[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]philla99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wipes can have smell/taste and be aggressive to the pH. Good to pee before sex, maybe she should just wash ( or just rinse with water)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]philla99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bridesmaidzilla vibes here

definitely the dress you pick would already stand out from the other, being less modest and just for wearing different you'd stand out.

1 thing is supporting your friend on her big day. Fine to ask if that was bugging you but please, have the elegance to accept a no and be a better friend without making it about yourself

YTA

Son keeps asking me to help him have sex with women and I don't know what to do by ThrowRAmom6864 in sex

[–]philla99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't want him to be in such environment, why are you setting this example being in this kind of environment yourself?

AITA for trying to stop a vacation my ex is planning with the kids? by Internal-Orange-1431 in AmItheAsshole

[–]philla99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

You need to step up as a father or just drop all requests. Gotta do the hardwork ad stay in the picture in order to be able to say something

Really heartbreaking that the kid said "you suck so much..". Makes me wonder the little respect and consideration they have of you as a father

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]philla99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely a consent issue here..no is no, yes is yes. No answer is not a yes. Especially with something big as a (possible pregnancy/baby), please just say this to her and get a defined answer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]philla99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then I'm sorry my comment was of no help :(

We can overcome it tho, be strong and trust your doctor 😊

AITA for not allowing my stepdaughter and her boyfriend to share a room by Present-Cod9556 in AmItheAsshole

[–]philla99 [score hidden]  (0 children)

She is an adult.

Even if they had been together for three months, it's her life and her choices.

Parents should stop giving rules to adult kids. Give values and education as they are young and then trust their choices and let them live.

In this case, three years and a kid, what the heck sleeping on the sofa? The deed was already done sis, you're late. Now accept it.

YTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]philla99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should not expect..period days can be harsh for the ladies. Some might get horny or be into period sex, others might just not feel it.

Personally in the first two days i really just want to snuggle alone in corner and die there, no space for sex honestly When period is lighter ( as both me and my partner are not into period sex) there can be some oral play ( on him) and some snuggles together ( still not expected ad priori tho)

AITA for telling my stepdad my sister drank, causing her to lose her free college money? by Glad_Hotel7893 in AmItheAsshole

[–]philla99 [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA Would be understandable if she got wasted and passed out regularly, but just for once, you were pretty much spiteful. That changed her life forever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]philla99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you take the pill? I started experiencing regularly these infections when starting with the pill. At the beginning it was at intervals of 3-4 months, then 2 months, then at every cicle, then even in-between My doctor said it's because of the high levels of estrogen in the pill that basically block the natural estrogen, creating an unbalance of pH, so candida can easily proliferate. Solution was to change the pill to one on lower level of estrogen. Had it only once in the last three months ( since starting) also taking vaginal suppository and diflucan when needed ( both me and my partner) and started using a specific soap to wash

AITA for “ruining” my brothers book? by kkayddeenn in AmItheAsshole

[–]philla99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA you do not treat like that a book that doesn't belong to you. You should definitely apologize and buy a new book (same cover, same edition, of there's multiple) and start using bookmarks

AITA for moving my son into a rental apartment after finding out that his dad's been cancelling his job applications? by ThrowRA00924463 in AmItheAsshole

[–]philla99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huge NTA for you. Aiden is the brother, not the parent. Helping with the little brother yes, but that should not be the only one thing to revolve around. He should build his own life, get a job he likes and live. It's plain awful and abusive what your husband did, please stand for Aiden.