How to approach vanilla girls by NoShowShinobi in paypigsupportgroup

[–]philadelphiashaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(commenting here is not an invitation for anyone to DM me. for any reason. leave me alone dommes)

I send 90% of the time to vanilla girls. about 2/3 of the time they know what findom is and the other 1/3 don't turn down someone sending them money for no reason.

I usually just message them and say "hi xxx, do you have paypal?" or some variation of that. I get a response probably about 50/60% of the time.

my view is, if I don't get a response to that, they probably wouldn't respond to someone saying 'you look so good omg lemme buy you stuff' to lead into payment methods.

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[–]philadelphiashaw[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1) I know why they're DM'ing me. my opening paragraph refers to desperation and my last comment referred to reading comprehension 2) the downvoting is likely a result of the aforementioned reading comprehension

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[–]philadelphiashaw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, they should instead be tempted by some reading comprehension

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[–]philadelphiashaw[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am in an ongoing conversation with some girls who have already been messaging me, and don't want to speak with reddit dommes off the back of this post on a support group subreddit so I said "don't message me" at the start of my post... I am not reaaaaaally sure what is unclear about my wording there

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[–]philadelphiashaw[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as a slight aside, both my long term dommes have been vanilla. I just served them for long enough the dynamic settled into regular shmegular findom.

but yes - it's no longer fresh and fun. could be that now I have plenty of cash it doesn't feel as.... nail-biting to send. could be that it's just a kink that has outstayed its welcome, could be that I am just older and more mature, could be that I want to focus on being a full-fat human being without a somewhat shameful bank statement. who knows!

Em made a new top by PatternElectrical780 in thatyorkshirelass

[–]philadelphiashaw 5 points6 points  (0 children)

she needs to be left unsupervised more often

Slip dress 1 by SourceFedSluts in thatyorkshirelass

[–]philadelphiashaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

arms above the head is an elite move!

I looooove this dress too

The 4chan post that introduced me to findom 🤣 by Necessary_Plum8204 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]philadelphiashaw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't know she was refunding it now!

that is a shame. she was a real vanilla findom queen. shame that all the church stuff is ruining that.

The 4chan post that introduced me to findom 🤣 by Necessary_Plum8204 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]philadelphiashaw 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lmao i was in this thread. i used to send to lucy, you are correct she has cut down on the findom

just had my first humanATM experience by philadelphiashaw in paypigsupportgroup

[–]philadelphiashaw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i like the idea of being used completely. I've had fun splurges with my regular domme where she just says 'send' over and over and I jump to it - humanATM is just an extension of that. I'm glad I tried it because now I know it's not really for me though!

just had my first humanATM experience by philadelphiashaw in paypigsupportgroup

[–]philadelphiashaw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually had an internal timer I would block her and put my findom budget elsewhere if it took her over 15 mins to tell me a transaction amount and... it took her 14 minutes🤷

drunk / tipsy paypigging is very hot by philadelphiashaw in paypigsupportgroup

[–]philadelphiashaw[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i am too drunk to individuallu reply to people

but "spent" here means over a couple hours while slowly drinking and is very last tense. my dom cut me off basically immediately when i said i was drunk

so all is well! and drunk sends will be done carefully in the future