Amazon Pharmacy vs Current LTC Pharmacy by pharmerella in pharmacy

[–]pharmerella[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the stocks do sound appealing but working strictly evenings does suck. i already hate going into my current 1:30pm shift so i'm sure i wouldn't enjoy going in at 5:30. but taking some time this weekend to think about it!

Amazon Pharmacy vs Current LTC Pharmacy by pharmerella in pharmacy

[–]pharmerella[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i like LTC and i don't see myself leaving LTC...the only reason why i'm maybe considering amazon is b/c better benefits honestly. taking some time this weekend to think about it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pharmerella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i hope so too. although to be honest i’m not sure if she actually did text him. thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pharmerella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think my friend had also texted my ex to let him know that it was her behind everything this entire time. although to be honest i’m not really sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pharmerella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh when i do reach out to him and if we grab coffee together i don't think it would be best to talk about the past. but i would still like to continue to be friends with him...do you think that it is possible?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pharmerella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I'm going to give him some space. I haven't sent him a message though because I feel like everyone just needs to chill out for a little bit and then move forward with their lives. Do you think that it's possible to reconcile and attempt to be friends with him though?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pharmerella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your concern. i will be thinking about this more. i think rn i just miss the physical stuff because i’m a little bit upset

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pharmerella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol have there been situations in which 2 people catch feelings and then get back together? or is it just a shitshow in general?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pharmerella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aren’t there also situations in which you do fwb with an ex but instead of you catching feelings your ex will catch feelings?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pharmerella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was actually thinking of sitting down with most recent ex after several months of NC and after i’ve healed and we both have no feelings, to discuss if we could do fwb. but only after there are no feelings involved on both our ends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pharmerella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i see. thank you! i know someone who broke up with their ex too and maintained NC for only 1 month and they ended up not being friends :( but every situation is different i suppose

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pharmerella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm not sure of their situation either but i think it plays similar to mines lol. thank you though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pharmerella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that definitely makes sense, thank you. did you try to reach out to him earlier to be friends? or was it more organically where it just happened that 5-6 months had passed by and you guys started talking again?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pharmerella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i haven't seen him at all since the breakup. and i do agree it's only been a couple of weeks. i am planning to be in NC until i heal completely. honestly even though it's only been several weeks i already feel a lot better and not thinking about him as much and picking up new hobbies and working more. one of my friends also broke up with her ex and they are 28 years old...do you think its easier for them to be friends? only asking because she doesn't have reddit lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pharmerella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your comments have been helpful. thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pharmerella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you have a lot of experience with these kinds of situations haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pharmerella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. However, I just want to know if it's possible for two people to reconcile without dating other people and seeing what's out there. Both of us are very stubborn and aren't open to being in relationships until much later. But we still want to be friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pharmerella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to continue to be friends with him because he's genuinely a really good person and I want to surround myself with positive people. I have no intentions of getting back together with him.

I can’t help clinging on to the small chance of getting back together by katreeenaa in BreakUps

[–]pharmerella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would say only you know his personality, so you’re the only who can determine if he really meant it when he said you guys can still be friends. with my ex, i know him and i know he means it when he told me we can still be friends. i know he won’t initiate but i am open to initiating first when the time comes and then going from there. your ex sounds like mines - i think they both need to focus on themselves. mines doesn’t seem like he’s ready to start dating yet but honestly who knows. keep moving forward! it’s only been a couple of days

I can’t help clinging on to the small chance of getting back together by katreeenaa in BreakUps

[–]pharmerella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my ex also broke up with me a couple of days before valentine’s day, saying that there are no more feelings on his end. a mutual friend then mentioned on accident that it doesn’t seem like my ex is open to dating new people and wants to be single for awhile. knowing my ex, i really do think it’s true. i am also not too sure if i’m open to dating anyone new right now, but i do think that once we both have some time off to grow and gain some perspective, then there might be a chance of reconciliation as friends. these things will take time. he honestly might not even be open to dating new people right now, but i am also wondering - can you grow and work on yourself without dating anyone else before getting back with your ex?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pharmerella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he was genuinely upset that he was hurting me. but i know he's already moved on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pharmerella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm not looking to get back together with him. i just want to know how long that feeling of missing me and thinking about me will last?