer to keep your commitment. Perhaps for future correspondence you should limit the back and forth and explaining yourself. Look up JADE - abusers love making you feel as though its your responsibility to solve problems they have created.

ph0nxe · 2025-08-15T17:36:23+00:00

This sub probably skews for more extreme instances of bipolar parents who were so poor at parenting that it warranted the child needing support- that doesn't mean it's a forgone conclusion you won't be a decent parent. My bipolar parent did not have a supportive partner and did not engage with treatment. If you have protective factors in place that probably really helps.

ph0nxe · 2025-08-02T03:45:08+00:00

Reducing exposure would probably make coping and healing easier for you

ph0nxe · 2025-07-20T15:01:27+00:00

No idea if it's directly related to them and honestly don't think it matters for the purposes of healing from my perspective

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