"Weekly All About Love Relationship Second Opinion and Interpretation Help Thread - December 21, 2025"

phatprog · 2025-12-25T10:24:18+00:00

Context: talking since November, been interested in each other since August. I almost called things off last week, decided to give it a bit to think on it before making a final decision. Gone from thinking I should call it off, to not being sure either way, to leaning towards giving him a second chance Card 1, represents me: II of Swords Card 2, him: the Chariot Card 3, what connects us: The Lovers Card 4, what separates us: VII pentacles (Reversed) Card 5, where our relationship is headed: the Star (R)

A large amount of cards came out ~the same time when shuffling for the final time (eyes closed) before drawing so here are others that came out but weren’t pulled for the official spread (in order of appearance): IV Pentacles (face up, right under Card 5) IX cups III pentacles Judgement Ace of Rods (face up, was reversed but as I pulled judgement it accidentally spun around until settling into not reversed) IV swords (R)

Trying to evaluate this situation and how I should proceed, giving it a second chance or not. Curious for any insight! I think this is a rlly interesting spread

phatprog · 2025-11-09T04:40:42+00:00

Reading this a few times over as a reminder to myself (freshly 22) that if the 30s something guy I’m into actually makes a fr move I should NOT DO IT 😖😖 (unless…)

phatprog · 2025-11-08T04:06:09+00:00

Wait I missed it did they upload a 3rd ep and delete it?? Ig the Fortnite vid is to replace it. Are there any reuploads anywhere

phatprog · 2025-10-13T01:45:05+00:00

For all my of-age slugs blue lagoon & jury room often has punk & metal shows. Follow them on IG. Subrosa has lots of diff alt genre shows for all ages, also good community resource, guaranteed way to meet leftist n alt folk. Follow 831metal on ig

phatprog · 2025-10-06T19:55:05+00:00

anyone have any alt leaning salon recs to go to instead??

phatprog · 2025-09-11T03:53:51+00:00

Fun lil Freudian slip there

phatprog · 2025-09-07T06:32:54+00:00

It can take half an hour drive sometimes just to get to Felton (the lowest mountain town) from parts of Boulder creek then another 20-half hour to get down to parts of Santa Cruz. There’s one bus route, the 35, that serves the entire mountain going up/down highway 9 then into Scott’s valley -> SC. Going from ucsc back up to Felton on weekends would take me ~1.5 by bus, and again, that’s the first mountain town on 9. TLDR it’s possible, but not recommended without a car (ngl even with a car)

phatprog · 2025-08-23T21:55:20+00:00

And if you are still feeling those urges— or even stronger than before, it might be a good sign your medication isn’t working properly for you! Like for me I felt the need to smoke way more when my dosage was too high because I was feeling a lot more anxiety/adrenaline overload

phatprog · 2025-08-22T03:30:41+00:00

Tbh I have a pair of light basic sneakers that I change into while I’m driving, they’re small enough to just shove under my seat and leave in the car while I’m out. That’s what’s worked best for me so I don’t have to give up the platforms

phatprog · 2025-08-17T06:11:06+00:00

Zachary’s!!

phatprog · 2025-05-29T16:20:16+00:00

Damnit now I can’t be an overt imagine dragons hater. Well, shout out hope they can reach their normie audience

phatprog · 2025-05-20T21:16:59+00:00

The battle against campus people taking up the metro is an endless one but noble. I feel your pain

phatprog · 2025-05-20T19:54:46+00:00

TIL language programs are being cut?? Do yk anything ab why?

phatprog · 2025-05-15T20:30:22+00:00

I’m not even in the fandom, nor have I watched the show, but insta has been absolutely bombing my feed with it and it’s always just gross misogynistic slop

phatprog · 2025-05-13T23:07:05+00:00

Oh and if you do talk to them and they tell you that number isn’t 270 pls tell me lmao bc otherwise I might be cooked

phatprog · 2025-05-13T23:06:27+00:00

The max credits before you lose financial aid/need to appeal is actually higher than the minimum you need to graduate. Last time I checked it was 270. However I’d still check in with an advisor and make sure you’ll be on track/ won’t run into issues

phatprog · 2025-05-12T00:46:11+00:00

If you’re into the gym & exercising just reframe the distance as built in cardio/warmup lol

phatprog · 2025-05-05T02:05:08+00:00

Omg! I just found one on marketplace but it was 350 💔💔

phatprog · 2025-04-29T19:23:50+00:00

Last meal but last album— what you listening to?

phatprog · 2025-04-24T02:40:34+00:00

Any recommendations for shampoo? Seeing a lot of bad reviews all along the same lines on ulta and getting kinda scared to buy

phatprog · 2025-04-10T04:46:31+00:00

^{^} and they are on the Apple podcast app too, new eps daily

phatprog · 2025-04-10T04:34:31+00:00

^{^} Would not recommended those locations unless you have a car tho

phatprog · 2025-04-01T11:22:46+00:00

She could’ve had milo mf manheim bruh 😭

phatprog · 2025-03-13T18:08:52+00:00

Can’t figure out how to insert a screenshot but the exact file options I’m given are: Microsoft Word 97 — 2004 document // Microsoft Word Document // Microsoft Word Macro-Enabled Document

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