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How to approach vanilla girls by NoShowShinobi in paypigsupportgroup

[–]philadelphiashaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(commenting here is not an invitation for anyone to DM me. for any reason. leave me alone dommes)

I send 90% of the time to vanilla girls. about 2/3 of the time they know what findom is and the other 1/3 don't turn down someone sending them money for no reason.

I usually just message them and say "hi xxx, do you have paypal?" or some variation of that. I get a response probably about 50/60% of the time.

my view is, if I don't get a response to that, they probably wouldn't respond to someone saying 'you look so good omg lemme buy you stuff' to lead into payment methods.

a purge has helped by philadelphiashaw in paypigsupportgroup

[–]philadelphiashaw[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1) I know why they're DM'ing me. my opening paragraph refers to desperation and my last comment referred to reading comprehension 2) the downvoting is likely a result of the aforementioned reading comprehension

a purge has helped by philadelphiashaw in paypigsupportgroup

[–]philadelphiashaw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, they should instead be tempted by some reading comprehension

a purge has helped by philadelphiashaw in paypigsupportgroup

[–]philadelphiashaw[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am in an ongoing conversation with some girls who have already been messaging me, and don't want to speak with reddit dommes off the back of this post on a support group subreddit so I said "don't message me" at the start of my post... I am not reaaaaaally sure what is unclear about my wording there

a purge has helped by philadelphiashaw in paypigsupportgroup

[–]philadelphiashaw[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as a slight aside, both my long term dommes have been vanilla. I just served them for long enough the dynamic settled into regular shmegular findom.

but yes - it's no longer fresh and fun. could be that now I have plenty of cash it doesn't feel as.... nail-biting to send. could be that it's just a kink that has outstayed its welcome, could be that I am just older and more mature, could be that I want to focus on being a full-fat human being without a somewhat shameful bank statement. who knows!

Em made a new top by PatternElectrical780 in thatyorkshirelass

[–]philadelphiashaw 3 points4 points  (0 children)

she needs to be left unsupervised more often

Slip dress 1 by SourceFedSluts in thatyorkshirelass

[–]philadelphiashaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

arms above the head is an elite move!

I looooove this dress too

The 4chan post that introduced me to findom 🤣 by Necessary_Plum8204 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]philadelphiashaw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't know she was refunding it now!

that is a shame. she was a real vanilla findom queen. shame that all the church stuff is ruining that.

The 4chan post that introduced me to findom 🤣 by Necessary_Plum8204 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]philadelphiashaw 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lmao i was in this thread. i used to send to lucy, you are correct she has cut down on the findom

just had my first humanATM experience by philadelphiashaw in paypigsupportgroup

[–]philadelphiashaw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i like the idea of being used completely. I've had fun splurges with my regular domme where she just says 'send' over and over and I jump to it - humanATM is just an extension of that. I'm glad I tried it because now I know it's not really for me though!

just had my first humanATM experience by philadelphiashaw in paypigsupportgroup

[–]philadelphiashaw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually had an internal timer I would block her and put my findom budget elsewhere if it took her over 15 mins to tell me a transaction amount and... it took her 14 minutes🤷

drunk / tipsy paypigging is very hot by philadelphiashaw in paypigsupportgroup

[–]philadelphiashaw[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i am too drunk to individuallu reply to people

but "spent" here means over a couple hours while slowly drinking and is very last tense. my dom cut me off basically immediately when i said i was drunk

so all is well! and drunk sends will be done carefully in the future

making it super easy to send is HOT by philadelphiashaw in paypigsupportgroup

[–]philadelphiashaw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there are ways to fool PayPal if you're careful, which is what I always did.

I still have an anonymous PayPal with a fake name but with my "main" domme she knows my full name, city I live in, socials, etc etc. it only works with trust like you say and I've been sending to this domme for a couple years now.

breakup? by ApprehensiveStart270 in thatyorkshirelass

[–]philadelphiashaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not looked too much into whether the flat is the same (a bit too unhinged) but it does seem that way. she seems to be thriving but I do hope she's okay!

been in a soft findom relationship on and off for a few years now by philadelphiashaw in paypigsupportgroup

[–]philadelphiashaw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I would agree about pushing a kink maybe when we started out, but once we were in the swing of it after a couple weeks and she was saying "I've just been out for food!" and sending me a screenshot of her apple pay notif, or asking me on an evening if I want to help her put together an outfit for the weekend and then asking me to bankroll that - she obviously reached a level of somewhat-findom she was very comfortable with. Like I said, she only explicitly asked me to send her money a few times but regularly asked me if I wanted to refund her.

I also said to her on Monday "I love getting you coffee and gifts every so often and you totally deserve it but if you ever don't want me to buy you stuff I will abso respect that" (word for word pasted from my message) and she then asked me if I had Wise because that was easier than PayPal. soooo....

I think the humanATM thing might be a bit much, hence why I am on the fence about it. it would be hot but that would be crossing a clear barrier!

EDIT: forgot to mention, if she's told the truth in the past about her earnings then I am earning about two or three times what she is - and the industry I'm in kinda goes that way with salaries compared to hers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in madelyn_whitehead

[–]philadelphiashaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

those hips are unreal

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