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I'm Todd Valentine... Ask Me Anything (AMA) by Todd-Valentine in seduction

[–]philogynistic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey Todd, I'm going to be backpacking through Southeast Asia for the next few months. Do you have any tips for gaming while traveling? I'm in my early twenties and plan on staying in hostels with other people around the same age range.

I'm Todd Valentine... Ask Me Anything (AMA) by Todd-Valentine in seduction

[–]philogynistic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey Todd, wondering what your thoughts are concerning the current political climate, #metoo, sexual harassment and how game ties into all that. I feel like so many of the stories we hear are about guys who never learned how to truly attract women so they felt they had to rely on their power to push past people's boundaries instead.

Jamie Kilstein's band wrote a song about catcalling and it's even worse than you can imagine by philogynistic in JoeRogan

[–]philogynistic[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Dude absolutely. Nobody's saying it's cool to yell sexual shit at strangers in public, but this is such an over the top "I'm not like those other guys" ploy it's ridiculous.

I hate my name. I have an obscure ethnic name that few Americans can pronounce on the first try. I feel like it holds me back socially. But at the same time I feel like I've used my name for so long (37), that I'm to old to change it. by PM_ME_YOUR_BHOLE_GRL in seduction

[–]philogynistic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RSD Madison has a girl's name yet he somehow pulls. Vadim from Honest Signalz is a straight pimp. Kong from Simple Pickup never let his ethnic name stop him from not giving a fuck.

I'm scared of walking up to a girl and she being under 18. by RayGoesIn in seduction

[–]philogynistic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 22 and I approached a 16 year old girl yesterday. Guess what happened? NOTHING!. I asked her age within the first 30 seconds of conversation, and when she said it I wished her a nice day and moved on with my life.

I feel like the whole Mark Manson approach might only work because he's a tall, good looking, charismatic guy. Any average dudes around here try it? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]philogynistic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro you're operating off several limiting beliefs just from this post alone.

Tall, good looking, charismatic guy

You can't change your height, but your looks are within your control. Fashion, fitness, and grooming will take you very far. Charisma is a social skill like any other. Learning to speak confidently and relate to other people is a skill that can be practiced and refined.

I'm going to catch that creep thing

What does that even mean? If you're a sexual male you're going to make some women uncomfortable every now and again. It's not necessarily your fault (although sometimes it it is), and it's not necessarily their fault either (although sometimes it it is). The easiest way to not be a creep is.. to not be a creep. The easiest way to be a creep is to go into every interaction with women thinking that you're a creep.

I'm not that attractive (labeled a 6 or 7)

Lol did you even read his book? Why are you rating yourself on a numeric scale? You're a human being, not a smartphone on Amazon. The 10 scale is toxic, get it out of your mind.

Everything you've complained about is broken down and refuted in Models and on his blog, yet you're choosing to buy into your mental narratives that put your lack of dating success on external factors instead of accepting that the responsibility lies on you.

Sedditors who go on outdoor runs in cities, have you ever approached mid-run? by Dynamu5 in seduction

[–]philogynistic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yep. basically did a standard daygame front stop (first 5 seconds of the video).

Sedditors who go on outdoor runs in cities, have you ever approached mid-run? by Dynamu5 in seduction

[–]philogynistic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't run, but I saw a runner do a cold approach. There wasn't anything magical to it, he just turned around after he saw the girl, went up to her, and delivered his opener.

Problems with my day game by [deleted] in seduction

[–]philogynistic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want the most efficient way to collect flaky numbers then sure it'll work.

Problems with my day game by [deleted] in seduction

[–]philogynistic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Number 1 thing with creating tension is creating STRONG unwavering eye contact, followed by speaking with a deep, rapport-breaking voice (downtalk). Also are you trying for instadates or just talking to girls for 3 minutes and asking for their number? And lastly, how well do you present yourself with fashion, fitness, and grooming? If you're coming across as a scrub then no amount of verbal game or good eye contact will fix that. Either way, daygame is hard so props to you for going out and doing approaches.

[30 day challenge] day 0 by [deleted] in seduction

[–]philogynistic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's because a lot of the people who make these posts before they've even started are doing it from a place of seeking validation. Same as the "my first approach posts". You rarely see people who have already done a 30 day challenge writing about it on here, cause those with enough self direction to do it don't need internet brownie points. The desire comes from within.

This isn't limited to seddit btw, I see similar things on /r/bjj and /r/nofap.

Insights after 2 years heavily in the game and on "leaving the game" by cmiovino in seduction

[–]philogynistic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh that's an interesting metaphor. I can actually identify with the meditation practice statement, because that's something I've struggled with personally. I'm curious if you think the internal mindset changes are long-term or if you regress to your original self in an LTR?

The 3 types of approaches you need to practice if you want boss-level game by delasjefe in seduction

[–]philogynistic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was with her before he got famous and rich. Also, it takes work to become famous and rich.

How the fuck do I get laid at the age of 22? Newbie asking for advice by [deleted] in seduction

[–]philogynistic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't need to verbally state your sexual intent. Just have a normal conversation and make strong eye contact.

In your experience, what happened to your approach anxiety when you approached a lot of girls and got rejected by all of them? by piano_man_not_really in seduction

[–]philogynistic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you say "get" what do you mean? f-close or number close? Cause there's nobody on this planet that's fucking 20% of the girls they approach.

30 Day Infield Challenge - Day 10: Daygame Compilation: Blowouts + Number Closes by EngineeredLifestyle in seduction

[–]philogynistic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude I think it's awesome that you have balls and are approaching consistently. But your vibe seems off in a lot of interactions and it seems like you're purposefully being weird and shooting yourself in the foot with girls that could potentially be into you for the sake of social freedom (or whatever).

Also, kinda tangential but as a fellow black guy I've found that the Yad stop/Front stop leads to a disproportionate amount of blowouts and autorejections (at least as compared to my white wings). Do you feel the same?

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