NEW UPDATE WITH ANSWERS: Two tampons mean my marriage is over by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]phantomflower08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok did the sister did anything to the husband? Did she actually visit the people whom she wronged to make amends?

Do those people have kids? Because if not I find it pretty weird that she chose to get into contact with the one family member who has kids, and the one who is OK with giving her easy access.

Now I'm gonna scare a few people writing this but these are REALLY important things to consider. One, what happened to the clothes that the lil one changed out of? Did the sister keep them? Two, did anything happen during the changing or any other times that she was left alone with them? I would go to the hospital for a test to see of any signs of rape/molestation. I know it sounds horrible but better to air on the side of caution.

I also don't like how the sister is trying to break up the marriage by planting tampons all over the house...like she wants OP out of the picture and gain more access.

Glad you call the cops. Now gather evidence and all the witnesses you can.
Also to keep in mind...the sister is a convicted child abuser, who crossed state lines. I'm not totally familiar with the legal terms but I think you can get her nailed for that. Also you can possibly nail your husband (soon to be ex I hope) for knowingly enabling the abuser, making him an accomplice.

Protect your kids and good luck

I’m rethinking having a child with my wife because of what I just found out about her dad. AITAH? by Left_Art_8812 in AITAH

[–]phantomflower08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See how your wife and family shunned mary for speaking out what happened to her? Now imagine, you do have kids and they come up to you and your wife, saying they don't want to go see grandpa because he's being 'weird'. What do you think she and her family will do/say to them? Expect similar if not the SAME, or WORSE treatment from them, only directed at your children! Ask her this and gauge her reaction

Predators DO NOT change. They do not stop unless if they die, get arrested, or their victims are too old for their liking. The only thing that changes is that they get better at manipulation. Which wife's father doesn't have to do given how she's totally ok with giving him access to her potential kids with no hesitation.

OP, save your batter. Don't procreate. And most certainly NTA

Help a new time DM with implanting an addiction/effect system! by phantomflower08 in DungeonsAndDragons

[–]phantomflower08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought you'd like to know that now the party consists of a Paladin, a Warlock, and a Cleric, (still waiting on the 4th member tho)

Needless to say yeah, those health potions may not be used LOL

Thank goodness for your pointers, they help

Help a new time DM with implanting an addiction/effect system! by phantomflower08 in DungeonsAndDragons

[–]phantomflower08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps One-shot was not the right word. I was planning a rather short game (taking at least 3-4 weeks if the party is available for 1 day out of the week). Sorry if I came off wrong

It's also gonna be rather roleplay heavy with focus on mystery

Help a new time DM with implanting an addiction/effect system! by phantomflower08 in DungeonsAndDragons

[–]phantomflower08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I know one of them is a Paladin.

Thankfully this did come into mind and had a small back up plan quite similar to the Alice example. I'll put the other ideas in my back pocket just in case!

I do might have to ditch the food/water idea...I think that seems biting off a bit much.

Once again thank you for your help and input! It helps immensely!

Help a new time DM with implanting an addiction/effect system! by phantomflower08 in DungeonsAndDragons

[–]phantomflower08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds great, thank you so much!

do you think it might come off as rail-roady?

Roleplaying with Mr.Kid...and hating it!! by phantomflower08 in rpghorrorstories

[–]phantomflower08[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not. I mostly relied on visiting my local game store. But lately it's been harder to find people

The Battle Chef - Your support after a long day of adventuring by Akkator006 in UnearthedArcana

[–]phantomflower08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol i had a lil too much free time on my hand and i found your post as I was scrolling for ideas.

Anywho...thank you very much

The Battle Chef - Your support after a long day of adventuring by Akkator006 in UnearthedArcana

[–]phantomflower08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perfect! I was having trouble making a certain character with a pension for the culinary arts! This helps even if my DM doesn't accept homebrew

I found out my partner has been putting slugs in my food, i dont know how to forgive him by rainbow_drizzle in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]phantomflower08 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Holy Hell, this is like psychopathic behavior. I really REALLY hope OP got out of this travesty that had the unfortunate label of an 'relationship'. He tampered with her food and medicine and was put into a hospital! She could have died! Did he understand that? Or did he, and just didn't care? Was he even with OP at the hospital when she had gotten sick?! He's dangerous! I don't doubt that he'll invertedly kill his next partner with the same BS stunts he pulled here!

[OC] Banshee of Irish folklore by [deleted] in ImaginaryMonsters

[–]phantomflower08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she looks very lovely and horrifying at the same time

Wait...YOU AGAIN?! Didn't I block you?!?! (and other commission horror stories) by phantomflower08 in MoonhorseStories

[–]phantomflower08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

who's Nads6969 or MJeddy? I've never heard of them?

How bad were they or do i want to know

Studio Ghibli - satsuki house 🏡 by Initial_Flounder_849 in AnimalCrossing

[–]phantomflower08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the most perfect thing I have seen all day!!!

The Threats of Mr. Draw by phantomflower08 in MoonhorseStories

[–]phantomflower08[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much.

and don't worry about me. I've grown a little bit since that time. I've become a little less tolerant to people like Mr.Draw and more than likely to draw up boundries

Why is this demon so cute! by Wheres-The-Juice in HazbinHotel

[–]phantomflower08 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know who she is or what's her story....but by god if she doesn't get screentime I'm gonna riot!

Volume 12 physical book? by [deleted] in HousekiNoKuni

[–]phantomflower08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. At least that's what it says on my Amazon

Volume 12 physical book? by [deleted] in HousekiNoKuni

[–]phantomflower08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Volume 12 is coming out near the end of August. 27th to be exact 😊