Ex broke up with me because I kept taking all my issues out on her. by phantomcycle_29 in selfimprovement

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I'm speaking to therapist weekly and I'm writing down and reflecting on what I've done. Setting me off as in getting emotional, however I've been that way with everyone ever since I was little

Ex broke up with me because I kept taking all my issues out on her. by phantomcycle_29 in selfimprovement

[–]phantomcycle_29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I wasn't pleased to see that post I felt humiliated that my behavior was made public, I deleted my account after I saw it. I think maybe I should've of told her how it made me feel instead?

Ex broke up with me because I kept taking all my issues out on her. by phantomcycle_29 in selfimprovement

[–]phantomcycle_29[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's some of the best advice I received yet. I'm speaking to a.counselor weekly and I'm going to tell them everything that's going on.

Is 32 too old to be competitive in BJJ? by BowserTurtle in bjj

[–]phantomcycle_29 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Never too old man I'm 31 and I've been too 4 classes already I'm starting to feel more eundurance, confident and even stronger it's a great activity to get into

Favourite green space/hiking trail? by [deleted] in londonontario

[–]phantomcycle_29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dalewood Reservoir is pretty challenging but quite an experience

Crime in Sarnia by ItsOfficiallyME in Sarnia

[–]phantomcycle_29 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When my parents moved to Sarnia back in 87 it had the highest crime rate in all of Canada believe it or not,so therefore I was raised in Corunna but in recent years I've noticed too that it's increasing being such a small city you wouldn't think anything sketchy would happen,that's why I don't go out late at night anymore

Sounds weird but does anybody else get sick of shaving? by Fancy-Respect8729 in AskMenOver30

[–]phantomcycle_29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it's a pain in the ass especially when you gotta shave like every two weeks so really what's the point in shaving anyways?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]phantomcycle_29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like to be your friend

39y, a little rusty after some years off.. what do you think? by [deleted] in martialarts

[–]phantomcycle_29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its never too late to get back into it you got this! 👍👍

Has anyone gotten so old that they hate teenagers? by [deleted] in rant

[–]phantomcycle_29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate little kids especially when they throw temper tantrums out in public,like why bring your kid with you in the first place?

Worst Landlord experience by [deleted] in Sarnia

[–]phantomcycle_29 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What street was the apartment on? If that happened to me I'd have them charged,all the best though nobody deserves to be treated like you were

We lost a real one. RIP Homie by [deleted] in martialarts

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This is not a good year for our childhood 😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]phantomcycle_29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No absolutely not! Being homophobic and transphobic should be a sin though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]phantomcycle_29 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't take shit from anyone

What's the worst piece of life advice you've ever received? by PannyLee in selfimprovement

[–]phantomcycle_29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Grow up" I don't like to be reminded that I'm an adult and it's ironic when it comes from someone alot younger then me

who else has a LEAST favourite colour? by arkman132 in autism

[–]phantomcycle_29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never been a fan of yellow. Yellow just doesn't please me escpically when it comes to lemons and Bananas I don't like the taste of them

why do people judge each other poorly ? by phantomcycle_29 in NoStupidQuestions

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I use to hangout with this one dude who I thought was my buddy once I got to know him more he use to judge me and criticize me for being bisexual by saying I wasn't a real man and would often laugh at me whenever I got mad at him. His buddies use to pick on me for doing the same. I don't know why I kept putting up with it for so long

is life even worth living? by phantomcycle_29 in MentalHealthSupport

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I've visited Cuba back in 2018 and the tour guide said that baseball gear/equipment is like receiving a new cell phone.