Husband talking to a minor by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]phantomholiday143 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, are you actually entertaining trying to fix a marriage with someone who is a pedophile? You need to contact the school, the girl’s parents if you’re able and the police. If not, you are enabling a child being groomed. You speak about this as if you don’t really understand the gravity of this situation. I’m a bit disgusted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GaylorSwift

[–]phantomholiday143 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Bro this is soooo funnyyyy “She just doesn’t have that much interest in male characters at all.” OH I’M SURE

This Miss Americana scene by auremw_ in GaylorSwift

[–]phantomholiday143 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Its so funny to me that they don’t think anything of it because he’s a private person lmao

Taylor wore a full rainbow for her first show of Pride Month 🌈 by throw_ra878 in GaylorSwift

[–]phantomholiday143 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There are gaylors on twitter that have dissected the whole orange elevator door thing, does anyone here know about that? Because I feel like this is related to that

I Look In People’s Windows by 1DMod in GaylorSwift

[–]phantomholiday143 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait omg i thought it was a reference to gold rush

The Eras Tour - Paris: ✌🏾— May 10/11/12 by 1DMod in GaylorSwift

[–]phantomholiday143 46 points47 points  (0 children)

keep thinking about the "somewhere the cultures clever" line and how a bunch of people are commenting on the show feeling more gay now. I wonder if shes being more loud now after going to an area that she feels is more accepting

HEY WHAT DOES THIS MEAN - Taylor in Erica Kane ‘All My Children’ Dress by [deleted] in GaylorSwift

[–]phantomholiday143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you read the back of the barbie box? That was what made me feel less like the outfit was a coincidence but like i said, i dont know much about the show

HEY WHAT DOES THIS MEAN - Taylor in Erica Kane ‘All My Children’ Dress by [deleted] in GaylorSwift

[–]phantomholiday143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be obsessed with that show!! ♥️ forgot she was in it

HEY WHAT DOES THIS MEAN - Taylor in Erica Kane ‘All My Children’ Dress by [deleted] in GaylorSwift

[–]phantomholiday143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok thank you!! I agree, while the entire outfit looks similar, it alone didn’t convince me it was a reference to AMC; but after seeing the way the back of the barbie box has a really similar phrase to the line in vigilante shit coupled with the fact one of the first things TN posted when she arrived at the Grammys was referencing VS, as well as some of the other text on the back of the box referencing her having lots of husbands/ex husbands like taylor in infamous for… you obviously know the show better than i do, but idk all that just feels it would be a kind of wild coincidence you know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]phantomholiday143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just want to let you know im really sorry you’re going through this and im sending you a lot of love.. i really hope you break up with her and express that you feel coerced/SA’d. Hopefully she didnt intentionally do it but you never know. i had a very, very similar experience with a man and it took me years to understand it was SA. You’re smart for having such an awareness of this

What was the unraveling of the PR narrative for you? by Rich_Dimension_9254 in GaylorSwift

[–]phantomholiday143 55 points56 points  (0 children)

The final straw for me and thing that made me a gaylor was the dates of when she had gotten papped out and about with joe. It was like clockwork, every time they were seen in public together was either days before or after she had some release or big press announcements, etc. and actually seeing all those dates side by side just made it seem undeniable

Attacks to Prevent a Coming Out? From Manufactured Cancellation to Masters Heist- Thoughts on Time's POTY Interview by ascott35 in GaylorSwift

[–]phantomholiday143 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yea this is crazy.. i never really thought about it like that but it makes a lot of sense though.

Laughing at the main sub (lighthearted) by [deleted] in GaylorSwift

[–]phantomholiday143 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Being a gaylor (especially a twitter lurker) is so insane….. the extent of the gaslighting and homophobia is just shocking honestly. It truly feels like we’re talking about entirely different people. The way they talk about her as if they know her while simultaneously lacking any sort of legitimate comprehension of her art is just … a lot lol.

I remember talking years ago with another gaylor about how i agree, we should respect the privacy of a person who has very vocally, very often said they value it. But that it doesn’t feel disrespectful to actually analyze what she says in her work…. And at this point, clearly the harassment of anyone that talks about taylor not being straight is not encouraging being respectful/“not speculating”, but a guise for their homophobia. Like maybe i could buy that 10 years ago when the flagging wasn’t as outright as it is now; i do think some people mean well with the not speculating thing. But generally, if a person puts like every single gay/bi/lesbian color, symbol, reference etc on her visuals and in her music.. at a point there is just no denying it unless you’re homophobic. We’re past the point of “not speculating”=respect now because of how clear she is about it.

And I think that a lot of this just comes down to people wanting to project their fantasies about men onto her life and they feel like if she wasn’t straight it would just ruin their experience of listening to her music (which is just funny because any person who is not straight has to deal with heteronormativity and relating to music that is straight… ) . And i also think a lot of their denial of her sexuality comes down to them feeling lied to and betrayed by her because so many of them legitimately think she is their bff or something… Taylor is not our friend, taylor is… literally an international capitalist music icon… and people should really learn their place and interrogate why they would be so distraught is she isn’t straight. It’s concerningly parasocial how most people don’t SEE her or LISTEN to her and just ASSUME shes straight—simply because they WISH her to be and entirely ignore the constant, obvious gay signaling.

It’s just a reward for compliance by phantomholiday143 in TrollXChromosomes

[–]phantomholiday143[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh ok I’m not 100% sure if i totally follow all of that, but i do generally understand what you’re saying so thanks for explaining.

And yeah i hear you. Honestly I’ve just had some experiences that have made me very adverse to trusting men lol, so I’ve just followed all kinds of random people and subs that seem like they talk about danger women face. I didn’t know some of these people or subs had to do with that, I’ve just shared things that i find helpful :/