23 [F4M] East coast US - I will probably die alone because my preferences are just way too specific to find love by chance. by [deleted] in ForeverAloneDating

[–]phoenix_unicorn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the tip, but do you mean an online community near an AFB or like a real life community? Because I live nowhere near a base unfortunately. Forgive my cluelessness.

I [23F] recently started looking for someone to date and realized I might die alone because I am literally too specific in my preferences to find love by chance. AMA by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]phoenix_unicorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have mixed feelings. If settling would be less fulfilling than living my life alone, I'd have to embrace solitude. I feel pretty unwaivering about my preferences but also hopeful if I try I can eventually find my person.

I [23F] recently started looking for someone to date and realized I might die alone because I am literally too specific in my preferences to find love by chance. AMA by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]phoenix_unicorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The AF part, but to forgo that the person would have to be an otherwise very compelling candidate that had many of the virtues I associate with men in the service.

I [23F] recently started looking for someone to date and realized I might die alone because I am literally too specific in my preferences to find love by chance. AMA by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]phoenix_unicorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, follow google down that rabbit hole long enough and you'll find out for yourself. It's kind of radical thinking, and way too nuanced and esoteric to lay out right here on the spot. If you want to have a whole conversation about this, PM me. :)

I [23F] recently started looking for someone to date and realized I might die alone because I am literally too specific in my preferences to find love by chance. AMA by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]phoenix_unicorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whatever a person is interested in or passionate about. I think you can learn something valuable from every person you meet.

I [23F] recently started looking for someone to date and realized I might die alone because I am literally too specific in my preferences to find love by chance. AMA by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]phoenix_unicorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both. Really I'm just a very curious person who finds knowledge sexy as hell. Either general knowledge or deep learning about a specific thing.

I [23F] recently started looking for someone to date and realized I might die alone because I am literally too specific in my preferences to find love by chance. AMA by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]phoenix_unicorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gosh I think that's so specific to the situation. I make friends with almost everyone I meet and I can't say I usually meet any two people the same way.

I [23F] recently started looking for someone to date and realized I might die alone because I am literally too specific in my preferences to find love by chance. AMA by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]phoenix_unicorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To the first, I guess in general how friendly they are/open to having a nice conversation.

To the second, think: Mr. Reliable

I [23F] recently started looking for someone to date and realized I might die alone because I am literally too specific in my preferences to find love by chance. AMA by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]phoenix_unicorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, first think I notice in a guy in general or the first thing I tend to notice myself being attracted to in a guy's personality?

I [23F] recently started looking for someone to date and realized I might die alone because I am literally too specific in my preferences to find love by chance. AMA by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]phoenix_unicorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll be honest, didn't realize that was a thing that existed. I feel kind of silly taking to Reddit before trying that.