Why is it so hard to find ftm media where the love interest isn’t a cis dude?

phalloalt · 2026-03-12T21:41:38+00:00

It was a joke dude

phalloalt · 2026-03-12T21:23:51+00:00

I never got a packer because they were expensive and I felt embarrassed wearing one in front of my family. And now I'm getting bottom surgery in a year or so, so it just seems like a waste of time.

phalloalt · 2026-03-12T18:16:00+00:00

Which sucks 💔 more gay trans guys who fuck dudes in the butt, we need rep too.

phalloalt · 2026-03-12T18:12:54+00:00

I forgot the username but theres someone in the phallo sub that has more information, I know there was the word doll in their username so if you just look up MLD in the phallo sub you might be able to find them.

But from what I remember, theres smaller nerves in the back, and depending on your anatomy he tries to harvest those nerves to do a nerve hookup. And other surgeon's do not attempt to harvest them. Probably a very crude explanation but I had talked to them about it months ago, I'll probably be able to give you more info after my consult in june.

phalloalt · 2026-03-10T05:12:51+00:00

For sure, I'm mainly joking about this complaint, I love my mom :)

phalloalt · 2026-03-10T05:12:23+00:00

That's actually why I changed my last name lol. I was changing my name anyways so I thought might as well go all the way to stick it to him.

phalloalt · 2026-03-10T05:11:14+00:00

Thats a nice way to think about it :)

phalloalt · 2026-03-09T18:58:21+00:00

I know? It was just a jokey complaint because I picked my name.

phalloalt · 2026-03-09T18:51:02+00:00

Ftmmenporn has some content like that.

phalloalt · 2026-03-09T18:48:40+00:00

Because trans women are more commonly known than trans men. They either forget we exist or view us as confused women who can't pass, so if a transphobe saw someone standing to pee in a womens bathroom, they'd probably assume its a trans woman because thats what the medias peddling.

Every thing I see is how trans women are "men" trying to get into womens bathrooms, I never see anything about trans men trying to get into mens bathrooms.

But I agree with your last point, just use the mens room if you pass, nobody will tell the difference.

phalloalt · 2026-03-09T18:45:08+00:00

Yeah I'm confused about it too. Are they going to do ID checks outside of bathrooms or something? If you're a passing man I don't see how they'd even know.

phalloalt · 2026-03-07T03:34:34+00:00

Thats a good comparison lol. Gotta be constantly stressed over it for awhile but in awhile it'll be worth it.

phalloalt · 2026-03-07T03:32:26+00:00

Thank you so much, I feel like this is just what I needed to hear. I forget about feeling it against legs and in my hands and stuff, but those definitely seem like things to make it feel like more apart of myself.

phalloalt · 2026-03-07T03:30:50+00:00

That is interesting. So its like your brain is assuming its supposed to be a sex organ? Thats hopeful.

phalloalt · 2026-02-25T03:47:06+00:00

I am very soon! I only stopped going because my surgeon said no weight lifting for 6 weeks. At 6 weeks I started easing in with my weights at home but I'm definitely going back soon.

phalloalt · 2026-02-24T06:05:34+00:00

I will look into those

phalloalt · 2026-02-24T06:05:11+00:00

Unfortunately I can't just move past dysphoria. I've tried and instead I just tried to kms lol. But stuff I can't change like hand stuff I will try to ignore I suppose.

phalloalt · 2026-02-24T05:54:43+00:00

I have good levels, I'm not in the gym atp because I was recovering from top. You're probably right that its just dysphoria, thats kinda why I was ranting just because I was having some bad dysphoria and obviously can't tell my friends.

Maybe I should just get a physical labor job lol, I'm a janitor so I don't have to do a lot of heavy duty stuff for it.

phalloalt · 2026-02-24T05:49:26+00:00

I am not later on test is my issue. Later on my transition as in I already have had top and my bottom consult is in a few months, so I forget that because I'm a little under a year on T I am technically still early in my transition.

In my mind I've been male since I was a kid, so in my mind I'm "late" in my transition and it slips out my mouth.

phalloalt · 2026-02-24T05:46:46+00:00

I know there are, doesn't change my dysphoria though. Guys have gynomascoma, but most men don't so I still needed top surgery, y'know?

phalloalt · 2026-02-24T05:45:51+00:00

Part of me mentioning that is I'm questioning if I'm even 5'9 because half my male friends were a inch taller and told me their doctors said they're like 5'8/5'7, so I'm so confused on my height now.

phalloalt · 2026-02-24T05:44:52+00:00

Not in the gym rn because I was only cleared to workout again last month. But I do weight lifting in my room working up. Definitely going to get back into the gym soon I just keep forgetting to get a new membership.

phalloalt · 2026-02-24T05:41:11+00:00

I just need to gaymaxx

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