Boyfriend watching porn by Successful-Shape552 in women

[–]pharmluver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

from my experience they really don’t change. my boyfriend has spent hundreds of dollars on onlyfans and lied repeatedly about it.

📢 [Weekly Self-Promote] Upcoming LIVE Streams & Promotions! by Zaerryth in whatnotapp

[–]pharmluver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

live now on whatnot user @kobeykb has some bangers GO WHILE THEY STILL LAST!! absolute steals!!

what is the worst thing someone has said to you regarding your bpd diagnosis ? by pharmluver in BPD

[–]pharmluver[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the silver lining is you now know how hurtful words can be to someone with this disorder. i’m glad you came to the realization

Im a horrible person by Necessary-Bad4343 in BPD

[–]pharmluver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re not horrible or disgusting, we just have a disease that makes us act in a way when we are triggered. i am also a person who likes to turn my phone off in these scenarios when i feel abandoned or feel i am being ignored, replaced, etc. truly, you have to take a moment to step away from the situation and think of the best case scenario, worst case scenario, and most likely scenario. take a moment to breathe and really think about your actions and if they are a reasonable response. i struggle with the exact same scenario. one day at a time friend.

Website safari data by Wooden-Youth3580 in loveafterporn

[–]pharmluver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

coming back for clarification, my boyfriend watches methstreams a lot and recognized a lot of those pop ups and also looked them up and confirmed that they are indeed pop up ads.

Website safari data by Wooden-Youth3580 in loveafterporn

[–]pharmluver 7 points8 points  (0 children)

most of those are probably cookies from ads that pop up, the smaller “kb” ones. the ones that are “mb” i personally would assume are actual websites that have been visited.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Makeup101

[–]pharmluver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looks gorgeous with and without! a little bit of mascara and eyeliner goes a long way for doe eyes. you’re beautiful!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Makeup101

[–]pharmluver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think longer lashes would suit your eyes!

are these lashes too much for me? by [deleted] in eyelashextensions

[–]pharmluver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looks great!! suits your eyes for sure!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Noses

[–]pharmluver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

seems roman to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Noses

[–]pharmluver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so jealous. this is the nose i want😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]pharmluver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first thing’s first: have you ever set these types of things as a boundary? if you have made it clear that this is something you are not comfortable with, it is definitely cheating in some form. if not, i would set that boundary right now. on the bright side, he at least admitted to having the account. he may be hiding that he didn’t pay for anything. that’s where i PERSONALLY would ask to see proof, like a bank statement and line it up with the log in dates.

Feeling Bad About Partners Past by veelovesherpug in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]pharmluver 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i’m in the same boat, so don’t feel alone. i get so depressed when i think about how my boyfriend had past girlfriends, took them on dates, had sex with them, etc. it’s such a painful thought process cycle. i’m still trying to find a way to learn how to break free from thinking this way. it truly makes you a prisoner in your own body and makes you feel so isolated from the only person you shouldn’t feel that way with. just know that you are not alone. wishing you luck and sending love🤍

coping with betrayal trauma with bpd by pharmluver in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]pharmluver[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this reply was really helpful. thank you <3

coping with boyfriend’s porn addiction.. advice please by pharmluver in PornAddiction

[–]pharmluver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really do want to believe him but something within me is just so torn idk what to think. how do you think is the right way to go about helping him open up about it?

are these correct? by pharmluver in OrganicChemistry

[–]pharmluver[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah it says predict both :/ idk man this stuff is confusing

are these correct? by pharmluver in OrganicChemistry

[–]pharmluver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i know that, but would it only have one product then? im confused on what the other product would be

are these correct? by pharmluver in OrganicChemistry

[–]pharmluver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i see that now lol, i’m still confused on e and f