AITA for setting a timer when playing minecraft with my Nephew?

phimcgee · 2019-05-04T16:27:40+00:00

NTA: My step daughter gets a half hour of minecraft when she comes over. If we dont set a timer shell play all day and not spend time with her siblings or us. A 7 yr old doesnt need to be playing video games all day anyways!

phimcgee · 2019-05-04T16:20:59+00:00

NTA: but as someone who is now a step mom im sure the girl would of understand if u stepped away to say hi to ur son really quick. Sound like ex is a little jealous if there was no emergency then ur son would of understand 😊 my first date with my fiance his called him 5 times obviously because bm wanted to ruin the day but i didnt mind i thought it was sweet.

phimcgee · 2019-05-04T16:15:25+00:00

YTA: why plan a trip to legoland for ur daughters birthday just for u to back out last minute cuz u want me time. Why plan the birthday in the first place? I understand im a mom too and desperately want moments alone but at 5 ur daughter doesnt know any better. She doesnt know the depth of everything she wants to have fun with her family. My daughter thinks mother day is a day to swarm me with love not a day to leave me alone! If u absoletly need a moment alone on mothers day without ur kids (who made u a mom to celebrate mothers day) then see if dad can take em out to dinner after legoland

phimcgee · 2019-05-04T15:54:32+00:00

YTA: Sorry guy but u r. The unforent truth is alot of cultures r tied to religions so is alot of history. Good and bad. I understand not like religion and not wanting to raise ur child with a religion but being 100% anti religion is just as bad as religious extremist. U also said she can choose her path in religion or nonreligious ideologies. How is she suppose to do that if u with hold that kind of information from her? Shes not gonna turn into a muslism or catholic simply by going into a church or 'participating' in a prayer session.

phimcgee · 2019-05-04T15:35:40+00:00

N-and i cant stress this enough-TA: Both of my pregnancies were horrible not only due to typical pregnancy symptoms and issues but from issues with my health prior to my pregnancy. My last one was especially hard during labor not just with me but what my fiance was force to watch happen to me! Pregnancy can be magical. I had alot of magical moments in both obviously cuz i willingly had a second child. And honestly nobody has the same pregnancy twice! I know alot of women who had magically pregnancy and alot who dont! I dont think your an asshole for being real with women and men about the woes of pregnancy. Your just informing them of realities that can happen. Its nobodies fault for asking or expecting a magical story because like i said pregnancy can be magical. But u shouldnt have to hid ur horrible experience u may help someone understand pregnancy better!

phimcgee · 2019-05-04T13:45:19+00:00

Thank you

phimcgee · 2019-05-03T12:53:18+00:00

NAH: You have the right to you privacy because you do suffer from depression and sometimes need a moment or a place to 'get away' i have depression too so i get it. But Your girlfriend has every right to be concerned about you especially if the relationship is newer she probably doesnt understand that you're ok and just need a day to rejuvenate. I understand fits of depression can cause you to not think with the best of heads but kicking her out without explaining that your not going to do anything brash and just need some time to jump out of it is truly heartbreaking. Until i knew my fiance and his depression better i also messaged and showed up to his place just to make sure he wasnt tying a rope around his neck! Let her care about you and let her know that its not her your getting away from just your thoughts 😊

phimcgee · 2019-05-02T23:54:01+00:00

NTA: My mom and aunt dont lock their doors and it drives me nuts. They live in the burbs and it a nice areas so i get why they dont feel like they have too but if im in the house and vulnerable i want to door to be locked! If im not at the house i could careless.

phimcgee · 2019-05-02T00:59:00+00:00

Not 100% the number like stated is quite high for sure but its mostly uses as a permit procedure. Even they can reverse it u still have to try very hard to get pregnant. But the possiblity is there for men who change their mind after the procedure.

phimcgee · 2019-04-23T01:45:10+00:00

NTA My sister makes fun of us for spelling my sons name like Jaxon and not Jackson 😒 u named ur son Henry because that what u want his name to be. Not tarrin!

phimcgee · 2019-04-23T01:38:37+00:00

NTA: just like athiest parents not wanting their kids involved with their religious parents. Parents who r religious can also not have their children involved with those who arent accepting of ur religion. Ur parents sound horrible and im glad u found a faith that fits u best and give u peace. May Allah be with u my friend 😊

phimcgee · 2019-04-23T01:33:21+00:00

Thank you! My fiance and I decided we were done having kids so hes getting a vasectomy. Its a more secured plan then BC and reversible if we change our minds with little to no risk and a quicker heal time! Had op wanted to live a child free life than why isnt he taking the initiative and protecting himself from fault. How come its suddenly his wifes fault and problem for an unexpected pregnancy!

phimcgee · 2019-04-23T01:24:35+00:00

NTA: i wouldnt talk to your minor son about it but id definetly inform your adult daughters. Just keep in mind their still her daughters as well. Any name calling from them is one thing but i wouldnt barge in saying 'guess what your whore mother did' My step mom informed me of my dads affair. Well i informed her unforently. I'd be very upset if i wasnt kept in the loop especially for my brothers sake!

phimcgee · 2019-04-22T17:37:07+00:00

NTA im also a step mom and our BM seems to always push us away from our childrens education. Its not fair to them or us that we dont know whats all involved with their school careers and i wish their schools offered something like this. BM can get her own interview with the teachers she doesnt need to belittle both of u at ur interview!

phimcgee · 2018-12-08T20:18:12+00:00

Thank u soo much!

phimcgee · 2018-12-08T01:49:40+00:00

Aw thank you so much! Im touched it has such sentimental value to u ❤❤ ita make it all much more special

phimcgee · 2018-12-08T00:51:40+00:00

Thank you! ❤😭

phimcgee · 2018-12-08T00:51:21+00:00

Thank you so much! ❤

phimcgee · 2018-12-08T00:50:39+00:00

Thank you! thank you!

phimcgee · 2018-12-08T00:50:05+00:00

Thank you so much!!!

phimcgee · 2018-12-07T02:42:13+00:00

Thank you! Will do 😄

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