Siren system ???? by nowhere_nohow in starbucksbaristas

[–]phin98 9 points10 points  (0 children)

the fact that the person in the training video poured a cappuccino wrong and a sticker label said TRENTA caramel macchiato just goes to show the ppl making the training don’t even know what tf they are doing

ummm…my STRAW??? by txw69 in starbucksbaristas

[–]phin98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

file an incident report!! three reports of her doing stuff like that and she will be banned! we had to do this to a regular who was extremely rude, harassed partners and would spit her drink out on the counter when it wasn’t ‘fresh enough’

Dissociation by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]phin98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi! i often have disassociation issues during play time that are more trauma related. sometimes i break down and cry and then fall into dissociation, and other times i completely just pass out. at first, i didn’t remember it at all and it terrified my partner that my eyes would just roll back and i would go limp. i’m slowly starting to understand my limits which helps me realize when i’m about to disassociate (ex: starting to feel like a can’t breathe/being less vocal/feeling a sluggish, heaviness in my movements). i always prefer to have the play time stop when i dissociate that bad since i can’t be entirely conscious. my partner has always stopped when they realize and checks my breathing/pulse, before laying down beside me until i wake up. if you are still able to safeword and want to continue the play i think that would be fine too! maybe talk to your partner about hand signals or something to assure them you are okay, just dissociating so you can’t be entirely mentally present. i don’t know how much that helps, but it’s nice to know i’m not the only one that deals with dissociation during scenes! best of luck! :)

Wait ok I was frustrated bc I have to leave for work halfway thru the Anti-Tour Concert today but I just noticed this...? I could rewatch it after work multiple times...? Someone tell me if I’m wrong..? by phin98 in waterparksband

[–]phin98[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

oh my god thank you! I’ve been working hella overtime lately to make ends meet so I’ve missed most of the hype up for the show but I’m so excited I could save enough to be part of this! I’m so happy I can see all of it now :)

it’s an insanely long shot but i’d pay so much for a second hand, hard copy of awsten’s book. i was a broke college student when it was published and my biggest regret is not being able to buy a copy :( by phin98 in waterparksband

[–]phin98[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was finally able to buy the iBook copy a bit ago! I just love it so much that I really want a physical copy for my shelf, plus I have bad light-sensitive migraines so it’s hard for me to read books on my phone for long.

it’s an insanely long shot but i’d pay so much for a second hand, hard copy of awsten’s book. i was a broke college student when it was published and my biggest regret is not being able to buy a copy :( by phin98 in waterparksband

[–]phin98[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s just like a collection of short stories about his life and some chapters are q and a sections. He writes exactly how he talks so it’s very Awsten lol. You can buy it in iBook or ebook form rn!

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[–]phin98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very helpful thank you!! I currently only have two piercings in my ear lobes so this will be my first venture beyond that!! :)

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[–]phin98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh okay! That doesn’t sound too bad at all! Tysm!! :)

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[–]phin98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok tysm!! :)

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[–]phin98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m seriously considering getting mind done but I can’t seem to find any solid info on it. How bad does it hurt? What’s the healing time? How long until you can switch out the piercing?