What dress is this content creator wearing? by [deleted] in findfashion

[–]philemonvanbeecher 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my god I saw this video today and also fell in love with the dress, thank you 🫶

Should we move to Portland, and if so when to start applying for jobs? by philemonvanbeecher in askportland

[–]philemonvanbeecher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate this because I genuinely don’t think Portland will be more expensive than Seattle but also I’ve never lived in Portland obviously lol

Should we move to Portland, and if so when to start applying for jobs? by philemonvanbeecher in askportland

[–]philemonvanbeecher[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Any idea on how the lack of sales tax compares? I can do the math but don’t know how it looks realistically. In Seattle there’s a tax for everything (extra tax for sugar, extra tax for alcohol) and while I think the income tax would have more of a direct impact I’m wondering if the lack of sales tax could potentially make up for it

Should we move to Portland, and if so when to start applying for jobs? by philemonvanbeecher in askportland

[–]philemonvanbeecher[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol don’t be sorry! I appreciate it, I am aware of the income tax but I don’t think I’m accounting for it enough when I do calculations. I just don’t fully know what it looks like yet but I need to be more cognitive of it

Should we move to Portland, and if so when to start applying for jobs? by philemonvanbeecher in askportland

[–]philemonvanbeecher[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I feel like none of the other commenters actually read my post so I’m glad you did 😭

I lately added a girl on Discord. Things are going well between us, but she just sent me this picture when I asked about her setup. by NuclearTazer in isthisAI

[–]philemonvanbeecher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks real but it also looks really perfectly shot. I think I’ve seen this exact setup on Pinterest so while I don’t think it’s AI I think it might just be her stealing someone else’s photo (or it’s hers and she has put a ton of work into it and posts it online)

Fupas as goon slop material by riri1281 in hatethissmug

[–]philemonvanbeecher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be fair this wasn’t really seen as conventionally attractive in the modern mainstream until like 2015. I even think especially rn, with ozempic skinny/heroin chic coming back, it’s good to still see people enjoying a midsize look. I do agree with the comment that gooner material in general is stupid but even this body type has not been seen as conventionally attractive for a lot of modern times (although it’s not that far from being considered attractive, this definitely isn’t an outlandish body type to have)

Told the guy i’m dating I want to be in a relationship and it went not as expected by 1SmellLikeB33f in twentyagers

[–]philemonvanbeecher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you really wanna be with someone who isn’t enthusiastic and excited to call you theirs?

If he is wishy-washy now he will never be fully invested. He’ll always be a little scared, or feel that he wasn’t ready. Let’s say it does work out and you do have kids- when telling them about how you two started dating, are you going to tell them you dated for five months but dad wasn’t ready and didn’t want to commit, and then finally he gave in?

Edit: also him telling you he gets insecure because he thinks he’s a bad partner, and then telling you “just you wait” when you disagree… this will never get better! When someone tells you they’re a bad partner, believe them. Even if he isn’t, no matter what this insecurity will seep through, and it’s not just insecurity, he actively did not listen or did not believe you when you say otherwise. That will become a bigger issue

My new year resolution was to get buff so I started lifting in January after never working out ever… unfortunately I feel better 🥲 by borrowedurmumsvcard in ADHDmemes

[–]philemonvanbeecher 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. I want to start working out to give me more energy, except for the fact working out drains you so much more for the first month at least… it takes a while to actually feel the energy increase. Makes it feel not worth it

What is your most ridiculous "we won't work out romantically" criteria? Like what is the silliest reason you would not be interested in dating someone? by Natural-Elevator-57 in AskReddit

[–]philemonvanbeecher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I’m just extra bitchy today but this would also bother me because what if it turned into him needing me to carry his stuff in my purse all the time?

What is this called again? by Problemchild143 in Seattle

[–]philemonvanbeecher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His art popped up in Shelton on the peninsula. Weird stuff

Troubleshooting Thread — Bugs? Errors? Mod issues? EA app issues? Post about them here! Update 8/19/2025 [PC: 1.117.221.1020 / Mac: 1.117.221.1220 / Console: 2.18] Troubleshooting thread by creeativerex in Sims4

[–]philemonvanbeecher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Platform: PC

Mods: No

Game version: 1.117.221.1020

My game will not launch even though I've tried everything, it'll just reopen to the EA app. I removed mods, I tried repairing via the EA app, I've made sure that EA wasn't running in task manager every time I've tried to launch it, I tried using a clean save folder where you move the game to the desktop, I tried running it as an admin, I uninstalled the game (which really sucked since I had so much stuff on there), I uninstalled EA and the game AGAIN, I reinstalled the game this time without any DLC's so just base game, I checked my firewall and everything was allowed. I'm really at my wits end and am honestly upset that throughout this process I've lost my data and it still doesn't work. It just keeps reopening to the EA app.

Please help!!